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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: SorayaLondonx on 03 July 2015, 05:40:40 pm
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Just to those concerned, I was on Twitter when I saw a lady I follow tweet about this site and how much it drags women through the mud. I did not know of this until today but its really disgusting. It is a website and popular blog used to expose women (who would obviously want their sexual acts private) from instagram and emails which are sent through by men. >:(
tagthesponsor.com
I really just wanted to post this on here, because from browsing the blog and website, I have seen photos of some people I know personally and through social media and I don't think that it is fair that their private lives, emails and messages are being outed and their names being dragged through the mud because of this site. So please be careful on who you speak to through social media outlets.
Examples;
tagyoursponsor.com
tagthesponsor.com/home/2015/6/11/erin-budina-reem-haddad-escorts-ring
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Fairly obviously, if you send someone pictures or text you lose control over what happens to them from that point.
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Fairly obviously, if you send someone pictures or text you lose control over what happens to them from that point.
Yes, but in almost all of these cases these people have not sent pictures to this blog, its being put online and shown to many without their consent or even knowledge
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Fairly obviously, if you send someone pictures or text you lose control over what happens to them from that point.
Yes, but in almost all of these cases these people have not sent pictures to this blog, its being put online and shown to many without their consent or even knowledge
Sorry I'm not really understanding, maybe it's me....so what are they doing? Girls are talking to clients on facebook etc and the clients are then posting the photos and so on from the accounts to this site, is that it?
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Fairly obviously, if you send someone pictures or text you lose control over what happens to them from that point.
Yes, but in almost all of these cases these people have not sent pictures to this blog, its being put online and shown to many without their consent or even knowledge
Sorry I'm not really understanding, maybe it's me....so what are they doing? Girls are talking to clients on facebook etc and the clients are then posting the photos and so on from the accounts to this site, is that it?
I had a nose out of curiosity this afternoon, from what I understand it's a site criticising girls that have sugar daddy type relationships. The girls post on Instagram as models but get flown round the world on luxury holidays get luxury goods in return for sex.
I think the actual site is saying they don't blatantly advertise as prostitutes just as fitness models, was some quite funny stuff on there! Not funny if you don't want to be exposed as a prostitute of course but just shows you should be more careful with your shit! X
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It's like Ian says isn't it, some people choose to send clients photos, use instagram and facebook with clients and so on. You obviously loose control of what happens to your stuff after that and the potential for it to be turned back on you is always there.
It's up to each girl to decide if it's a risk worth taking.
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It's like Ian says isn't it, some people choose to send clients photos, use instagram and facebook with clients and so on. You obviously loose control of what happens to your stuff after that and the potential for it to be turned back on you is always there.
It's up to each girl to decide if it's a risk worth taking.
I think the tagthesponser site is saying that these girls post pictures all over Instagram of themselves on exotic luxury holidays wearing rolexes and louboutins paid for by their clients but suggest it's their modelling that pays for it, never picturing their sponsors, nasty stuff is said on the site about them but we can all relate to that! X
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I found the site very funny.
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I found the site very funny.
Me too! X
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I found a video one girl uploaded, she was singing girl you're worth it while an old guy was draped over her with his tongue in her ear, she looked like she was gonna throw up but kept singing! Why post that online ffs :FF
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I just red some excerpt form a conversation where the Arab Sheikh wants to beat the girl, urinate on her, bareback her and insert any objects he likes in her vagina. That's after a close vaginal exam (he's fussy about type) and depending on how attractive or not she is the price will vary. Oh, and she can bring a friend who won't get paid. All form an orderly queue ;D
Business class flights and 18k just isn't enough. I wonder how low it goes if he thinks you're a bit on the ugly side :-X
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I found a video one girl uploaded, she was singing girl you're worth it while an old guy was draped over her with his tongue in her ear, she looked like she was gonna throw up but kept singing! Why post that online ffs :FF
that made me cringe so hard!
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I found a video one girl uploaded, she was singing girl you're worth it while an old guy was draped over her with his tongue in her ear, she looked like she was gonna throw up but kept singing! Why post that online ffs :FF
that made me cringe so hard!
Oh god that girl needs a fucking medal! Hope she got paid well there's no way I could do a whole holiday with that guy, an hour tops, I would rather buy my own bloody louboutins!
