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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: Nell2 on 23 September 2008, 03:12:55 pm

Title: Secret Diary of a Call Girl!!!
Post by: Nell2 on 23 September 2008, 03:12:55 pm
Hi all

Just a bit of a light hearted posting -

Watched as much as I could today of the Billie Piper prog on catchup and I loved it!!!!

For obvious reasons being a single parent I am unable to watch it when it is on but it is on itv.com/catchup and from what I saw I have to confess I did enjoy, particularly the quip she makes about the fact that she will eat anything.

Am avidly going to watch them all!!! 

I think it is almost exciting to hear her make references to gfe - it's like this underworld we work in - well it can be glossy can't it !!!

love to all

Hope you all having the best day

Days like today are great - a new client arrives and gives me an extra ?20 just for the hell of it - put a big smile on my face and I thought - yes - what on earth have I got to moan about!

Alexandra
xx
Title: Re: Secret Diary of a Call Girl!!!
Post by: Fallingstar on 23 September 2008, 03:26:14 pm
Ive not seen the TV series but i love both the books :)

I know some people might disagree and think they glamorise prostitution but i think they are really witty and well written (if offering a slightly glossed over version of life as a working girl)

but hey i don't live in London so what would i know,maybye agency girls there do earn 300 quid an hours as compared to my more modest 130!

If so I'm on the first train down there!!

Yep i know what you mean Alex about it sometimes being the best job in the world,when I'm having a good week and earning more in seven days than i did in a month at my previous civvy job i cant help think Ive made a brilliant life choice despite what the judgemental populace might think.
Title: Re: Secret Diary of a Call Girl!!!
Post by: Sasha on 23 September 2008, 04:15:20 pm
Yeah i watched it, and read both the books too, I really enjoy them! Nice light hearted  stuff thats funny and a laugh, but about something that many of us who cant discuss our work in "real life". It's great to relate to something like that. I watched a programme that was on after the first series was aired about the the real life of call girls. That was quite insightful too. Though many of the women interviewed on it were doubtful thatSecret Diary is actaully written by an escort at all.
xxx
Title: Re: Secret Diary of a Call Girl!!!
Post by: lexienight on 23 September 2008, 04:48:24 pm
I hadn't ever seen it untill a few days ago, i dont have a proper tv so i watched it on catch up too.  I can see how women would wnat to start escorting thinking its all glam and prada handbags (actually, i do want a designer handbag so i wont knock that side of it!!!). 

What time does it go out on Telly though because i was suprised at the episode with the new and naive girl bambi.  i thought she was going to get beaten up or something much worse than what we actually saw and wondered if its because it goes out kind of early.  then i remembered it must go out after 9pm or they wouldnt have had an old granny saying "we've all had our share of cock dear"!!!

I will be watching it every week now.  how did i miss the first series???? i had a tv then??

And, i have known women in the past who said they were night time legal secretaries.  i wonder if they really were now!!!  If i move back to london next year guess what im going to be!!!!


Title: Re: Secret Diary of a Call Girl!!!
Post by: Lydia on 23 September 2008, 10:01:19 pm
I don't have a TV of my own so will have to watch this new series on catch up sometime, I did watch the last series it was ok, but it's Belle's story and although there are probably familiar bits to each of us I can't help but think each of our stories would be different to hers in places!

One difference in my case I have some Prada bags that were given to me before I became an escort and have never had a new Prada handbag at all after becoming one!  :o Lol   
 
Title: Re: Secret Diary of a Call Girl!!!
Post by: lexienight on 23 September 2008, 11:38:59 pm
bugger.... im only in it for the prada!!!! (even if it is bought in the Jan sales  ;) )

L.x
Title: Re: Secret Diary of a Call Girl!!!
Post by: BurlesqueHoney on 24 September 2008, 01:12:29 am
I must be a grumpy moo ? the TV series is ok but I could not stand the books ? simply crap and seem so far from what most escort do and are into.  To me the books seem to scream fake!  No wonder they had to draft in some people to rewrite and research for the actual TV program as the book certainly seemed unrealistic.

Anyway, had a nice day of shopping for labels at my local Lidl - oh the high life....
Title: Re: Secret Diary of a Call Girl!!!
Post by: brandy@saafe on 24 September 2008, 06:43:46 am
Though many of the women interviewed on it were doubtful thatSecret Diary is actaully written by an escort at all.
xxx

Yes, apparently Secret Diary was actually written by a male journalist. Although he must've got help or done research somewhere, as it seems to have quite a few things that escorts can relate to.
I'm afraid I'm one of those escorts that have neither read the books or seen the shows. I reckon I live it enough, why would I want to sit and watch/read it. 'Though I did like the documentary that followed. I recognised a couple of ladies and I thought we were well represented.
Title: Re: Secret Diary of a Call Girl!!!
Post by: Sasha on 24 September 2008, 11:45:31 am
That would explain a lot. One thing did make me wonder in the book, is the condom thing...Belle apparantly buys her condoms at the chemist. I dont even work full time and I get through enough rubber to rival Michelin Tyres lol. I just dont get mine from a shop I bulk order online which I'm presuming a lot of you ladies do to?!

