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meetingdiversity

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Surprised As To Why The Client Was Nervous
« on: 24 December 2012, 03:15:09 pm »
During today's particular booking, threw me by surprise. After he told me was nervous. I asked him what the mater is. He then hesitated saying nothing really just. I encouraging him to tell me, finally he said because I was coming across precise. Like this is this and that. My instant reaction was oh you like people not organised lol. Yea I like to be precise setting the boundaries before we began. That way you know where you stand. Especially this business I need to be because not everybody is nice. He then commented the way I see it is that every one's kind. This got me thinking omg, how deluded is this one in his shell not with it at all. In his own fake bubble. God bless him.

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Re: Surprised As To Why The Client Was Nervous
« Reply #1 on: 24 December 2012, 03:39:27 pm »
We can say the same thing to two different people and they can take it entirely differently.

Who can say how they will take it.  Some people like being organised and others dont.
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Re: Surprised As To Why The Client Was Nervous
« Reply #2 on: 24 December 2012, 03:44:33 pm »
The thing is though I don't understand how being organized can be nerve wracking.

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Re: Surprised As To Why The Client Was Nervous
« Reply #3 on: 24 December 2012, 03:48:54 pm »
It's hard to give advise when you've been so vague about what actually went down  ??? What did you actually say that made him nervous?

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Re: Surprised As To Why The Client Was Nervous
« Reply #4 on: 24 December 2012, 03:54:14 pm »
I always give a run through before starting service setting the boundaries really. Like keeping me well informed with his likes and how would he like to start. Just general things as simple as that. Or when he sat right up, I stopped asking would he like me to do some thing different. Even before starting he wasn't sure what to do. Like when he finished I said let me get the wet wipes. To be honest I didn't do any thing different compared with the other bookings with the standard procedure. All my feedback on aw is positive so can't be that bad. I dunno... All I can guess is can't please every one in society. But when I asked him ok apart from that did you enjoy?. He replied yes left smiling. 
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Re: Surprised As To Why The Client Was Nervous
« Reply #5 on: 24 December 2012, 04:14:41 pm »
The thing is though I don't understand how being organized can be nerve wracking.

You would be surprised how many dont like things to be too organised and like to imagine you going with the flow. 

We know work for us is a business transactions but guys are wired different from us and many want the "more romantic" sort of setting.  ::)

We aint mind readers but they would like to think we are.
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Re: Surprised As To Why The Client Was Nervous
« Reply #6 on: 24 December 2012, 05:34:10 pm »
deleted as I had wrong end of the stick!
« Last Edit: 26 December 2012, 10:10:03 pm by Coty »

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Re: Surprised As To Why The Client Was Nervous
« Reply #7 on: 24 December 2012, 05:54:50 pm »
Sound to me like he has Aspergers Syndrome.

I don't think you can make assumptions like that based on what the op has said  :o

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Re: Surprised As To Why The Client Was Nervous
« Reply #8 on: 24 December 2012, 06:48:35 pm »
I like to ask a client what he enjoys doing just to get an idea what they like, sometimes in this job it is easy to get into a similar type of routine forgetting that most men are as different as chalk and cheese no two are the same. Some men just like you to get down to it and not ask them questions or bang on about rules etc because they don't like to be reminded that they are paying for sex.

In this job you have to be organised or you could end up with some bookings you hear about when the client can not be pleased and doesn't want things you think he will like because your previous clients did done to him. I guess you just can't win.
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Re: Surprised As To Why The Client Was Nervous
« Reply #9 on: 24 December 2012, 07:28:30 pm »
Sound to me like he has Aspergers Syndrome.

I don't think you can make assumptions like that based on what the op has said  :o

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You're right...I misinterpreted what the OP was saying....I was thinking he wanted everything to be precise and ordered. I understand now.

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Re: Surprised As To Why The Client Was Nervous
« Reply #10 on: 24 December 2012, 07:51:43 pm »
I like to ask a client what he enjoys doing just to get an idea what they like, sometimes in this job it is easy to get into a similar type of routine forgetting that most men are as different as chalk and cheese no two are the same. Some men just like you to get down to it and not ask them questions or bang on about rules etc because they don't like to be reminded that they are paying for sex.

In this job you have to be organised or you could end up with some bookings you hear about when the client can not be pleased and doesn't want things you think he will like because your previous clients did done to him. I guess you just can't win.

I usually slip this into the conversation whilst we are flirting, might make a bit of a joke about it so it doesn't feel too confrontational.

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Re: Surprised As To Why The Client Was Nervous
« Reply #11 on: 24 December 2012, 11:34:24 pm »
I ask to avoid doing some thing the client doesn't like. Now doing against his wishes is wrong.

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Re: Surprised As To Why The Client Was Nervous
« Reply #12 on: 25 December 2012, 12:11:12 am »
Sound to me like he has Aspergers Syndrome.

I don't know but will tread carfully next time. Some men just can not be satisfied fully. I don't expect he will return. Not really that bothered as more enjoy my service. That's it concentrate on the positives instead of the negatives I tell myself now.

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Re: Surprised As To Why The Client Was Nervous
« Reply #13 on: 25 December 2012, 02:57:25 pm »
erm sounnds like a normal guy to me.
 sounds like you were listing do's and don'ts very formally and cold/distant.  we're supposed to make clients comfortable...talk to them...find common ground...a spark...or whatever...its basic customer service.
I wouldn't be impressed splashing my cash to have you state a list of crude do's and dont's before we've even said hello......
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Re: Surprised As To Why The Client Was Nervous
« Reply #14 on: 25 December 2012, 03:00:44 pm »
Sound to me like he has Aspergers Syndrome.

because he finds it untasteful to be given a list of do's and dont's soon as theyve met...? we're sex workers its everyday talk to us but you have to remember people who don't work in the industry do not engage in this kind of conversation every day...can't imagine working on a check out and giving the same info out daily :) haha

ETA just saw your previous message coty. scrap what i said ;)
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