My parents found out last night

Shit shit shit shit

ah fuck. How are they taking it? Hug ciber directed your way

If you are out to them, I'd bet the phrase 'being careful' (meaning don't get HIV or murdered) has been used by them, so you could demonstrate how you are, in fact, being more careful than half the men on the scene.

Thats a good point. I think if i explained to my dad the safety procedures we do I think he would be more happy about that then me going out on the pull of an evening.

Oh dear. What happened and what happens now?

I got home from a night out at 4am. Went to bed, and when I woke up I bumped into dad in the kitchen who told me that "mum has found your escorting site". At which point I went quiet and went to work (day job)

If they already know you're gay and that you're not monogamous, the idea of money being involved can be rather less of a shock than if it all comes at once.

If you are out to them, I'd bet the phrase 'being careful' (meaning don't get HIV or murdered) has been used by them, so you could demonstrate how you are, in fact, being more careful than half the men on the scene.

I have been out to them since I was sixteen, and my mum regularly provides me with large unsolicited bags of condoms. They know I have a very active sex life, yes.

I have since stayed on a friend's sofa and calmed down. My dad sent me an email this morning saying

What are your plans for today ... we'd like to see you!
Don't need to talk about it today. Mum is ok, just worried about you.

So I have now come home and he seems to be alright atm

Sounds like all they need is to hear the truth from you, which will be really reassuring as like others have said, 'Safety Precautions' is an escort's double barreled middle name.

Lovely that they seem so supportive. (hugs) Hope you're feeling okay, too. Must be a little weird having your parents know about it if you're still living with them?

wow...

well; atleast you're at an advantage. They knew you were gay, and for crying out loud your mom provided you with condoms? If they knew you have an active sex life, it should be absolutely no surprise that you're getting paid for it.

Your dad handled it very well. You have great parents who are understanding and accepting. I can imagine your embarrasement...but Im trying to figure out how did your mom find your escorting site???

I left my PC on and some relevant websites open. I think she already had her suspicions, so apparently she followed some links and immediately found my site...

I left my PC on and some relevant websites open. I think she already had her suspicions, so apparently she followed some links and immediately found my site...

Interesting. I wonder if you subconsciously wanted to get caught.
At least it sounds like they're taking it well. That's the difficult part over with. If it helps, show them this site, let them know that you at least have a support network to hand should you need it. That might put their minds at rest.

And what now? Will you carry on?

I hope so. It depends on the outcome of the conversations, but I enjoy this too much not too. It sounds like a cliche, but I havn't felt so alive in ages as I do when I am with a seeing clients.

It does give you a certain kick sometimes! Especially if you have had a slow period. But seriously good luck. It sounds like you have a sorted set of parents there and also your brother already knows so he can be there for you too.