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Slavetolove

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Shower included in time?
« on: 08 December 2023, 10:28:11 am »
Never had this issue before, normally shower is included in the booking time.

I have a 30 min booking tomorrow who wants mostly rimming. I said I offer this if they shower when they arrive and he replied he’s happy to shower if it’s not included in the time.

So, do you take time off for them to shower or add it on?

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Re: Shower included in time?
« Reply #1 on: 08 December 2023, 10:36:33 am »
I always allow 5 mins either way on top of the booking time for showering at no extra cost and tbh I mostly find they don't take the piss and are out on time anyway.


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« Reply #2 on: 08 December 2023, 11:18:03 am »
No shower is always included in the time. They book for 30 minutes so 30 minutes is what they get. Not 30 minutes plus a shower plus getting dressed plus a chat plus whatever else. By the time you are done they’ve had a 45 minute booking for the price of 30 minutes

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Re: Shower included in time?
« Reply #3 on: 08 December 2023, 11:20:16 am »
Sounds like some tight fisted boundary pushing to me, he's basically saying if you want him clean for your comfort ( and let's face it, who wouldn't for that particular service!?) it's on your time not his.
My 30 mins are strictly 30 mins to stop this kind of piss taking. If they want a more leisurely booking there is a 45 min option available.
If they book an hour or longer then I'm happy to give a little leeway.
I really don't want to encourage the skinflints.

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Re: Shower included in time?
« Reply #4 on: 08 December 2023, 12:24:38 pm »
shower is included.

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Re: Shower included in time?
« Reply #5 on: 08 December 2023, 12:47:55 pm »
I find this question weird and i actually got asked this twice lately and i said to both of them that is a weird thing to ask unless you are planning on spending quite a lot of time in there and if so that will come out of your time.

The other guy got naked ran the shower and popped out to say will be less than 5 mins so start the time then. I just looked at him with a annoying look and pulled my eyes up so he knew he was a idiot.

Most men are only in the shower for 3 mins at the most ( probably why they are not as clean as i would like)

As a rule i think i would only time it out of there time if it was 10 mins and more. A few mins i don't even think of it either way.

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Re: Shower included in time?
« Reply #6 on: 08 December 2023, 01:16:30 pm »
I think it's a twattish thing to ask; most sensible adults understand that if they take the piss it comes off their time but a quick shower with a proper wash (and I can do this in under two minutes so there's no reason they can't) is fine. I've never stood there pointing at the time to make them leave on the dot though, however many times I might have wanted to :D

In the OPs case though I'd maybe try to turn it into part of the service by offering to get in with him and wash him properly; I don't do either rimming or shared showers, but if I did then they would be inextricably linked. And as part of the service, it's definitely part of the time.

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Re: Shower included in time?
« Reply #7 on: 08 December 2023, 01:19:43 pm »
Five minutes either way is no big deal as some clients leave a little earlier if they're all done and happy.  A shower is ok out of time if a quick one generally but one man spent so long in there my bathroom was like a steam room! He also thought it ok to join me on the bed while still dripping water. It wasn't so I made damn sure he was finished ten minutes early and managed to get him out and away.

Those men who shower before (at mine) then want another at the end of the booking make me want to scream but they're rare thankfully.

I do wish men would bring their own bath towels like they would at the gym! 😕

MissBetty

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Re: Shower included in time?
« Reply #8 on: 08 December 2023, 01:33:10 pm »
I actually advertise that dhowers are not available on 30 minute appointments.  I offer hot towels tgsts all.  Dhoweres in hour appointments the first shower on arrival comes out of the time they book.  I don't mind them having a shower at end on my time as long as its no more than 5 minutes.

I don't want half hour into full stop. I don't offer really much in half hours. They must book an hour to get all my likes.   

Your potenticlient sounds cheap. 

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Re: Shower included in time?
« Reply #9 on: 08 December 2023, 04:48:48 pm »
Showers come out of their own time as far as I'm concerned. Two minutes is enough to scrub their nether regions.
That said, a client was in the shower for 8 minutes yesterday (his time) and he still came out with musty balls and cock  :FF

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Re: Shower included in time?
« Reply #10 on: 08 December 2023, 05:04:36 pm »
On a recent rare tour a regular who asked to shower immediately on arrival left a towel in such a state I had to double bag it, it was awful and I didn't know what to do. Poor hotel staff.

The towel wasnt particularly marked, although bathmat had faint brown spots on it, he left a bootprint on the bathroom floor. I noticed his clothing had a smell too as if not washed for a while. Very confused now because he's been an otherwuse good regular. Thankfully he didn't use a bathtowel only hand and the bathmat. I washed the bathmat by hand, may try that with hand towel if it happens with anyone else.

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Re: Shower included in time?
« Reply #11 on: 08 December 2023, 11:25:48 pm »
I never include shower time during reservations. Most showers take less than 5 minutes and I prefer them to shower anyway because it is also more pleasant for me to interact with them if they have just showered.
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Re: Shower included in time?
« Reply #12 on: 09 December 2023, 07:42:04 am »
I never include shower time during reservations. Most showers take less than 5 minutes and I prefer them to shower anyway because it is also more pleasant for me to interact with them if they have just showered.

This is what I do but most clients are finished the session before the half hour/hour is up anyway. I do a lot of rimming and a shower is mandatory. Never had a problem with them taking the piss apart from once years ago and I knocked the door and told him to get out and that was the shower he had AFTER the session.

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Re: Shower included in time?
« Reply #13 on: 09 December 2023, 08:41:12 am »
Five minutes either way is no big deal as some clients leave a little earlier if they're all done and happy.  A shower is ok out of time if a quick one generally but one man spent so long in there my bathroom was like a steam room! He also thought it ok to join me on the bed while still dripping water. It wasn't so I made damn sure he was finished ten minutes early and managed to get him out and away.

Those men who shower before (at mine) then want another at the end of the booking make me want to scream but they're rare thankfully.

I do wish men would bring their own bath towels like they would at the gym! 😕

I can count on my hand the number of people I've had who've requested this but the last one left me a nasty review for not immediately giving him my address at first comms, being too quiet and being too autistic!

Autistic!
Twat!!!

Yeah, because he knows me inside and out just after half an hour booking with half of that time spent in the shower.

Absolute utter moron  ;D I can't believe these people get through life without being punched on a daily basis.
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Re: Shower included in time?
« Reply #14 on: 09 December 2023, 08:34:05 pm »
What annoys me is when they take more than one towel. One for the first shower and a new one at the end. Clearly they never done their own washing in their life lmao. Really unnecessary  ..  :FF ;D :FF