Quote from: Alice G on 04 February 2016, 01:00:58 am

I had one recently and actually felt sick to the stomach of seeing him yet again. It got too much and had to stop visiting him.
Just remember all the nice ones out there and having a fun time without having to get the sick bag out!
There are more of them - thankfully.

Alice, yep, sometimes it's just not worth the money. I am seeing one tomorrow who has just texted me that, because I have made him wait to see me (have been putting it off), he is going to make me 'cum' twice. I have never...ever...'cum' with one of these men. Ever. And I doubt I ever will. But...I do a great Meg Ryan. Tiresome but necessary x 

Hahaha! Lucky you he only makes you "cum" TWICE:))))

Quote from: Alice G on 04 February 2016, 01:00:58 am

I had one recently and actually felt sick to the stomach of seeing him yet again. It got too much and had to stop visiting him.
Just remember all the nice ones out there and having a fun time without having to get the sick bag out!
There are more of them - thankfully.

Alice, yep, sometimes it's just not worth the money. I am seeing one tomorrow who has just texted me that, because I have made him wait to see me (have been putting it off), he is going to make me 'cum' twice. I have never...ever...'cum' with one of these men. Ever. And I doubt I ever will. But...I do a great Meg Ryan. Tiresome but necessary x 

laughing hard one guy said he was going to try to get me to orgasm for a second time I said oh sorry that's impossible for me ....and he said "well you did last time" I was " oh YES how could I forget that you naughty man" ha ha ha !

I stopped offering dfk a long time ago, yes, I get the odd person who will ask about it and not book when I tell them I don't. Doesn't bother me, too many clients in the past slobbering all over my face  never again!

Even in my personal life I dont like the whole "love making" thing, just that term makes my skin crawl. I've always been more of a pse kinda girl anyway. I don't do anything anal, or facials, doesn't hinder me. But I do do cim, so can't comment on that. I say, give it a go, if not doing certain things hinders you, go back to the drawing board and focus on the things your good at and enjoy, but if it doesn't, crack on and enjoy not having to do such intimate things with clients you would prefer to save for your personal life 

Xxxxxxx

I enjoy the GFE because in the bedroom i'm naturally kissing & cuddling & chatting just helps all parties relax around each other so it is a good option but I deffo think there needs to be a third option for those that just want to cum and go without it being the porn star experience because that implies kinky kinky hardcore fucking. A third option where if the client has 0 conversation skills that they can just come in, say you're pleasantries and fuck and go. I feel that'd be helpful for us on days where we don't really wanna fuck and for the clients that don't really want to talk. I wouldn't say well hey that's just the 15 minute booking right? Nah I wouldn't say so, people get intensley affectionate and need verbally pampering and chit chat in a 15 mins and ussually most people want to fuck for longer than 15. But the only issue i think we have is... what would you call that, it's not very marketable as in you can't call it 'no conversation just fuck and then leave 30 - ?80' lol. Like it's not very intuitive, if you've got a name for it by all means fire away lol. I deffinatley know that a lot of people would like a cut the small talk option almost like the hairdressers.

I offer GFE and don't mind it unless it's with the clients who drop the E portion.  Some seem to think it means we'll have an emotional bond.  How that is possible to force is beyond me and many of my clients are very intelligent men??? Yes, you meet the odd person that you have instant chemistry or connection with but that's rare.

In GFE sessions I draw on my memories of my hottest boyfriend and go with those.  It helps.

Oh yeah, the kissing is the worst. The only bookings I've managed to get away with not doing it are the domme ones. Even then, they always wanted arse fucking and undoubtedly they'd not bothered to douche and there'd be shit everywhere. It's picking between being grossed out in different ways.

Now I just play a character. I've also told my clients that I have a ticklish neck so I don't like to be kissed there. If they do I squirm and giggle and they usually stop. It's in keeping with my character as I've gone down the GFE route. I've also told them I have sensitive nipples and they can make me cum by just sucking them, it keeps their faces away from mine!

 Gosh, I'd love for them to just bend me over and fuck me then leave

Some of them do, wondered if that's something they saw whilst watching Porn?  Or a GFE thing?  Thank you for bringing it up.  So weird.