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ladyinred

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Stalkish "clients", a guy phoned up when I was in the area and he said he saw me
« on: 06 June 2016, 06:13:55 pm »
a month ago in the mall with my friend ... He also said what I was wearing, and I remember, for that particular occasion I was there, that would make sense.
He said.. "hi, I saw you Xxx centre with a fiend a month ago, I want to book you"

I didn't have words, I hunged up and I blocked him.
Would you find it disturbing as well?
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Nora batty

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Re: Stalkish "clients", a guy phoned up when I was in the area and he said he saw me
« Reply #1 on: 06 June 2016, 06:39:40 pm »
Do you show your face on your pictures or was he a previous client?

I would just ignore and not respond at all.  Some guys get a kick out of letting us know then seen us somewhere.

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Re: Stalkish "clients", a guy phoned up when I was in the area and he said he saw me
« Reply #2 on: 06 June 2016, 07:52:44 pm »
I'm not sure I would call that stalkerish, that's just a guy that's recognised you out and about because you show your face on your profile.

In the space of 2 weeks.....I have seen 5 escorts that I recognise from their pics. One in the nail salon, one in the sunbeds, one in the bank, one on Argyle Street and one in Zara. I could probably tell you what they were wearing too.

And if I'm honest, I have a wee chuckle to myself when I see them thinking "dirty bitch" as if I'm whiter and white and not actually a whore myself lol.

If you show your face then you must expect to be recognised at some point by someone. The fact he seen you out and about and STILL wants to meet with you is probably a compliment. I seen a client the other week there in town just after I had been for a run so I wasn't exactly looking my best but I didn't care. He's one of my lovely regulars anyway.

I'm not sure the clients really done anything wrong in this case, just my opinion.

I never meet with anyone that makes me feel uncomfortable no matter how silly the reason may be so if this guy made you feel uncomfortable saying this to you then it's best you just move on and forget about it.

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Re: Stalkish "clients", a guy phoned up when I was in the area and he said he saw me
« Reply #3 on: 06 June 2016, 08:51:29 pm »
Quote from: Kendra on 06 June 2016, 07:52:44 pm
In the space of 2 weeks.....I have seen 5 escorts that I recognise from their pics. One in the nail salon, one in the sunbeds, one in the bank, one on Argyle Street and one in Zara. I could probably tell you what they were wearing too.

This is another reason why I don't have face pics. It's not just punters who have a lot of spare time to nose at WG profiles lol.
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Kendra

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Re: Stalkish "clients", a guy phoned up when I was in the area and he said he saw me
« Reply #4 on: 06 June 2016, 09:22:59 pm »
Quote from: TrashAzn on 06 June 2016, 08:51:29 pm
Quote from: Kendra on 06 June 2016, 07:52:44 pm
In the space of 2 weeks.....I have seen 5 escorts that I recognise from their pics. One in the nail salon, one in the sunbeds, one in the bank, one on Argyle Street and one in Zara. I could probably tell you what they were wearing too.

This is another reason why I don't have face pics. It's not just punters who have a lot of spare time to nose at WG profiles lol.

Hmmmm I don't use my spare time to check out other escorts profiles as I've no interest in what other ladies are doing but I'm not going to sit here and lie and say that I don't know what about a dozen of them in my area look like.

There are loads of genuine reasons why you would be on another escorts profile without it being snooping. The main one for me is if a client contacts me through AW about a potential booking then I will look at his feedback to see who he's seen and then take it from there.
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Re: Stalkish "clients", a guy phoned up when I was in the area and he said he saw me
« Reply #5 on: 06 June 2016, 09:25:23 pm »
Quote from: TrashAzn on 06 June 2016, 08:51:29 pm
Quote from: Kendra on 06 June 2016, 07:52:44 pm
In the space of 2 weeks.....I have seen 5 escorts that I recognise from their pics. One in the nail salon, one in the sunbeds, one in the bank, one on Argyle Street and one in Zara. I could probably tell you what they were wearing too.

This is another reason why I don't have face pics. It's not just punters who have a lot of spare time to nose at WG profiles lol.

Ikr
I don't really look at WG profiles, and if I occasionally do, I would never recognise them on the street lol, I don't like to stare at strangers, I don't like when someone stares at me
creepy  ;D
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Re: Stalkish "clients", a guy phoned up when I was in the area and he said he saw me
« Reply #6 on: 06 June 2016, 09:29:02 pm »
Quote from: Kendra on 06 June 2016, 09:22:59 pm
Quote from: TrashAzn on 06 June 2016, 08:51:29 pm
Quote from: Kendra on 06 June 2016, 07:52:44 pm
In the space of 2 weeks.....I have seen 5 escorts that I recognise from their pics. One in the nail salon, one in the sunbeds, one in the bank, one on Argyle Street and one in Zara. I could probably tell you what they were wearing too.

This is another reason why I don't have face pics. It's not just punters who have a lot of spare time to nose at WG profiles lol.

Hmmmm I don't use my spare time to check out other escorts profiles as I've no interest in what other ladies are doing but I'm not going to sit here and lie and say that I don't know what about a dozen of them in my area look like.

There are loads of genuine reasons why you would be on another escorts profile without it being snooping. The main one for me is if a client contacts me through AW about a potential booking then I will look at his feedback to see who he's seen and then take it from there.

