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KittenCandy

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Starting sex position? Favorite position?
« on: 20 March 2016, 05:10:14 pm »
Curious as to what position you start off with with your clients? I find that they always sort of want you on top first. After putting the condom on they just lay there, so I take that as a hint to go on top? I hate being on top. Most of them don't really like it when you sit down and grind on them, they want you to  literally do squats on their dick for some reason. Then complain that you wasn't on top for long. I don't work out so after about 10-15 reps my thighs are burning and I just want to switch to doggy. My bio says my fave position is doggy(easier for both participants) but honestly I love missionary, not the missionary where they are raised above you and staring into your soul but the missionary where they bury their head in your neck and not staring at you non stop. Most don't do/like that though.  :-[

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Re: Starting sex position? Favorite position?
« Reply #1 on: 20 March 2016, 05:20:56 pm »
I'm the same, I hate going on top. I actually haven't been asked for this yet!  I like missionary as it genuinely feels good, same with doggy.  Quite like standing up with my face against the wall too  ;D

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Re: Starting sex position? Favorite position?
« Reply #2 on: 20 March 2016, 05:29:40 pm »
I love being on top! Often start with that unless they request otherwise, then move to other positions.

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Re: Starting sex position? Favorite position?
« Reply #3 on: 20 March 2016, 06:15:43 pm »
If they lay there like a plum, then I'm on top, if they shift onto their knees, they're on top. Very rarely get asked to start in doggy. It's usually the finishing position. I work out a lot so I can be on top for as long as they want me to be (within reason). However, they don't seem to understand that when a woman is on top it take a lot of hard work. I use my strap on quite a lot and it's so much easier in the man's position, I could do it all day lol.

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Re: Starting sex position? Favorite position?
« Reply #4 on: 20 March 2016, 06:21:47 pm »
I always start on top, too. I weightlift, so I can go for some serious horse jockey session while riding, but that doesn't mean I always feel like it. Not a fan of doggy at work. Spooning and missionary are my favorites when I am feeling lazy.

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Re: Starting sex position? Favorite position?
« Reply #5 on: 20 March 2016, 07:39:23 pm »
I find it hard to get a man off in cowgirl - and, yes, that's how most of them start out. I don't mind starting out that way as it seems natural to do that after the oral/putting on the condom.

To change positions I will say, "Wanna fuck me in doggy while we watch ourselves in the mirror?" (I have a very good, large, strategically placed mirror.) Even though they sometimes say, "Not yet - I want to do missionary" it still sounds like a sexy suggestion. Which hopefully disguises my true motive (to get them out of my face and get them off quicker.)

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Re: Starting sex position? Favorite position?
« Reply #6 on: 20 March 2016, 08:06:53 pm »
I start out in cowgirl usually, but when it changes to mish or doggy I get to see what kind of rhythm they actually like and it's often completely different to what I was doing. That's useful info for next time!

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Re: Starting sex position? Favorite position?
« Reply #7 on: 20 March 2016, 08:36:28 pm »
I find it hard to get a man off in cowgirl - and, yes, that's how most of them start out. I don't mind starting out that way as it seems natural to do that after the oral/putting on the condom.

To change positions I will say, "Wanna fuck me in doggy while we watch ourselves in the mirror?" (I have a very good, large, strategically placed mirror.) Even though they sometimes say, "Not yet - I want to do missionary" it still sounds like a sexy suggestion. Which hopefully disguises my true motive (to get them out of my face and get them off quicker.)

I have a mirror over my bed too haha

Yeah I normally start off in cowgirl and then do that until they move me/say they want to swap positions or my legs hurt too much..
My favourite position depends on the guy, either doggy or that one where you're on your back but with your legs up near your head, not sure what it's called, can't do that one with guys with a big cock though it hurts!

KittenCandy

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Re: Starting sex position? Favorite position?
« Reply #8 on: 20 March 2016, 09:26:49 pm »
I start out in cowgirl usually, but when it changes to mish or doggy I get to see what kind of rhythm they actually like and it's often completely different to what I was doing. That's useful info for next time!

Yes, they usually pound faster when they are in control. Sadly, there is no way I can bounce up and down vigorously. Not sure if that's even possible.  :-\

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« Reply #9 on: 20 March 2016, 10:27:42 pm »
Yes, they usually pound faster when they are in control. Sadly, there is no way I can bounce up and down vigorously. Not sure if that's even possible.  :-\

I can go quite fast but not for very long. also only if they keep totally still if they start thrusting back it just throws off my rhythm haha

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Re: Starting sex position? Favorite position?
« Reply #10 on: 20 March 2016, 11:55:28 pm »
I can go quite fast but not for very long. also only if they keep totally still if they start thrusting back it just throws off my rhythm haha

When they do that I just stop moving myself til they get bored. Really annoys the crap out of me. XD

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Re: Starting sex position? Favorite position?
« Reply #11 on: 21 March 2016, 12:24:04 am »
Another here who starts with cowgirl, I love it, reverse cowgirl is especially my favourite. I also find that when they take control in doggy or missionary their motion is different to mine! I much prefer them to do what they enjoy, as of course I like them to get what they want out of it. I also enjoy doggy but when they're above average they always have this thing of thrusting way too deep and it kills!

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Re: Starting sex position? Favorite position?
« Reply #12 on: 21 March 2016, 08:04:18 am »
I always start on top unless there are real objections. I can't remember the last time that happened. It takes a fair bit of practice to find the technique to finish them quickly, partly because they are not all the same in what they like. But once you get the hang of it, it works well and I always try to finish without changing position. I don't like doggy because I don't feel in control, and IME that's the position they try to play silly tricks.


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Re: Starting sex position? Favorite position?
« Reply #13 on: 22 March 2016, 10:54:21 pm »
I also start with cowgirl..But doggy is my favourite- so I don't have to kiss/ smell their breath if it's bad or look into their eyes..It also feels the best.
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Re: Starting sex position? Favorite position?
« Reply #14 on: 23 March 2016, 10:22:04 pm »
Usually cowgirl or missionary although I do put the ball in their court so to speak and normally ask "how do you want me" so I go with whatever they prefer. I like missionary the best (the variant where my legs are up on his shoulders) and also doggy, especially to finish as long as they're not too big!