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Visited the site and found it funny :P but the girls are not escorts are they? I know some girls who come from rich families this is what they post about, doesn't mean they are throwing the pussy around
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The one who nearly agreed to wanking off a camel me laugh ;D
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If you are dumb enough to post yes I will come stay at your place and be a fuck dolly for a flight and a holiday on social media...you are exposing yourself already,the site isn't doing that for you.
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Can't stand how we all judge each other at the end of the day we all sell sex weather on adult work, punter net, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook or the like. A website set up purely to slut shame women because of this is just more online misogyny which we should all deplore IMO. Some of the responses here take on a very superior attitude. Maybe a bit of jealousy about the dosh etc they can make just saying.
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Can't stand how we all judge each other at the end of the day we all sell sex weather on adult work, punter net, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook or the like. A website set up purely to slut shame women because of this is just more online misogyny which we should all deplore IMO. Some of the responses here take on a very superior attitude. Maybe a bit of jealousy about the dosh etc they can make just saying.
I don't think we are judging at all, they are sex workers same as us just their bookings and ways of getting bookings are different from ours, we are all highly aware here of nastiness against sex workers and you're right it's nasty, jealousy defiantly not in my case, curiosity yes, it's interesting. Good luck to them but I think a lot of them are extremely naive when it comes to their privacy x
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Can't stand how we all judge each other at the end of the day we all sell sex weather on adult work, punter net, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook or the like. A website set up purely to slut shame women because of this is just more online misogyny which we should all deplore IMO. Some of the responses here take on a very superior attitude. Maybe a bit of jealousy about the dosh etc they can make just saying.
Most of these sugar baby girls (i know many and I have my own sugar daddy who pays all by bills so I am not 'jealous' when i live this lifestyle myself) look DOWN on escorts and do the 'im not a prostitute line' the whole point of the site is telling them to 'tag their sponsor' i.e don't go around saying how you're not an escort, being a SWERF and flashing how rich you are from your 'business' and 'modelling'. being an escort is fine and being a sugar baby is fine but these girls are very very ANTI sex work and they shame sex workers ALOT.
If they identified as sex workers it would be on thing but they go on and on about 'whore's' 'hoes' and how different they are. which is the point of the site....to show it's ALL sex work.
I personally know someone who is on there and a good half of her posts was her saying how she's rich from her protien shakes and escorts are disgusting while arranging bookings in her messages....
i did not feel sorry for her....
and i still do not...
they're SWERFs and i don't defend swerfs...
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Can't stand how we all judge each other at the end of the day we all sell sex weather on adult work, punter net, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook or the like. A website set up purely to slut shame women because of this is just more online misogyny which we should all deplore IMO. Some of the responses here take on a very superior attitude. Maybe a bit of jealousy about the dosh etc they can make just saying.
Most of these sugar baby girls (i know many and I have my own sugar daddy who pays all by bills so I am not 'jealous' when i live this lifestyle myself) look DOWN on escorts and do the 'im not a prostitute line' the whole point of the site is telling them to 'tag their sponsor' i.e don't go around saying how you're not an escort, being a SWERF and flashing how rich you are from your 'business' and 'modelling'. being an escort is fine and being a sugar baby is fine but these girls are very very ANTI sex work and they shame sex workers ALOT.
If they identified as sex workers it would be on thing but they go on and on about 'whore's' 'hoes' and how different they are. which is the point of the site....to show it's ALL sex work.
I personally know someone who is on there and a good half of her posts was her saying how she's rich from her protien shakes and escorts are disgusting while arranging bookings in her messages....
i did not feel sorry for her....
and i still do not...
they're SWERFs and i don't defend swerfs...
What is a swerf? And yes I agree they look down on prostitutes. I don't have a sugar daddy but I can afford luxuries myself, I think good luck to them as I couldn't do what they do.
I know of a girl that rinses men in this way and she thinks her poop don't stink x
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^Sex work excluding radical feminist, which this doesn't have much to do with as I don't see them proclaiming radfem views, unless I'm missing something...
I understand the frustration at sugar babies that "look down" on us, but guess what? The way to make them realise what they do is sex work too.... Isn't to shame all sex workers, which from what I can see this site is doing. It doesn't exactly seem to respect the fact that what they're doing is sex work, does it? This isn't good for us either, but if you will accept one brand of misogyny simply because it is directed at women you don't like, then fine. Nothing new there then. ::)
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I never said I don't like them, ??? I agree that forums that are vile about sex workers should be taken down, I have no problem with a street hooker or a high class tart, we are all in the same boat x
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I wasn't directing that part of the post to you, Nia.
