my self-care and my anxiety regime are the same thing
-gardening and obsessing about my garden
-trying to develop my creative and life projects
-buying random shit i don't need
-sitting in bed in tracksuit and watching netflicks
-reminding myself it's ok to cancel or rearrange appointments when i'm not feeling up to it (tell myself it's for the good of the client as no one wants moody stressed me turning up at their place)
-cuddles with loverboy
-playing and hanging out with my friends kids
-experimenting with herbal teas and remedies
-magnesium supplements have helped my anxiety a lot
-bought a hammam exfoliation glove for 2quid and my shower routine is now pure luxury
This is really important for me. In a way, escorting has made it easier for me to look after my mental health because I am in charge of my hours and don?t have to commute, do what anybody else tells me but I have found some aspects really difficult.
I take time off frequently and just chill, do whatever I want to do. I used to try and get as many bookings as I could on the days I work, now if I only have one booking that?s ok because it gives me more time to do things at home. I only work set hours/days and am getting more confident in saying what I do/don?t want to do and sticking to it because I know how it feels to lose control and there?s no need for this job to stress me out.
totally with you on this; sex work has helped me feel in control of my life again and is giving me the money and confidence to finally get back on my feet after a difficult couple of years