Yeah the docu was interesting - I watched it before I was escorting then a cpl of months back it was repeated so I had a new perspective on it.
xxx

Title: Re: Secret Diary of a Call Girl!!!
Post by: Fallingstar on 24 September 2008, 02:15:47 pm

I agree with that one!!

I dont work full time either but i imagine if i started buying my condoms at the chemist i would soon be their favourite customer and also the recipient of some very awed looks whenever i went it ;D
Title: Re: Secret Diary of a Call Girl!!!
Post by: lexienight on 24 September 2008, 04:08:27 pm
I think the documentry you are talking about is still on ITV catch up aswell.  I watched that the other night when i was starting to have thoughts such as "what the F*** do i think im doing" (which im sure is a natural thought process).  It didnt help.... i was still thinking "what the F*** am i doing" at the end of it but it was interesting.... as long as i dont have to sing to clients or pay  ?1500 to a photograrher every 3months!!!  lol

Lexie
Title: Re: Secret Diary of a Call Girl!!!
Post by: Hermione on 24 September 2008, 04:09:59 pm
Belle's fetish clients seem a bit too textbook for my tastes, and believe me, I have a lot of books listing the profiles for various tastes!  Maybe I just attract very unusual ones!  She is pretty rude to her clients, and very unprofessional with her agent; the series presents he walking out on a client for no good reason, which will and dare I say should, get you fired from any agency worth its salts.  The blog refers to clients leaving her bruised, much to her masochistic satisfaction.  Even a professional submissive would not allow this, if for no other reason than it would put off future clients.  Also, the blog is completely humourless, and I find my experiences with clients often leave me laughing!
Title: Re: Secret Diary of a Call Girl!!!
Post by: Paige on 26 September 2008, 05:38:03 am
I've recently watched the whole first series and the new episodes and I personally think its fantastic, and you never know the program may educate people in understanding escorting a little better and make people less likely to look down on escorting.
Title: Re: Secret Diary of a Call Girl!!!
Post by: Nell2 on 26 September 2008, 08:07:10 am
Well, I have only watched the first 15 minutes for the new episode and it did make me chuckle - I just found it funny to see references to gfe on a tv (fictional?) programme.

I have yet to see more to see what I really think but I think I will view it more from a light hearted view as opposed to seeing how accurate it really is, but like I said I have yet to watch more.

In any case, I did find it amusing and intend to watch the rest, on catchup!

Love to all - have a great Friday
Alex xx
Title: Re: Secret Diary of a Call Girl!!!
Post by: brandy@saafe on 26 September 2008, 04:07:38 pm
.... as long as i dont have to sing to clients or pay  ?1500 to a photograrher every 3months!!!  lol

Lexie

I remember that! I thought "what the heck..." ?1500 for a photoshoot every 3 months. That's what I call easy money.
Title: Re: Secret Diary of a Call Girl!!!
Post by: cassie on 26 September 2008, 11:38:54 pm
hey girls, what time, day and channel is the new series on?
Title: Re: Secret Diary of a Call Girl!!!
Post by: lexienight on 27 September 2008, 02:18:27 am
I think its on thursdays but i dont have a tv so i watch it whenever i get the time on itv catch up... thats how i watch strictly too :-)
Title: Re: Secret Diary of a Call Girl!!!
Post by: medea on 28 September 2008, 03:37:17 pm
oh i didnt know there is a tv series on
oh i ought to watch it

i haven't read the books and i had the intuition that it wasn't written by an escort herself based on the title and the picture,
i think i have a good sense

i think it is good that it is portrayed in a more positive light and if you think about the negative perception most have on escorting and the stigma that is still attached to it, i think it is good that there is more positive out there.

i was reading recently the book whores in history, its written by an escort and its really very fascinating, i only have started it, and it confirms the believes i had, i did know about the temple prostitution and that we have been priestesses before and i see my services back to that area

what i haven't understood and still don't understand is how could we women tolerate what happened to use when men come to power, and i think the only reason is that they forced their position with brute force and cruelty; the same i never understood how celibacy could have been established in the catholic church for their priests (i did know the reasons which was that the land kept to the church and it was not inherited by the children of the priest but how could it happen if it wasn't already existent before, i would have assumed a lot of resistance by the priests) what i read was that it was established from one day to the other and it was followed by a terrible blood shed, for all those who didn't follow suit, and i think that's the only possible explanation that the shift from matriachy where woman had power to where we women where owned completely by men has happened, when reading this i feel a lot of sadness and pain inside me, and i think i am a feminist and i think part of my mission in life is to reestablish our own power as woman, and i personally feel we escorts are the ones closes to the old priestesshood of ishtar innana and i do feel we are doing a huge service to mankind

i do myself find it difficult, whom i am disclosing and i am saying i am an escort; it still has a stigma and a good girl is not allowed to do what i do and is looked down on her,
i do feel the need to connect to others and i ought to be able to share my experience
and in sharing our experience we find strength and inner acceptance and if not pride, and if we go back to the origin and the real value what we do and connect and see our service to the great goddess we can be truly be proud of

another aspect is that in Buddhist you here about maya and the illusion and i think all our social construct and rules (stigma taboos) are the illusion and we need to free us and be true to our hearts and inner calling.

one more thing, i come to release a person who is sexually liberated, she is truly free, as long as we follow the rules and expectations and are not true to ourselves we are controlled by men

medea