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GothGirl

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She wasn’t available so I came to see you instead ...
« on: 13 December 2019, 11:54:40 pm »
As it says in the title.

I seem to be getting this ALOT lately !

‘Oh so & so was busy so I booked you instead’

How would you react to this? I’d personally not know I was the second or probably third forth option.

CelesteManchester

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Re: She wasn’t available so I came to see you instead ...
« Reply #1 on: 14 December 2019, 12:54:03 am »
I think I'd say, "Well, it sucks to be her! Yay for me, right?"
A very old song by The Steve Miller Band comes to mind called Go On, Take the Money & Run😁.

But seriously; you've gotten the bookings, the $$ is in your pocket, what's not to love? They didn't answer their phone, you did. Win/win🙌🏻😀👍🏻.
An American on a British site, still learning the slang😉

saltysweet

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Re: She wasn’t available so I came to see you instead ...
« Reply #2 on: 14 December 2019, 02:24:23 am »
Second choice but richer!
Once in a blue moon I get, 'I was let down last minute'.
My foolish pride takes a bruising but I've got her dollah.

Midlands Ms

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Re: She wasn’t available so I came to see you instead ...
« Reply #3 on: 14 December 2019, 07:22:47 am »
It wouldn’t hurt my pride to be honest, there are hundreds of providers around in any one locale, many punters don’t choose me ever at all, some will have me on a maybe list but never quite get tempted, some I’ll be the only woman who picked up or wasn’t already busy at the time they wanted, some I’ll be ‘plan b’, and some will make a specific effort to see me because I’m their type. It’s just the way it is. Like I say, hundreds of providers around, you could look like Marilyn Monroe and still not be lots of punters first choice.   

ladyofthemansion

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Re: She wasn’t available so I came to see you instead ...
« Reply #4 on: 14 December 2019, 09:54:10 am »
I just comment how I’m glad I’ve got the money instead.


Shows what a prick he is though. For future bookings I would always bin him for a regular. X
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

Justine

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Re: She wasn’t available so I came to see you instead ...
« Reply #5 on: 14 December 2019, 12:53:40 pm »
While I am not unaware that I can be a plan B any day I don't need telling by the client. I think they do it to keep you on your toes. Not necessary at all. I also think I can be a plan A and not available so they are doing this to someone else. It has to work both ways.

In my recollection I have only been told 2 or 3  times that Mary/Sue was not available.

I have one man who books me every month or so and he never fails to tell me he usually sees insert name here
and I just grit my teeth.

Mirror

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Re: She wasn’t available so I came to see you instead ...
« Reply #6 on: 14 December 2019, 03:41:10 pm »
I would get on with the booking.

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Re: She wasn’t available so I came to see you instead ...
« Reply #7 on: 14 December 2019, 03:46:15 pm »
Wouldn't bother me, I didn't start this to polish my ego.

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Re: She wasn’t available so I came to see you instead ...
« Reply #8 on: 14 December 2019, 07:59:42 pm »
Honesty is fine with me.
"Dishonesty/lies" and games do bother me,
as if I "tolerate" it because of what I "do". 

I hate those, who ask for "availability"
and wank off over "free replies" . . .
A few times, "you are a loser, mate (blocked).
No manners in that.

Vichyssoise

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Re: She wasn’t available so I came to see you instead ...
« Reply #9 on: 14 December 2019, 08:44:39 pm »
Doesn’t bother me. I have a fixed amount of punters I like see in a day. If I’m the last choice of someone I’m glad they got to me and made up my quota.
Be in your happy place

GG

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Re: She wasn’t available so I came to see you instead ...
« Reply #10 on: 14 December 2019, 08:59:02 pm »
I would think about taking a deposit if I had decided to accept because what would he do if the first choice decided to get back to him because she had a cancellation? I think another cancellation would be on the books for his 2nd choice either that or the dreaded no show...
Personally I think they do it to keep you on your toes and i don't like guys like that. They are not fcuking stupid and know its insulting and worst still don't care. If they care that little when they are on their best behaviour trying to make a booking what would they be like in the room??? A fcuking nightmare that's what and that's why I would quite happily say, it must be your unlucky day as I am not available either.....bye!!!!!
GG x

Justine

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Re: She wasn’t available so I came to see you instead ...
« Reply #11 on: 14 December 2019, 09:02:23 pm »
I would think about taking a deposit if I had decided to accept because what would he do if the first choice decided to get back to him because she had a cancellation? I think another cancellation would be on the books for his 2nd choice either that or the dreaded no show...
Personally I think they do it to keep you on your toes and i don't like guys like that. They are not fcuking stupid and know its insulting and worst still don't care. If they care that little when they are on their best behaviour trying to make a booking what would they be like in the room??? A fcuking nightmare that's what and that's why I would quite happily say, it must be your unlucky day as I am not available either.....bye!!!!!

These men wait until they are with you to let you know you are not first choice so what you say can not always be relayed to them.

GothGirl

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Re: She wasn’t available so I came to see you instead ...
« Reply #12 on: 14 December 2019, 09:31:20 pm »
Wouldn't bother me, I didn't start this to polish my ego.

Polish your ego? Neither did I. I just think it’s a rude/stupid thing to say, but that’s clearly the norm with people these days.  ::)

CelesteManchester

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Re: She wasn’t available so I came to see you instead ...
« Reply #13 on: 14 December 2019, 10:48:24 pm »
Polish your ego? Neither did I. I just think it’s a rude/stupid thing to say, but that’s clearly the norm with people these days.  ::)

I agree, it's clearly rude, it's clearly a power play & you're clearly expected to lick his boots in gratefulness. Not.

Y'all know me & my answer to everything: turn it around on them😁: "Isn't it fortunate you chose ME then?!"

Teee heee.
An American on a British site, still learning the slang😉

GothGirl

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Re: She wasn’t available so I came to see you instead ...
« Reply #14 on: 14 December 2019, 11:31:20 pm »
I agree, it's clearly rude, it's clearly a power play & you're clearly expected to lick his boots in gratefulness. Not.

Y'all know me & my answer to everything: turn it around on them😁: "Isn't it fortunate you chose ME then?!"

Teee heee.

Hahah I will use this in response next time!  ;D