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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: ladyofthemansion on 19 December 2024, 12:35:53 am
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Do any of you who do not show your face on line, send a photo to guys who ask?
I have been doing outcalls lately and as always getting a deposit. Tonight this couple requested a visit and l agreed that l would go after l had seen my next client. I sent them the bank details along with the time l could get there after the client before them.
When l had finished with that client l hoped the deposit would be in but instead was a text asking if l could please send a face photo first then they would send the deposit. I think they were genuine and l was ready to send it.
But then somebody else called also wanting a home visit and paid the deposit really quickly without asking for that photo. I only had time to see one more so l messaged the couple and said to just call back another day. For me is was just easier to accept the guy who called and paid.
A face photo is not something l am asked for often but l just wonder if it’s the norm to send them.
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Personally for me it's a no. Once sent they can put it anywhere. I also worry if it's someone that thinks they know me and just want to check it is me.
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Thinking to say that there is a 10 pound charge and it will be deducted if they book me.
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I never send, I also find it’s the time wasters that drag on a conversation and ‘book’ only to then put you on the spot asking for face pics just before they are due.
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If you do jot already have face pictures up on your profile for privacy reasons then don't send privately.
The issue with sending imo is that once sent it is now out of your control, you have lost the rights to that image and they can do with it as they please.
It's possible to send a one time view on WhatsApp but all they need is a second phone to take a picture of the picture and you are in the same situation.
I would rather lose the business than send a fa email picture and have done on more that one occasion.
I've also explained that I don't send for the above reasons but that I'm not that scary and I'm happy to leave if they are not happy and most will book regardless.
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No this isn't something I do, they have to book based on what they see online. I do have face photos in my private gallery, and the option to see my face camming either live, privately or on one platform for free. Someone could also request a facephoto just to timewaste, continue the conversation. If you have plenty of business without doing this, it doesn't make sense to send a photo. I also find many couples can be demanding, timewastery, hard work to set up often fantasists. Because I don't receive many couple enquiries they could leave more of an impression, so not sure if this is more so than individuals enquiries.
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Hell no, I'll never send a face pic. In my experience it's only the time wasters that ever ask. I have side view and partial facepics anyway so it's enough to join the dots.
And once your photo is out there, you have no control over it's use and distribution!
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This sounds like typical timewaster behaviour to me. Any requests for pictures other than what I choose to use on my advertising site are ignored.
You went with the genuine booking.
As an aside, I have found in the past that a lot of couple enquiries are more trouble than they’re worth.
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Never ever.
I get plenty of business from guys that book without needing a photo
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No chance.
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If ure not showing ur face on ur profile... No point for them to ask for face photo, so don't send it at all. Ignore them.
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I've never shown my face and never been asked but it would have been a firm no.
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If you're showing your face in the profile then you don't care (which is perfectly fine), if you DO Care then any face photo can be inserted into one of the many facial recognition websites on the internet and get your real name, life history on the web (like that job you had in 2012 or the trekking trip were someone took a group picture and posted it in his blog etc...). There's quite a few incels out there blackmailing sex workers and only fans ladies through this method so I would be extremely cautious of sending face photos. If you really really want to send a face pic I would reccomend creating a headshot on AI that looks very similar to you but can't be traced through a facial recognition software.
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If you're showing your face in the profile then you don't care (which is perfectly fine), if you DO Care then any face photo can be inserted into one of the many facial recognition websites on the internet and get your real name, life history on the web (like that job you had in 2012 or the trekking trip were someone took a group picture and posted it in his blog etc...)
People who care a great deal don't put their real life identity on the internet for randoms to freely pick over. I would be staggered if anybody could find a single picture of me which linked to my legal name or other personal details.
As for the punter, I'd just file that under asking for something I don't offer along with the rest of the boundary pushing numpties. It's definitely the time of year, I think.