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I wasn't directing that part of the post to you, Nia.
The site is horrible about these girls but in this business I think we have to accept that some men are going to make disgusting comments about us, it's damage limitation I think, the internet age throws up a lot of exposure which you can use to your advantage of course, but on the same note sex workers such as sugar babies should be more aware of where Instagram and stuff like that gets.
I'm not even on Facebook, sugar baby arrangements are fine I think if you're discreet, some of these girls are flashing rolexes and cases of cash all over their Instagram! Keep it to yourself, be discreet! X
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I don't think you should censor yourself to cater to misogynists.
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I've no interest in the site and haven't looked at the link, but if this is some sort of forum I'll remind everybody that discussion of these (whether slagging them off or not) is off topic here, and that most certainly includes discussion of people who are not here to participate themselves. Keep it general, please.
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Well, it's likely that part of their marketing appeal is not being an obvious hooker. A model who is available for the select few who can afford it has appeal to the select few.
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^Sex work excluding radical feminist, which this doesn't have much to do with as I don't see them proclaiming radfem views, unless I'm missing something...
I understand the frustration at sugar babies that "look down" on us, but guess what? The way to make them realise what they do is sex work too.... Isn't to shame all sex workers, which from what I can see this site is doing. It doesn't exactly seem to respect the fact that what they're doing is sex work, does it? This isn't good for us either, but if you will accept one brand of misogyny simply because it is directed at women you don't like, then fine. Nothing new there then. ::)
Nik Richie who owns Tag your sponsor has been doing this for years. literally years.
he also owns 'the dirty'. Those of us in the SB community are very aware of these sites and him, they are the SB equivilent of the god awful forums that escorts have. I am just as deep in the SB community as I am in the escort community and I have known about this man for a very long time.
tag your sponsor isn't relevant to sex workers. it is relevant to pseudo celebrities and 'instagram celebrities' and 'models'. The dirty his other site is more relevant to us. When you get to that level and you are all over social media then it is a risk you take.
If I was to create an instagram today with photos of all my exploits and all my cash and bags and shoes logic dictates that there is a chance at any point someone might become intrigued by my fabulous life and steal my photos.
The same way the girls who decided to flash how much they make in that c4 documentary should have been mentally prepared for the backlah displaying your lifestyle on social media is the same thing.
When you choose to broadcast how much you make this is the risk you take...tbh Nik Richie is the least of their problems....I'd be more concerned about security,hmrc,irs, etc.
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Well, it's likely that part of their marketing appeal is not being an obvious hooker. A model who is available for the select few who can afford it has appeal to the select few.
Yep.
It's also important to remember that for most of these girls their personal/vanilla facebook/ instagram is actually their main form of advertising. So you upload photos everyday and include your 'booking info' to recieve bookings. And recieve bookings via the email. Some have agents/pimps who control the email.
This sort of advertising is very risky and being outed is a risk you take when you take bookings via your civvie social media.
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I don't think you should censor yourself to cater to misogynists.
I agree but if you don't then you have to expect pigs like these will bully you, it's not right but that's how it is in the real world, I censor myself to protect my daughter ultimately x
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I think the social media is a blessing for promoting yourself. You want the world to know you are looking for sponsors that is ok. The girls are really stunning it wouldn't surprise me if they can get more sponsors this way. If you don't want the whole world to know be careful how you flash the cash. People are clued up and can join the dots looking at your travel and spending lifestyle
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Yes they are stunning, I must do more core work at the gym! VictoryRose may know more about this but some real radical feminists believe that all relationships with men are a form of prostitution, even marriage, they say that the act of a man penetrating a women is rape, even consensual. My partner has money and I defiantly benefit from this and I make sure he is satisfied!
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Can't stand how we all judge each other at the end of the day we all sell sex weather on adult work, punter net, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook or the like. A website set up purely to slut shame women because of this is just more online misogyny which we should all deplore IMO. Some of the responses here take on a very superior attitude. Maybe a bit of jealousy about the dosh etc they can make just saying.
Well, it is what they are asking, rather than what they are actually getting - the MO of the site seems to be to offer loads of imaginary money and see who bites (or have their nipples be bitten off...)
But yes. I suspect few people could have their communications published without blushing at least some of it, and setting out to entrap people you can't sleep with is distinctly dubious.