Do you recognise a girl from AW in public just after 2min of looking at her profile?
I don't believe you...
You must be staring quite a lot...
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Kendra

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Re: Stalkish "clients", a guy phoned up when I was in the area and he said he saw me
« Reply #7 on: 06 June 2016, 09:33:45 pm »
Quote from: ladyinred on 06 June 2016, 09:29:02 pm
Quote from: Kendra on 06 June 2016, 09:22:59 pm
Quote from: TrashAzn on 06 June 2016, 08:51:29 pm
Quote from: Kendra on 06 June 2016, 07:52:44 pm
In the space of 2 weeks.....I have seen 5 escorts that I recognise from their pics. One in the nail salon, one in the sunbeds, one in the bank, one on Argyle Street and one in Zara. I could probably tell you what they were wearing too.

This is another reason why I don't have face pics. It's not just punters who have a lot of spare time to nose at WG profiles lol.

Hmmmm I don't use my spare time to check out other escorts profiles as I've no interest in what other ladies are doing but I'm not going to sit here and lie and say that I don't know what about a dozen of them in my area look like.

There are loads of genuine reasons why you would be on another escorts profile without it being snooping. The main one for me is if a client contacts me through AW about a potential booking then I will look at his feedback to see who he's seen and then take it from there.

Do you recognise a girl from AW in public just after 2min of looking at her profile?
I don't believe you...
You must be staring quite a lot...

I don't really care if you don't believe me.

I don't stare but I do have eyeballs and 2 of the girls in particular stick out like a sore thumb, you couldn't miss them. I won't describe them incase they are members of this site. The other one was standing beside me in a very long bank que. One was sitting right next to me getting her nails done and the other was sitting right next to me in the sunbeds while it was practically qued out the door with the good weather.
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Re: Stalkish "clients", a guy phoned up when I was in the area and he said he saw me
« Reply #8 on: 06 June 2016, 09:38:13 pm »
Good I don't spend all my free time checking out other ladies on AW....
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Kendra

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Re: Stalkish "clients", a guy phoned up when I was in the area and he said he saw me
« Reply #9 on: 06 June 2016, 09:40:12 pm »
Quote from: ladyinred on 06 June 2016, 09:38:13 pm
Good I don't spend all my free time checking out other ladies on AW....

I'm not sure why your being bitchy towards me? Is it because I disagreed with you calling the client a stalker because YOU show your face on your profile and because he seen you in town with his eyeballs and then tried to book you?


Some people  ::)
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Re: Stalkish "clients", a guy phoned up when I was in the area and he said he saw me
« Reply #10 on: 06 June 2016, 10:25:47 pm »
Definitely ignore it, there are some creepy guys who may recognise you if you have face pics in your free or private gallery and get a kick out of telling you they've seen you out and about. Those types are weird to me and should be blocked instantly.

I remember a girl I followed on Twitter showed her face and she told me she was out shopping and another girl must've been another escort recognised her and walked past saying to her friend "that's so and so from AW", I agree with TrashAzn it's not just punters who are spending their time looking at girls profiles x
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Kendra

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Re: Stalkish "clients", a guy phoned up when I was in the area and he said he saw me
« Reply #11 on: 06 June 2016, 10:32:06 pm »
Have you ever walked down the street and recognised someone from Instagram? You probably have, does that mean your spending all your spare time stalking that persons Instagram? No you simply see something with your eyeballs and then recognise it later when you see them in the flesh. It doesn't mean you sit there like a weirdo stalking their profile whether it's a personal profile or an escort profile.

I've been working as an escort for 5 years in Glasgow so when I see the odd face out and about in town then it's not because I sit and study their profile like a stalker. It's a bit unfair to make that judgement and I don't think any of you are being truthful if you say that you've never looked at another escorts profile for whatever reason.
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Re: Stalkish "clients", a guy phoned up when I was in the area and he said he saw me
« Reply #12 on: 06 June 2016, 10:36:06 pm »
Can we get this back on topic please before anybody jumps off a roof, or anything?

The topic concerns being recognised by punters, and those who can't remember that need to stay off the thread and post elsewhere. If they find they can't, we'll see that they do.
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Kendra

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Re: Stalkish "clients", a guy phoned up when I was in the area and he said he saw me
« Reply #13 on: 06 June 2016, 10:38:37 pm »
Quote from: amy on 06 June 2016, 10:36:06 pm
Can we get this back on topic please before anybody jumps off a roof, or anything?

The topic concerns being recognised by punters, and those who can't remember that need to stay off the thread and post elsewhere. If they find they can't, we'll see that they do.

Yip, still sticking to my original comment that I think it's a bit harsh to call a client a stalker for daring to recognise a girl in public after she shows her face online and then to want to make a booking with her.

He maybe didn't need to tell the OP that he seen her out and about, I can understand why that might put her off but a stalker? No, sorry!
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Re: Stalkish "clients", a guy phoned up when I was in the area and he said he saw me
« Reply #14 on: 06 June 2016, 10:43:18 pm »
I quite agree. He's a complete idiot for letting on, but I don't think it's stalkerish at all.

I get recognised now and again and I couldn't give a toss, but I wouldn't see somebody who said something like this before he'd even met me in person, because it tells me he has no idea of an appropriate way to behave and therefore I wouldn't want him in my flat.

Because where I live is small, I very occasionally get people who vaguely know me from previous jobs or as a friend of a friend texting me to tell me this and ask about a booking at the same time. As far as I'm concerned that's beyond bizarre, and I don't even answer them.
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