Author Topic: Stories for clients (Read 3018 times)

Evergreen85 · « **on:** 16 February 2016, 02:00:19 pm »

Is it just me or does anybody else feel like clients want to hear a certain type of a story from an escort so they'd feel better about themselves/punting?

I found that the 'student story' seems the most acceptable for them-when they ask why do I do this, or how I got into this, or what do I do besides escorting-if I tell them I'm a student struggling to pay my tuition, it always seems to please them most. If I tell them the truth, which is that I simply want to save money for XYZ and be able to travel the world without having to do a 'normal' job for years to achieve my financial goals, they seem put off. It's like I MUST be a damsel in distress to do this job, I MUST be struggling because of uni fees/family situation/whatever, otherwise they see me as a heartless/cold/selfish person who couldn't be arsed to do the 9 to 5. Well, yeah, I am selfish in the regard that I love me the most, and I refuse to do the 9 to 5 because to me, most civvie jobs are more morally and emotionally draining and even demeaning than escorting. That's just my opinion and my choice and that's that.

However most punters want to hear about the damsel in distress, so that's what I tell them now. I just wonder is it because it makes them feel better about themsleves? Like, 'oh I'm such a great guy, I just had sex and helped the poor girl to pay her uni fees' sort of thing? Like it's almost bloody charity from their part?..As if this changes the fact that they've just been with an escort and that's all it is. Or is it that I offer vanilla GFE and they all seem to want a certain story?..

I absolutely don't mind telling them whatever they want to hear, after all it's my job to make them comfortable and happy, I'm just curious if anyone else has noticed this.

Nia Hope · « **Reply #1 on:** 16 February 2016, 02:22:41 pm »

I either change the subject or make up some bullshit story, I think you're right they expect the cliche hard luck story.

Kendall · « **Reply #2 on:** 16 February 2016, 04:26:10 pm »

Most of the time you have to pander more to their egos than their dicks, it's like how they love believing you do this because you love sex

KittenCandy · « **Reply #3 on:** 16 February 2016, 05:35:36 pm »

I refuse to stroke their egos. sorry. I don't think I have been asked why I do this, only what made you start and I tell the truth, i've always wanted to be paid for sex as I thought the idea was thrilling. If they ask why i do this I tell them the truth. To make as much money as I can in a short space of time so I can get a boob/nose job. Why should I lie? If they don't like it then tough lol. Evergreen is right, they want to feel like they have just sexed me for free but just gave me some money to help with school fees out of good will. No, you have just paid a prostitute to fuck you. Nothing wrong with that and they shouldn't feel bad about it. It's time for them to stop crawling and start walking now. Hmmm. Let go of my hand now, you could do it. Go on, repeat after me, "I have just paid a prostitute to fuck me" And again!

With that being said, I think we have come to the conclusion that some of these men are deluded anyway, So I'm not surprised.

Phoenix · « **Reply #4 on:** 16 February 2016, 06:41:48 pm »

I long ago stopped telling Clients the truth

Now, pretty much everything they ( think ) they know about me is all bollocks - from my birthday to my family background. I have one client who constantly sleezily asks about my Sister, so I'm glad she is only a figment of my fun

Also, since I adopted wigs and specs for all bookings, I don't seem to get asked personal stuff anymore. Funny that..

TrashAzn · « **Reply #5 on:** 16 February 2016, 07:24:54 pm »

Most guys just like feeling in control of the situation like you need them. It's the same thing when you get these facebook models who do cosplay and a bunch of guys are just giving them money for nothing because they feel they are helping her achieve a dream. You can play off it though I imagine some girls like the feeling of being in control themselves and don't want to pretend to suck up to men. I guess for me it's not far from the truth I am a student just in reality I realised I could make much more money for far less hours of work. My regular job was mundane and I dealt with just as many jerks but got paid a lot less. I suppose it doesn't hurt my appeal if I tell them I'm doing this to supplement my studies to attain my dream in life even if it's really not the case at least not in the "poor girl who wants to become a Vet" story. In reality my dream is to see the world backpacking I suppose they are paying for that. But playing the girl who struggles to afford her studies so she can do a dream job and have a better life works.

