I agree. I really wish I had shouted at him to just stop, but at the time I just felt like I needed to put up with it. More mad at myself than him tbh. 

I'm going to sound like some sort of corporate bullshitter here, but can you practice saying "I'm sorry, I won't be able to accommodate you for anal" and "I'm sorry but we'll have to stop, this is too painful for me." Repeat those phrases to yourself, do it in the mirror. Roleplay his possible reactions and your response to those.

Remove emotion from the equation. You are refusing a service on a purely business basis - if you continue, you will put yourself in too much pain to be able to work the rest of the day and possibly the next. That is a far higher cost of lost business than refusing service and giving a partial refund as a goodwill gesture.

I have recently started offering anal and I always state during the booking process "Please be aware anal is not guaranteed, if it doesn't go ahead then of course you get your extra fee back."

But honestly I've also turned down vaginal service for some big cocks, I just can't take them. It's not the length, it's the girth. I've told plenty of guys, "OK, full sex is not going to be possible as your cock is so wide. We can do an oral only service and I'll refund you 20 quid."

When I first started I thought I had to accommodate everyone for the services I offered. Nope. I am running a business and if a job is going to put me out of action for other clients then I'm most definitely turning them down!

But honestly I've also turned down vaginal service for some big cocks, I just can't take them. It's not the length, it's the girth. I've told plenty of guys, "OK, full sex is not going to be possible as your cock is so wide. We can do an oral only service and I'll refund you 20 quid."

It's interesting how different we all are! I've never come across a cock that was too girthy for my vagina, but too long, yes - ouch. I can normally get round it by going on top though, or sometimes prone bone, but thankfully it's rare.

Also, if a cock won't fit my vagina, no way will my mouth get round it. If, say, my fanny could fit a 9/10 cock, my small mouth would struggle with a 7/10.

Again though, I've only had to use the Super King Size Pasantes a handful of times per year.

But honestly I've also turned down vaginal service for some big cocks, I just can't take them. It's not the length, it's the girth. I've told plenty of guys, "OK, full sex is not going to be possible as your cock is so wide. We can do an oral only service and I'll refund you 20 quid."

Seriously never thought I could do/say this...I'm going to have to start.

I'm going to sound like some sort of corporate bullshitter here, but can you practice saying "I'm sorry, I won't be able to accommodate you for anal" and "I'm sorry but we'll have to stop, this is too painful for me." Repeat those phrases to yourself, do it in the mirror. Roleplay his possible reactions and your response to those.

Remove emotion from the equation. You are refusing a service on a purely business basis - if you continue, you will put yourself in too much pain to be able to work the rest of the day and possibly the next. That is a far higher cost of lost business than refusing service and giving a partial refund as a goodwill gesture.

I have recently started offering anal and I always state during the booking process "Please be aware anal is not guaranteed, if it doesn't go ahead then of course you get your extra fee back."

But honestly I've also turned down vaginal service for some big cocks, I just can't take them. It's not the length, it's the girth. I've told plenty of guys, "OK, full sex is not going to be possible as your cock is so wide. We can do an oral only service and I'll refund you 20 quid."

When I first started I thought I had to accommodate everyone for the services I offered. Nope. I am running a business and if a job is going to put me out of action for other clients then I'm most definitely turning them down!

Doesn't sound like BS at all - in fact really great advice. I definitely have/had issues being assertive enough during bookings and although I have gotten much better, that experience has shown me I need to definitely work on it more. Until I do feel confident enough to say these sorts of things, then I am going to stick with more vanilla/gfe type services, which I feel I am less likely to feel intimidated or hurt by.

Lots of great advice from @Kay also - thank you!

I toured Scotland for a few weeks a few months back. I'm not sure if I noticed a difference tbh as there were a few large cocks probably 8-10". You definitely have to always bulk buy the kingsize condoms when ordering other regular condoms.

I've never really not been able to take any huge cock, though the older I get (26 atm) I'm realising more often I must have a large fanny which seems strange because I've had loads of average and even small size men say how tight I am even when I've been super turned on so I don't really get it?

A few years ago when I caught chlamydia, when the nurse was inspecting my vagina I was surprised with what she said that I have an unusually long vagina.

My first ever sexual boyfriend when I was 14 he had a 9" with average girth and after a few times it just seemed perfect, but at the time it seemed completely normal to me I didn't know they came in different sizes lol, until like a year later a girl friend asked me how big his cock was and she was shocked as she said she struggled to fit her bf he had a 5".

Not sure how appropriate this is but I have just finished a Scotland tour and the amount of BIG cocks I saw OMFG!
Like literally 80% of my bookings were all with massive cocks to the extent that my Kingsize condoms ran out...I will have to rest for 2 days at least before getting back to work..

Did anyone have the same experience whilst touring Scotland or is it just me?

This thread is absolutely hilarious    can't say I've ever noticed tbh... But I work in edinburgh and Glasgow so that might explain why 🤔😂

I rarely use my king size or large condoms in London. Usually use trim or naturel. So what does that tell you? I remember shagging a Scotsman who had a big cock, it is a bit too much for me. I'm not a huge cock lover but I don't like teeny ones either, average is fine. Girthy is also good as long as its not a stumpy one. Don't like those thin stabby dicks at all.