I got some punters asking to meet up outside escorting.  Do they think I'm stupid? 

Yes they do, they want your services for free simple as. Clients who ask you out on a 'date' are just trying it on so they don't have to pay anymore.

The ones that used to get me were "Do you fancy going out for a drink sometime when you're not working?" Not even the offer of a nice posh meal, just a drink  So they assumed that I would meet them, they buy me half a lager and they get a free shag! Yeah that's really NEVER going to happen 

He's an ass. IMO a lot of men look for sugar babies to try and wangle bareback and pay less than escorting rates, or get more (e.g. anal) than they would otherwise. I find it all a bit distasteful and think you're better off being a good honest whore!

Yep one of my clients said to me he is on a seeking arrangement site and met a girl but told her he doesn't want someone who is just in it for the money ! (Eerm, why else would a girl want a sugar daddy ? To hook up with old men for free?) he then said to me that he hasn't got any money like that to give hefty monthly allowances(erm so why tell her you don't want someone who is in it for the money knowing full well you have none . It's basically a scam cuz the poor girl is probably hoping if she shows him she is with him for not just the money then eventually he would trust her and let go a big fat wad of cash in her hand when really it's never going to happen because he isn't rich) similar to these clowns who call up saying they want a booking but then keep you on the phone for free sex chat. It's just a ploy to get free sex. My friend  got conned like that when She first started this. A demon responded  to her x amount of pounds for sex ad on Craigslist and said he is not into direct prostitution but can take her to nice places on holidays etc. ofcourse he wanted bareback and came inside her and didn't even tell her.. She got the morning after pill. They will use you and feed you false promises of giving you monthly allowance or expensive holidays etc. Some men just DO NOT want to pay. Even if they have the money. I always wondered why they just don't go on eharmony so thanks for explaining! You are right , they want to pay less and even want it for free. That client was my fave up until he told Me that ! Just reminds me of those men that look for girlfriends on a paid escort site. Shame , I thought he was different but he's just another freeloading scammer.  That poor girl. I had someone emailed me asking if they can be my sugar daddy ! 0 feedback and 30 years old! I think it was someone who couldn't afford my rates or just gets a thrill out of scamming. Either way I don't want an SD. I don't want to be owned I'd rather work for my own money. These men are just too evil. I look at them and all I can see is fucking horns.  So scary.

Yup... I love just being a good, honest sex worker! No frills here (except for the ones on my Agent Provocateur knickers)

I don't think that it's just the fact they get regular sex with the same woman or more sex for less money overall...I think there's another reason certain men like to be Sugar Daddies:

They are in denial about the fact the woman is in fact a prostitute. Their EGO couldn't deal with the reality of seeing an escort who is paid by the hour. This would mean they are just a client. Like every other Tom, Dick and Harry who comes to see her. No, they are not like other men. They want a mistress (like a status symbol type thing) who is theirs alone who loves them and feeds their egos.

My experience.

They want a mistress (like a status symbol type thing) who is theirs alone who loves them and feeds their egos.

My experience.

Whatever it is, good luck to them. 

Interesting.  It's a fact that men who buy sex may / could develop romantic feelings towards escorts for some reason.  I guess attachment could happen.  Didn't quite occur to me it was the self validation. Lol

Anything called, arrangements are just that.  Mutual agreements between men who need/ want sex with younger girls and younger sexy women, who may enjoy receiving resources (money, designer gifts, free holidays, dining out etc that these women would not otherwise obtain) in exchange.

Its because to these type of men escorts are the ideal woman...open minded, always up for it, always happy, never tired or 'not in the mood' Always caring, always giving, dealing with Their needs... ... its an illusion that we are paid for.


The client I got involved with was financially secure but the most emotionally needy insecure person that I have ever met, he needed constant reassurance and it became tiring and boring.


I very rarely get asked 'out on a date' (unpaid) by clients now..maybe they can see the cold hard knowing look in my eyes haha 

very rarely get asked 'out on a date' (unpaid) by clients now..maybe they can see the cold hard knowing look in my eyes haha 

Same for me lol ! I think they can sense it ! Though I had one bugger allude to us dating with the reason being that what I do for a living wouldn't bother him. Lol. It's a joke!