Hi.My name is Ben and I've been doing this for nearly 3 months. I would really love to be part of this support network as I can't talk to any of my friends about this, and you all seem like wonderful people in difficult circumstances. I realise most people on here are probably women but most of the advice and support we can offer each other would transcend sex or gender imo. We are all part of the same family imo. So I hope I will be able to chat to some of you on this forum very soon. I feel like I've already learnt enough to be able to pass advice on xxx