The_Lynx · « **Reply #6 on:** 16 February 2016, 11:18:53 pm »

For my part, I just give it to them straight - I dislike A4 jobs, simple as. Never saw them get disappointed, though, if anything I find the notion you "have" to do this turns them off a lot more.

Shewolf · « **Reply #7 on:** 16 February 2016, 11:41:59 pm »

Quote from: The_Lynx on 16 February 2016, 11:18:53 pm

For my part, I just give it to them straight - I dislike A4 jobs, simple as. Never saw them get disappointed, though, if anything I find the notion you "have" to do this turns them off a lot more.

I have found the same. The guys I have seen have all wanted to think I was doing it because I am sexually frustrated/enjoy sex/am kinky. They have mentioned these things as though convincing themselves.

To confront the fact you are desperate for money is to confront what they are actually engaging in.

Riverprice · « **Reply #8 on:** 17 February 2016, 08:49:21 am »

Honestly I think I've been quite lucky with my clients because if I just say how it is , I often found that... well almost like they have a new respect for me. 21st century women doing her own thing etc. Haha but I would never change my story to make someone feel better with their ego, if they have a moral problem with it they shouldn't book in the first place xxx

Wailing Banshee · « **Reply #9 on:** 17 February 2016, 09:31:59 am »

I expect it varies, some men will get off on damsel in distress and some would prefer an escort to say she does it because she loves cock and it's good money because they like the notion we are nymphos. It's like some men are turned on if we admit to a partner and some men like the idea we are free and single.

I've also heard men say they prefer part time escorts because they are less jaded and some prefer full time ones because they are more serious and professional.

They make their own decisions on justifying themselves for paying for sex and all have their own little turn ons and ridiculous stereotype notions about sex workers.

I expect once past a certain age it's harder to pull off the impoverished student thing so not a line I've ever used!

I think it's best to say whatever works for you and your 'brand' or image or in the moment if you can remember what you have told who- hence I decided on a story and stuck to it once I realised some come back and remember what you've told them!

Lushblossom · « **Reply #10 on:** 17 February 2016, 10:01:58 am »

I think they sometimes believe we might struggle to get enough work, not realising we regularly turn people away all the time......!

TrashAzn · « **Reply #11 on:** 17 February 2016, 01:27:26 pm »

Quote from: Wailing Banshee on 17 February 2016, 09:31:59 am

I expect it varies, some men will get off on damsel in distress and some would prefer an escort to say she does it because she loves cock and it's good money because they like the notion we are nymphos. It's like some men are turned on if we admit to a partner and some men like the idea we are free and single.

I've also heard men say they prefer part time escorts because they are less jaded and some prefer full time ones because they are more serious and professional.

They make their own decisions on justifying themselves for paying for sex and all have their own little turn ons and ridiculous stereotype notions about sex workers.

I expect once past a certain age it's harder to pull off the impoverished student thing so not a line I've ever used!

I think it's best to say whatever works for you and your 'brand' or image or in the moment if you can remember what you have told who- hence I decided on a story and stuck to it once I realised some come back and remember what you've told them!

Well that about sums it up. Everything you do is promoting a brand/yourself whatever you want to call it. Different girls get different niches and clients often. A lot of the ones I've spoken to when they ask about me personally seem to hate the idea of a lifer escort somebody who has been in the job for years and will keep doing it which is maybe why they are more interested in younger girls with the whole student thing saying they are just doing this as a temp job. It probably doesn't translate so well to the whole porn star fantasy though.

Lushblossom · « **Reply #12 on:** 19 February 2016, 07:10:56 am »

It constantly baffles me that they don't realise our prime motivation is simply to get some money in!!

Shewolf · « **Reply #13 on:** 19 February 2016, 10:02:04 pm »

Quote from: Lushblossom on 19 February 2016, 07:10:56 am

It constantly baffles me that they don't realise our prime motivation is simply to get some money in!!

Oh, they know alright. Deep down.

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