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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #150 on: 17 June 2012, 03:22:36 pm »
Everyone here is allowed an opinion. Just most of us understand that its perfectly ok to be disagreed with.

Quite frankly if I took things so personnally I would avoid coming on forums altogether.   Every single thread you go on you.manage to.make it all about you and take away from what the thread is about. So I'm bowing out of this thread and any others you may be on in the future.

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #151 on: 17 June 2012, 03:26:35 pm »
................. ?300-?500 per date depending on how long you spend together i.e. a few hours to an overnight but at least once a week sounds perfectly reasonable to me! If they offer more then great! With a SD I hope that both people would get on well and have a connection not just that it feels like 'work' if we got on well it would be nice to accompany them on trips ect also.

This is what I was referring to.
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« Reply #152 on: 17 June 2012, 03:36:13 pm »
................. ?300-?500 per date depending on how long you spend together i.e. a few hours to an overnight but at least once a week sounds perfectly reasonable to me! If they offer more then great! With a SD I hope that both people would get on well and have a connection not just that it feels like 'work' if we got on well it would be nice to accompany them on trips ect also.

This is what I was referring to.

I think if Kylie (or anyone for that matter) is happy with ?300-?500 for an overnight then that?s entirely her business. I do think though this whole SD is seen as a ?softer? option to escorting. I?ve never had a SD and never been remotely interested in acquiring one so I don?t claim to be an expert on the subject. What I can say though is that if something sounds too good to be true, it often is. SD arrangements may look more appealing on the surface but I expect the emotional drain and stress they cause isn?t that much different to our normal work.

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #153 on: 17 June 2012, 04:02:07 pm »
That is a good rate.  Let's hope he goes for it! Good luck.


Ok ladies

I am in negotiations with a SD offered to meet only during the day (wifey at home) once  / twice a month.  I was thinking ?500 per date.  What do you think.

Ax

Yes it's good for her but it's still an expensive rate that's all I am saying. And with sugar daddies it's not about a 'rate' is it, it's a regular agreement/arrangement.

This is the key, the regular agreement/arrangement and the fact that you hope to be able to rely on a certain amount each month. The comparison between being an escort and a sugar babe only goes as far really as the fact you 'may' get paid for being intimate with the SD, this doesn't always have to be the case!

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #154 on: 17 June 2012, 04:05:25 pm »
I'd hate the feeling that I was completely dependent on that one man for my income, and that is by itself reason enough for me to never do it. 

Plus... I'm just going to come out and say it... I am way to lazy for the SD thing. Too much having to be nice, having to text back, etc.

And this may be weird to some, but I like seeing lots of different men, it's fun and simple and no- one's feelings get hurt.

But I respect someone's decision to do it and how much they think is reasonable to get paid  :)

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #155 on: 17 June 2012, 04:40:57 pm »
YES that is that man! Michael Wyatt !!!

TeenKylie

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #156 on: 17 June 2012, 04:48:23 pm »
................. ?300-?500 per date depending on how long you spend together i.e. a few hours to an overnight but at least once a week sounds perfectly reasonable to me! If they offer more then great! With a SD I hope that both people would get on well and have a connection not just that it feels like 'work' if we got on well it would be nice to accompany them on trips ect also.

This is what I was referring to.
I think what I said was confused. I said ?300-500 for a few hours TO an overnight is perfectly reasonable, meaning about ?500 for an actual night and around ?300 for a few hours. But this is NOT A RATE it's NOT escorting and should NOT be regarded as work IMO. Like I said the way I see a SD is hopefully having a genuine connection and that it to be an on going REGULAR thing. Not see them for a cheap overnight rate and never see them again! This is why I would also prefer it as a monthly allowance. My overnight ESCORT rate is only ?650 anyway as I really enjoy them most of the time. I would hope that with a sugar daddie it was not like 'work'


People are fine to disagree with me of course but when someone says 'thankyou ladies' to other posters completely disregarding me obviously it's not nice, and is clearly trying to rub it in that they disagree with me. There's just no need for it.
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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #157 on: 17 June 2012, 04:59:40 pm »
That is a good rate.  Let's hope he goes for it! Good luck.


Ok ladies

I am in negotiations with a SD offered to meet only during the day (wifey at home) once  / twice a month.  I was thinking ?500 per date.  What do you think.

Ax
Yes it's good for her but it's still an expensive rate that's all I am saying. And with sugar daddies it's not about a 'rate' is it, it's a regular agreement/arrangement.

This is the key, the regular agreement/arrangement and the fact that you hope to be able to rely on a certain amount each month. The comparison between being an escort and a sugar babe only goes as far really as the fact you 'may' get paid for being intimate with the SD, this doesn't always have to be the case!
Yes exactly. And like I said I would be sure never to lose my independence either but it would be nice to just do longer appointments once or twice a week and overnights with the escorting and then have an arrangment with a SD. I think that would work very well for me. I could be even more selective about who I see which I would like and would probably enjoy it even more and still have a nice income. That sounds ideal to me. If it happened that is!

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #158 on: 17 June 2012, 04:59:54 pm »
I think what I said was confused.

Perhaps if you took time over writing your posts and checked them before pressing the 'post' button, then they would not appear so confused Kylie. 
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« Reply #159 on: 17 June 2012, 05:01:54 pm »
I think what I said was confused.

Perhaps if you took time over writing your posts and checked them before pressing the 'post' button, then they would not appear so confused Kylie.
Well I read it fine thankyou. If you read it back properly you may understand it better.

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« Reply #160 on: 17 June 2012, 05:04:55 pm »
Kylie I have no need/requirement to read your posts again.  I have full reading skill/understanding skills, thank you and see things as they are written.

I'll leave you rant on to your hearts content now.

Goodbye.
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TeenKylie

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #161 on: 17 June 2012, 05:09:02 pm »
Kylie I have no need/requirement to read your posts again.  I have full reading skill/understanding skills, thank you and see things as they are written.

I'll leave you rant on to your hearts content now.

Goodbye.
Rant till my hearts content? But i'm not ranting at all? We are having a discussion. I really don't understand you. It's okay for one person to make a comment but not okay for someone else to comment back?
I am not going to be told I am turning this into the 'Kylie show' again when I have not done or said anything wrong or in a ranting way at all and you should clearly be able to see that.
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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #162 on: 17 June 2012, 05:25:47 pm »
Enough!!!!

One more off topic post and the pre mod gets dusted off, I have a headache.

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« Reply #163 on: 17 June 2012, 05:27:19 pm »
Thank you Janitor.
Beauty is nothing to do with having a pretty face.
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TeenKylie

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #164 on: 17 June 2012, 05:36:02 pm »
Yes thankyou!