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Frilz

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Slut,prostitute,working girl or escort?
« on: 01 August 2013, 01:53:11 pm »
Hi girls, got called a slut today by a client, he didn't mean it in a derogatory way (don't think anyway) but i didn't like it! I also don't like being called a WG or a prostitute either!! What do you class yourselves as? X
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amy

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Re: Slut,prostitute,working girl or escort?
« Reply #1 on: 01 August 2013, 01:59:41 pm »
I don't 'class' myself as anything - I have sex with people for money, therefore I am a prostitute. If I made bouquets and wreaths for a living, I'd be a florist, and if I mended cars I'd be a mechanic. I don't see the link with 'slut' though - I would have thought that was a fairly sexist and derogatory term for those who were shagging lots of people for free (although the punter probably just thought it was sexy :)).

Anything other than prostitute is just a euphemism for it and whilst euphemisms can be helpful occasionally, in my experience those occasions are extremely rare.
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Re: Slut,prostitute,working girl or escort?
« Reply #2 on: 01 August 2013, 02:05:56 pm »
Quote from: amy on 01 August 2013, 01:59:41 pm
I don't 'class' myself as anything - I have sex with people for money, therefore I am a prostitute. If I made bouquets and wreaths for a living, I'd be a florist, and if I mended cars I'd be a mechanic. I don't see the link with 'slut' though - I would have thought that was a fairly sexist and derogatory term for those who were shagging lots of people for free (although the punter probably just thought it was sexy :)).

Anything other than prostitute is just a euphemism for it and whilst euphemisms can be helpful occasionally, in my experience those occasions are extremely rare.

I agree. I prefer prostitute. It leaves no doubt, which is very useful in certain situations.

Wear it with pride. I do.
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Re: Slut,prostitute,working girl or escort?
« Reply #3 on: 01 August 2013, 02:38:34 pm »
I call myself a hooker - don't like being called a prostitute or escort - but its all the same difference in the end, lol!
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Re: Slut,prostitute,working girl or escort?
« Reply #4 on: 01 August 2013, 07:08:00 pm »
I like whore. Maybe its just an old fashioned word but I feel very comfortable with that  ;)
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Re: Slut,prostitute,working girl or escort?
« Reply #5 on: 01 August 2013, 07:58:38 pm »
I'd much prefer escort to hooker or prostitute! Escort sounds classy, hooker/prostitute to me sounds trashy and lowbrow!

Either way, call me what you want, just pay me first :)
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« Reply #6 on: 01 August 2013, 08:47:18 pm »
Quote from: xCara on 01 August 2013, 07:58:38 pm

Either way, call me what you want, just pay me first :)

This was going to be my response, call me what you like as long as your paying ;)

I like the word "whore" not sure why, my other half HATES it with a vengeance. I have use the term sex worker when talking to my doctor or the gum clinic, my friends know me as a escort.
I don't mind what word is used, I do sexual acts for money, and im more than happy with that :D
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Re: Slut,prostitute,working girl or escort?
« Reply #7 on: 01 August 2013, 09:04:21 pm »
Quote from: Princess_Emily on 01 August 2013, 08:47:18 pm
Quote from: xCara on 01 August 2013, 07:58:38 pm

Either way, call me what you want, just pay me first :)

This was going to be my response, call me what you like as long as your paying ;)

I like the word "whore" not sure why, my other half HATES it with a vengeance. I have use the term sex worker when talking to my doctor or the gum clinic, my friends know me as a escort.
I don't mind what word is used, I do sexual acts for money, and im more than happy with that :D

Hahaha!!
"F you pay me"
That a quote from Beyonce in her song "Who runs da world GIRLS"

She went up miles in my estimation since then  :-* :-* :-*
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Re: Slut,prostitute,working girl or escort?
« Reply #8 on: 02 August 2013, 07:08:26 am »
free lance Virtual office assistant we have bad flooding here we use condoms to cover the plugs to keep them dry  ;D

My first time I was called a slut and a whore and another one since has called me a slut
I like escort but I dont let everybody know what Im upto you know I now avoid form filling
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Re: Slut,prostitute,working girl or escort?
« Reply #9 on: 02 August 2013, 10:49:08 am »
I like Harlot, but seeing as hardly anyone uses it then I'm not particularlly bothered, providing it isn't used in a derogatory sence.  Although I can't stand it if someone uses the word Slag (whether it's derogatory or not). 
If I'm describing myself to someone then I'll use escort and sometimes prostitute.  I have used Harlot, wg, Whore and Slut, but the latter two are used often enough for women who don't work in the business, and causes confusion, and when I've used the first two I find myself having to explain more.  Pretty much everyone knows what an escort or prostitute is.
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Frilz

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Re: Slut,prostitute,working girl or escort?
« Reply #10 on: 02 August 2013, 10:57:58 am »
Quote from: xCara on 01 August 2013, 07:58:38 pm
I'd much prefer escort to hooker or prostitute! Escort sounds classy, hooker/prostitute to me sounds trashy and lowbrow!

Either way, call me what you want, just pay me first :)


Totally agree!
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Re: Slut,prostitute,working girl or escort?
« Reply #11 on: 02 August 2013, 12:22:10 pm »
I can't see how 'escort' sounds classy - everybody knows that an 'escort' in this context is a prostitute. I rarely escort anybody anywhere further than the door to the bedroom, and to me it just sounds like a prostitute who's ashamed of being a prostitute. There's nothing classy about that.
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Re: Slut,prostitute,working girl or escort?
« Reply #12 on: 02 August 2013, 12:48:37 pm »
Quote from: xCara on 01 August 2013, 07:58:38 pm

Either way, call me what you want, just pay me first :)

I couldn't care less what people call me.  But I do not like people who gives themselves the tag of 'escort' and don't get me started on 'courtesan' .... names just for girls to 'BIG' themselves up on.

Like amy says :  - I have sex with people for money, therefore I am a prostitute.

No quibbles from me.
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Re: Slut,prostitute,working girl or escort?
« Reply #13 on: 02 August 2013, 05:22:05 pm »
I call myself an escort, working girl, service provider, sex worker! All of those I am happy with. But I get upset more than angry when I get called a prossie, whore, slut, slag, cum dumpster and so on as all of those things being said to me are meant in a derogatory way. I get called those things all the time by clients I refuse to see for whatever reason x
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Re: Slut,prostitute,working girl or escort?
« Reply #14 on: 02 August 2013, 10:29:53 pm »
Quote from: Frilz on 01 August 2013, 01:53:11 pm
Hi girls, got called a slut today by a client, he didn't mean it in a derogatory way (don't think anyway) but i didn't like it! I also don't like being called a WG or a prostitute either!! What do you class yourselves as? X

Well it is what it is. I am standing proud of being a prozzy. If clients call me prozzy things like you explained. I will laugh it off. You know the saying. If you can't take what the game involves then leave it. Discrimination will always be there. prozzying isn't viewed upon as glamours and never will be. I reckon some guys against prozzies use us just cause they are horny. I don't care what any of them thinks negative. I'm so happy for the genuine ones who appreciate.  I always do my best to concentrate on the positives in this game not the negatives.
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