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I must be very old fashioned because I had no idea that there were websites for sugarbabies or even a "sugarbaby community" (lol).
I learn something new every day :)
I would NEVER put my sex worker persona on social media even LESS flaunt my "luxuries" or my high life (if I had one which I don't lol). That's just asking for trouble. "Normal" people work eight hours a day on civvie wages and a fake blond taking a selfie on top of a yatch with a Buitton bag because you fucked some guy won't make you very popular (which is totally understandable). But we live in a very exhibitionistic culture nowadays. "I post therefore I am" like someone wrote on facebook the other day. All these" web exhibitionism" will eventually bite people's asses.
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I must be very old fashioned because I had no idea that there were websites for sugarbabies or even a "sugarbaby community" (lol).
I learn something new every day :)
I would NEVER put my sex worker persona on social media even LESS flaunt my "luxuries" or my high life (if I had one which I don't lol). That's just asking for trouble. "Normal" people work eight hours a day on civvie wages and a fake blond taking a selfie on top of a yatch with a Buitton bag because you fucked some guy won't make you very popular (which is totally understandable). But we live in a very exhibitionistic culture nowadays. "I post therefore I am" like someone wrote on facebook the other day. All these" web exhibitionism" will eventually bite people's asses.
Good response ana :)
lol we exist :-*
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Nia, my partner makes less money than me. I get more emotional support from him than money, he gets a lot of emoitional support from me. It is like a lot of codependent relationships. There is elements of truth in bringing something to the table in any kind of relationship. I imagine sugar babies and seeking arrangements is more widespread. And some sugar babies are less exhibitionist with their choices of lifestyle than others
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Nia, my partner makes less money than me. I get more emotional support from him than money, he gets a lot of emoitional support from me. It is like a lot of codependent relationships. There is elements of truth in bringing something to the table in any kind of relationship. I imagine sugar babies and seeking arrangements is more widespread. And some sugar babies are less exhibitionist with their choices of lifestyle than others
I didn't meet my partner through a sugar daddy type deal, I didn't even know at first he was wealthy, we are in love and happy. I'm sure there are many discreet sugar baby relationships and I don't particularly have a problem with the girls that are not so discreet about it, God knows at 18 I was brazen! Just that there was no internet then. If there had of been I am certainI would have been plastered all over it wrecked in Ibiza most of the time! X
And I've found that ex partners and 1 ex husband were very resentful that I earned more money then they did, it caused problems I wasn't prepared to put up with, x
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I'm so naive never thought that men would become resentful when their partner earns more than them. what do I know? All my wroking life and in relationships Im the breadwinner, come to think of it can make the man feel less of a man.
Anyway, #TagTheSponsor raises interesting questions about women roles in society
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I found a video one girl uploaded, she was singing girl you're worth it while an old guy was draped over her with his tongue in her ear, she looked like she was gonna throw up but kept singing! Why post that online ffs :FF
I cringed when i saw this on instagram last week and tonight some one posted it to facebook....so you can imagine the comments that followed underneath it.
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The guys behind these sites seem so bitter that they could never afford these ladies and envious of thier lifestyle!
Good on these ladies they are gorgeous and making great money. I would do it if I could 8)
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I found a video one girl uploaded, she was singing girl you're worth it while an old guy was draped over her with his tongue in her ear, she looked like she was gonna throw up but kept singing! Why post that online ffs :FF
I cringed when i saw this on instagram last week and tonight some one posted it to facebook....so you can imagine the comments that followed underneath it.
That video made me sick :(
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^Sex work excluding radical feminist, which this doesn't have much to do with as I don't see them proclaiming radfem views, unless I'm missing something...
I understand the frustration at sugar babies that "look down" on us, but guess what? The way to make them realise what they do is sex work too.... Isn't to shame all sex workers, which from what I can see this site is doing. It doesn't exactly seem to respect the fact that what they're doing is sex work, does it? This isn't good for us either, but if you will accept one brand of misogyny simply because it is directed at women you don't like, then fine. Nothing new there then. ::)
Agree! it's geared to shame girls that sell sex under whichever umbrella sb,sex workers,strippers etc
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I dont like any of the sites that shame women, as has already been said, they seem to be run by guys who are very bitter for whatever reason.
I'd like a sugar daddy, but I dont think they go for 46 year old bbw's. :'(