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Scarlet O

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Postcoital Conversation
« on: 24 July 2016, 12:11:22 pm »
Hello ladies,

Well I finally started. Indie escorting last week,  this site has been so helpful!

One thing Im not completely confident about is how to pitch the conversation after the client has cum.

I get down to business quickly once intial pleasantries (and cash!)  have been exchanged,  but afterwards dont know whar to say,  its not as though I haven't had fun,  but some men seem to go very quiet.

If the guy is chatty afterwards then Im ok and just follow the flow of conversation.

I just dont like feeling akward about this so any tips greatly appreciated.

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Re: Postcoital Conversation
« Reply #1 on: 24 July 2016, 12:53:54 pm »
Often guys get a surge of chemicals after orgasm that makes them sleepy. So they're simply not chatty but in recovery mode.
I usually go for a little cuddle and remark how much I enjoyed the session, leave some time and talk about what they have on for the rest of the day and if time is nearly up hint at a shower.

If they came early in the session and might recover for more I simply do hugs and strokes and give appreciative noises if they're touching me.

On the way out and or getting dressed might initiate conversation about, weather/holidays/local events or current affairs. Nothing too personal.

If they don't respond then they're just not chatty and wouldn't worry about it. Don't blame yourself.
« Last Edit: 24 July 2016, 01:00:45 pm by Girl next door »

Scarlet O

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Re: Postcoital Conversation
« Reply #2 on: 24 July 2016, 02:56:58 pm »
Thanks Girl Next Door,  think your right about the recovery aspect as I am a bit full on!


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Re: Postcoital Conversation
« Reply #3 on: 24 July 2016, 03:04:57 pm »
I usually don't strike up conversation after! i much prefer just laying there saying nothing to be honest and when this happens they either try for a conversation or leave ! I'm not sure why I do this! I don't mean to be negative or anything ! I guess it's just laziness ! Talking to clients take effort cuz most of the time I don't care about what they are talking about !  ??? But if they have loads of time left i ask them if they want a massage ! It's much easier than talking and pretending to give a shit  :) however I do try
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Re: Postcoital Conversation
« Reply #4 on: 24 July 2016, 03:41:03 pm »
This is one thing I never have a problem with as I can talk for Britain :D

I usually ask them what line of work they're in, if it's the first time I've seen them. If they don't seem to want to talk about that then I'll just babble on about any old crap, including politics and religion!
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Re: Postcoital Conversation
« Reply #5 on: 24 July 2016, 04:50:13 pm »
This is one thing I never have a problem with as I can talk for Britain :D

I usually ask them what line of work they're in, if it's the first time I've seen them. If they don't seem to want to talk about that then I'll just babble on about any old crap, including politics and religion!

I'm the same, I'm a bit of a gab. I usually just ask how the rest of their day/week is looking. Some men like a chat, some don't, I don't take it too personally so long as I know they've enjoyed themself.

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Re: Postcoital Conversation
« Reply #6 on: 24 July 2016, 05:13:24 pm »
I also talk for england. I really struggle when the guys dont say anything afterwards, i struggle with silence and just picture tumble weeds blowing by.  I never know what to do with myself when they dont talk

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Re: Postcoital Conversation
« Reply #7 on: 24 July 2016, 05:18:35 pm »
I'd rather the silence than the personal questions, but I don't mind a chat. Music and films are favourite especially if I've mentioned a gig or film festival on my blog, plus local goings on and gossip/general whinging (which is easy if you're in a small town :)).

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Re: Postcoital Conversation
« Reply #8 on: 24 July 2016, 07:04:36 pm »
As long as they're not asking really personal questions I love to talk too about most things apart from politics as I'm a bit clueless in that department  :-[  The weather is usually a good neutral subject and holidays, also what do they like sexually although for some unknown reason this can be one of the most difficult things to get out of some of them, they often expect me to be a mind reader  ???

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Re: Postcoital Conversation
« Reply #9 on: 24 July 2016, 08:30:29 pm »
Some guys just don't want to talk much they are enjoying the feeling of being satisfied so a cuddle and a shoulder rub helps. sometimes we'll make small talk it just depends. I'm usually find but change the subject if they ask personal questions. Some ask about boyfriends,what I do outside this,my real name  etc slowly getting more personal but I can usually get them to drop it quickly enough. I just ask them about things they like,music,video games whatever

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Re: Postcoital Conversation
« Reply #10 on: 25 July 2016, 03:23:00 pm »
I think you just take a lead from them. If they talk talk back if they don't then say something and see how they  respond. I've had great chats with clients post coital because they've stopped thinking with their cock and have stopped being nervous about their performance. Some men do go quiet because their weird feelings about paying for sex or guilt kick in so can't wait to get away, it used to bother me but now I just let them go!

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Re: Postcoital Conversation
« Reply #11 on: 06 August 2016, 02:22:27 pm »
Sometimes I cuddle into them, other times I ask them if they want a massage. If we do chat, I try and steer clear of anything personal or revealing. Otherwise I'm happy to talk about anything really.

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Re: Postcoital Conversation
« Reply #12 on: 06 August 2016, 09:58:38 pm »
I ask them what they are doing next (after the session) as this leads them nicely into realising it's nearly the END OF THE SESSION :) and oooh look at the time!  ::)