How much do you hate her son, your ex lol.... If you could tolerate him for a night id go back to her house with him shag him to death and sit at the brekkie table next morning telling her all your gonna buy with his fee... Each time she says anything then just remind her that your a prossie but having sex in her house makes it a brothel... Wonder would that shut the oul cow up
That made me giggle
I wish i could do just that because i'd take great pleasure in doing so, but unfortunately he doesn't live with her anymore so she wouldn't be there to get pissed off directly.
I've thought about writing her a letter personally and sending it in the post so she can't accuse me of going to her home, but i think she'd use something like that to her advantage. She does seem to be the type of woman who gets some form of thrill from causing upset, so i think any reaction from me is a good one irrespective of what it is because she's getting a reaction. I have tried to approach her on the matter a good few times before but all she does is dismiss me and flare up over the internet again. It's really childish behavior and reminds me of being back at school, actually scratch that no it doesn't because shes a lot bloody worse
She does seem to spend a hell of a lot of time on Adultwork which is slightly bizarre to say the least, i'm pretty sure she's not seeking sexual services (lol) so her sole motivation is to spy on me which is just plain weird.
I really want to tell her husband everything she's been doing but he's 'under the thumb' and lets her do whatever it is she likes. I don't even think that he cares that his wife is a raving lunatic to be completely honest. Before i left my ex and she was causing problems, my ex telephoned his dad and left a voice mail (his dad wouldn't speak to him at the time because he wasn't talking to his mother - yes the family is really that petty) and asked him to look at what she's been doing on the internet and have her stop it. Needless to say nothing changed, he knows what she's like because she's always done things like this, so it'd be pointless trying to approach him either.
One of the most hurtful factors in all that she's doing isn't even the fact she's doing it, it's the fact shes doing it
now when she knows only too well that i've just suffered a loss. She's deliberately trying to kick me whilst i'm at a low point to try and break me. If karma exists then ooooh boy has she got a lot of it due her way!
Thanks ladies, and also for the PM's which have been most helpful x