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People who care a great deal don't put their real life identity on the internet for randoms to freely pick over. I would be staggered if anybody could find a single picture of me which linked to my legal name or other personal details.
As for the punter, I'd just file that under asking for something I don't offer along with the rest of the boundary pushing numpties. It's definitely the time of year, I think.
Exactly after many many years in their business there is not a single face photo/ personal image of me on line or my personal details
I’ve been meticulous about this over the years and yes people might think it’s me by photos / body shape but unless I’m showing my face they can’t prove shit
Plus I can always say like the rapper Shaggy It wasn’t me 😂 but you can’t do that if your face out
If clients ask me for a face photo I either don’t bother replying nor tell them there are thousands of ladies who show their face - why pick one who dosent - screams at being a boundary pusher ( IMO)
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I just tell them I aren't a model, I don't supply face pictures and have never had a client walk when seeing me.
Some respond giving reasons why i should I block them immediately, others book one is now a regular.
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Yep, am starting off the new year with some work life resolutions. 🎉
First thing today i get a face pic request.
Didn't even engage. Immediate block.
Same with several others who wasted my first working hours of 2025 in various other ways.
Blocked without response.
The rubbish takes itself out, leaving me free to have a lovely new year's Day doing what i love (clue: Not shagging randomers in bleak hotel rooms ;D
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I don't show my face anywhere on my profiles, but I had something similar, I had an outcall with a couple and they asked to see my face so I used a random snapchat account to send a pic and I did actually end up seeing them. I also had a guy who was adamant on a 10 second Whatsapp video call to prove that it was me in my pics, he transferred me £20 and I did it and he did end up coming to see me after. But even then, I just assume I was lucky in these instances and would never do this now.
I just feel like sending face pictures is unnecessarily risky if you've made the choice not to show your face on your profile. And as your story proves there are plenty of clients who will happily see you without.
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I know there is a way on WhatsApp of sending a face pic but it disappears after so the recipient cannot send it to anybody else.
I show my face on aw anyway.
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I know there is a way on WhatsApp of sending a face pic but it disappears after so the recipient cannot send it to anybody else.
I show my face on aw anyway.
One time view on WhatsApp doesn't allow the receiver to send forward or screenshot the image, but it doesn't stop them from taking a picture of their screen with a second phone and we all know that a proportion of the punting population have 2 phones
If you don't show u our face 9n your advertising and you don't want it on the Internet forever the simply don't send it
I work on the principle that once I send something I've given it to the world as i now have no real control over that image, therefore I don't send, simple!
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One time view on WhatsApp doesn't allow the receiver to send forward or screenshot the image, but it doesn't stop them from taking a picture of their screen with a second phone and we all know that a proportion of the punting population have 2 phones
If you don't show u our face 9n your advertising and you don't want it on the Internet forever the simply don't send it
I work on the principle that once I send something I've given it to the world as i now have no real control over that image, therefore I don't send, simple!
I agree, and these sad people will post this on punting forums linking you to your work profile. I dont send ever, if they dont like it book someone who does show.
The people who ask 1000s of questions are annoying and I will ignore, alot of these people are just looking for attention and free chat with a woman.
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One time view on WhatsApp doesn't allow the receiver to send forward or screenshot the image, but it doesn't stop them from taking a picture of their screen with a second phone and we all know that a proportion of the punting population have 2 phones
If you don't show u our face 9n your advertising and you don't want it on the Internet forever the simply don't send it
I work on the principle that once I send something I've given it to the world as i now have no real control over that image, therefore I don't send, simple!
When I send content or do private video calls I do say 'Do not record, share, upload' I know it doesn't stop it but at least I've said the words.Of course all say they will not share, record but someone who is going to do this would say the same things too. Same as when punters asking to take photos during bookings say they'll never show anyone.Some try to show me photos of other escorts, I have no way of knowing if consent has been given either for the photo or showing others.
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Girls, don't spoil them don't do video calls or send them your face pictures please! Otherwise they want more and more.