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Author Topic: Somebody books you 45 min in advance. Then somebody else calls wanting now.  (Read 3199 times)

saltysweet

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I agree a lot of 'nows' will fess up and wait 20-30 minutes once you drill down and query them. Others are serious.

If I'm ready and dressed, due to seeing other clients.... I'm happy to have a whole day of 'nows'. No point sat down twiddling me thumbs. They're the perfect 'sandwich filler' in between the well organised clients.

The bad thing... 'nows' can be rude and (as mySecret says)...'animal' as they're stressed about their schedule but I pick the calmer, polite ones. Most turn up fine and they have to shoot off to a meeting so it's win win. I need 5 minutes to get ready and the booking's his.

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Kay

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I genuinely can't get my head round 'nows' though. Are they normally parlour visitors? Or do they think all SPs sit around in stockings, suspenders and full make-up waiting for a call?

I mean, I have zero problem with an hour's notice, but less I really struggle with what they expect.
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I genuinely can't get my head round 'nows' though. Are they normally parlour visitors? Or do they think all SPs sit around in stockings, suspenders and full make-up waiting for a call?

I mean, I have zero problem with an hour's notice, but less I really struggle with what they expect.

Some say "I've been looking forward to this" after opening with "Just stumbled on your advert" on further investigation it can be they've been looking at your details for a while............so I potentially a moment of courage.

saltysweet

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The rude 'nows' can't tolerate questions, they hang up, so no idea what motivates them. They unfriendly,  don't bother to explain or apologise, say please or thank you,  just wanty wanty. I suspect they're rude in any situation, and can barely string two words together. Easy to anger.

Most city types apologise nicely for the late notice and explain they had a cancelled meeting and have a spare hour before their next meeting. They pack all their meetings into one day for their monthly trip to London. Might as well fill a dead hour with a bit of mentertainment.
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Charmaine

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I would see the one that booked 45 mins in advance

Lushblossom

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Somebody wanted 'now' the other week.  Until they realised I lived too close to people who they knew.  According to him.

I just assumed it was all made up.

Midlands Ms

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The worst 'I want now' punters are the ones who ring and say 'can I have our address I'm going to come now' as though you literally are not only sitting around ready for punters generally, but somehow them specifically.

I wouldn't do it even if I were on tour; I like having at least 20 mins between if I'm on tour and an hour if I'm at home to get ready, I don't feel I've got my 'hooker head' on if I rush too much, and also the possibility of the one being late and the other early etc etc


ladyofthemansion

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I accepted a “Now” yesterday and just as well because the guy who booked in advance cancelled just as the first one arrived. Before I even sent the “I’m running late text. “
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I genuinely can't get my head round 'nows' though. Are they normally parlour visitors? Or do they think all SPs sit around in stockings, suspenders and full make-up waiting for a call?


The nows I've managed to get an actual conversation from, really do think we sit around ready, They do the now thing because lots are ready now.

saltysweet

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Got out of bed this morning planning a full english and update aw and before I sat down... got the dreaded 'now double-book clash'  :o . 30 minutes notice for-two one hour bookings which overlapped. 12.00 and 12.30. I try not to refuse when I get a clash as may loose  both. So ran to my office and the 12.30 chap said he could kill 15 minutes, finish off some work and have a coffee all went smoothly for both.  ;D  It helped that they were courteous and reasonable. I wouldn't have made the effort otherwise.

Some ring with a horrible pushy attitude others are nice. Horrid ones I  tell them they're being unrealistic and have a shitty attitude. I think some  do it because if they ring 10 -20 girls at least one may be sitting ready having seen another client, a cancellation, no show or delayed client ....so it's a happy compromise for both.
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K212

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Re: Somebody books you 45 min in advance. Then somebody else calls wanting now.
« Reply #25 on: 06 September 2019, 12:24:08 am »
Also, particularly  wary if this ever happens that it’s a same guy. I’ve actually caught out someone doing this to a friend. I knew both their numbers personally and they’d used both to try book her at the same time’ish. Clearly trying to see if she was the type to double book or see people so close together. And I’ve caught people doing to me in the past. It amazes me how many times the same client will have multiple personas / numbers / accounts  all leading back to one person.

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Re: Somebody books you 45 min in advance. Then somebody else calls wanting now.
« Reply #26 on: 11 September 2019, 01:43:57 pm »
How often has it happened to you? Somebody calls at 915am and books 10am. Then somebody else calls and wants to come there and then but will likely end up with you being late for your 10am.

This happens to me a heck of a lot but more often than not the second caller doesn’t come through in the end
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Re: Somebody books you 45 min in advance. Then somebody else calls wanting now.
« Reply #27 on: 14 September 2019, 05:41:42 pm »
I genuinely can't get my head round 'nows' though. Are they normally parlour visitors? Or do they think all SPs sit around in stockings, suspenders and full make-up waiting for a call?

I mean, I have zero problem with an hour's notice, but less I really struggle with what they expect.

tbh when I'm doing incall days, sitting around in my stockings and makeup waiting for calls is exactly what I'm doing  ;D Though I have set days to work and publish clearly on my profile (which they barely read anyway lol) that I'm only available for short notice bookings when the green light is on.

BangerRacing

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Re: Somebody books you 45 min in advance. Then somebody else calls wanting now.
« Reply #28 on: 20 September 2019, 08:37:25 am »
The nows I've managed to get an actual conversation from, really do think we sit around ready, They do the now thing because lots are ready now.

I've asked the nows this too & got a similar response. A few other reasons;

1. Impulsive & opportunistic.
2. Don't like having anyone to answer to they expect you to jump for them.
3. Can't organise their time very well
4. Poor communication & they don't know how to play it.
5. Second choice as another has let them down at the last minute.
6. Delusional, thinking we are up for it all the time at the drop of a hat.  :P