Ok, basically there's this guy I met over 3 years ago. I havent seen him in 3 years because I was living in another state. Then, he messages me on a dating site wanting to meet up. I had already ignored him a few months ago when he seen me, and this time he messaged me again 2 weekends ago and I was reluctant to meet, but was like what the hell (A mistake nonetheless)
Now I remember why I had stopped speaking with him in the first place. For one, he is known by all the guys boys in town as a sugar daddy. All of the guys he meets are poor kids who dont have much going on other than a minimum wage job and he 'takes care of them'. His conversation is annoyingly arrogant and stuck up on himself and somehow feels he is better than these kids he meets, along with the general population. However, compared to the men I've met over the months, I dont see him as having much at all.
Now, with me, he expects just because he buys me a couple of cheap dinners and offers to pay my way, that Im supposed to put out. And when I dont put out, he gets upset and calls another 'boy' who he has to go out his way to pick up. The other day, I came to his house and he has some boy there, and he got the 3 of us a cheap dinner and afterwards he wanted me to have a 3som with him along with this boy who I was TOTALLY not attracted to. He then got mad when I wouldnt have sex with them, and called another guy...which is a friend of mine I know! Yesterday, he invited me over for a cheap breakfast, expected me to put out when I clearly wasnt feeling well for it, and got upset again and mentioned that 'he could have called someone else over if he wanted to'.
So I decided I wont let myself be humiliated like that. For one, I didnt tell him Im an escort but the way I feel, this guy hasnt even bought my 1 hour rate's worth of anything and I feel no need to put out to him. He thinks because he buys those other kids little shit here and there and they put out, that Im going to do the same? I wont. And Im not going to be feeling like Im 1 of the heads on his wall either. I like to be independent and do my own thing, not depend on someone. Also, a friend of mine who knows him told him he wanted a TV, but get this...my friend has a boyfriend and sugar daddy knows about it, and is going to do it anyhow. Yet yesterday, he invites me over to drive 20 miles and didnt even offer to put gas in my car for seeing him, telling me that "I was the one who wanted to come over". Bull fucking shit...He was calling me all weekend to meet on Monday!
Last week I tried to rationalize having this 'sugar daddy'...saying "whats the difference if he does things for me or if someone gives me the money to do so?" WRONG...its TOTALLY different. For one this guy never gives out money. That bothers me. I dont care what they give me, but at the end of the day Im going to need money to keep things running. And he'd be glad to buy me a $100 pair of shoes but will not give me a $100. Fine, but I wont put up with it. I want regular paying clients, not some sugar daddy who's only going to buy what he feels like.
Topic: Sugar daddy drama, but its over! (Read 2764 times)