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Miss Bentley

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clients who try to choose analyse you on first booking
« on: 29 December 2014, 02:40:25 am »
Hi girls
I've had a string of these recently and they range from enraging to amusing to just baffling so I was wondering if anyone else has this happen a lot?

Clients who after 2mins of conversation start telling you everything about your personality, life, situation, if you are or are not happy, why you do this and other such ridiculous obscenities.. they know nothing whatsoever about you yet feel the need to force down your throat their analysis of your life??!!

Anyone else have this happen? Xx

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Re: clients who try to choose analyse you on first booking
« Reply #1 on: 29 December 2014, 07:23:41 am »
I have had it in a mild way, and most of my life is pretty much under control/sorted so I'm reconsidering saying anything!

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Re: clients who try to choose analyse you on first booking
« Reply #2 on: 29 December 2014, 09:09:12 am »
I've had this and another who must have memorized my AW profile and asked me questions about it randomly trying to catch me out. I sat on his lap and he came out with " Are you trying to bareback me?" (I would never offer this and state on my profile) .I always find this sort of stuff creepy and invasive xx

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Re: clients who try to choose analyse you on first booking
« Reply #3 on: 29 December 2014, 10:08:52 am »
Ive had a phone chat guy in Ireland really put pressure on me to visit him and email I am just not interested at all he said "what's wrong with you that you dont want such an offer"? and that he can do so much for me  ::) "what's happening in your private life that you cant fly out here to meet me next weekend"?   expecting me to justify my life to him
I looked at his profile lol no thanks !
As it is I only do 2hr bookings max and not overnights as advertised
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Re: clients who try to choose analyse you on first booking
« Reply #4 on: 29 December 2014, 03:55:48 pm »
I cut these guys off as soon as they start talking and tell them I'm gay. They always look so shocked ;D

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Re: clients who try to choose analyse you on first booking
« Reply #5 on: 29 December 2014, 04:38:57 pm »
They know I do psychology so I think they're often scared I'll psychoanalyse them!  ;D

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Re: clients who try to choose analyse you on first booking
« Reply #6 on: 29 December 2014, 07:45:10 pm »
They know I do psychology so I think they're often scared I'll psychoanalyse them!  ;D

I study Psychology too and always find that they go 'oh I bet you get loads of material from us punters haha' - they think they're soo interesting -man cheats on his wife with escorts because he likes sex and stupidly committed to a monogamous marriage- whoosh! I think they find it hard to fathom that our lives don't revolve around them and psychologically they're really not uncommon/interesting at all.

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Re: clients who try to choose analyse you on first booking
« Reply #7 on: 31 December 2014, 11:59:06 am »
I often get asked why I do this. I give a standard answer now to all that I've a high sex drive and got fed up with dating and no rerelationship, so thought I'd give this a go. Usual response from clients is "if I could get paid for sex, I would!" :-D

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Re: clients who try to choose analyse you on first booking
« Reply #8 on: 31 December 2014, 12:21:16 pm »
I've learnt to just smile politely and ignore it - it's their paid time and if they want to spend it whiffling on about whatever vague assumptions they've made from my ads and half-baked theories they read in some crap rag then that's their business.

Being deaf helps a lot ;D.

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Re: clients who try to choose analyse you on first booking
« Reply #9 on: 31 December 2014, 08:06:26 pm »
They know I do psychology so I think they're often scared I'll psychoanalyse them!  ;D

I study Psychology too and always find that they go 'oh I bet you get loads of material from us punters haha' - they think they're soo interesting -man cheats on his wife with escorts because he likes sex and stupidly committed to a monogamous marriage- whoosh! I think they find it hard to fathom that our lives don't revolve around them and psychologically they're really not uncommon/interesting at all.

Another psychology student :) yeah I get this...the also seem to confuse psychology with telepathy though...haha
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Re: clients who try to choose analyse you on first booking
« Reply #10 on: 01 January 2015, 05:19:29 am »
They know I do psychology so I think they're often scared I'll psychoanalyse them!  ;D

I study Psychology too and always find that they go 'oh I bet you get loads of material from us punters haha' - they think they're soo interesting -man cheats on his wife with escorts because he likes sex and stupidly committed to a monogamous marriage- whoosh! I think they find it hard to fathom that our lives don't revolve around them and psychologically they're really not uncommon/interesting at all.
I had one, who kept on about a load of crap, kept getting more and more outrageous, I just kept ignoring him. The he blurted out, "You are behaving just like my wife, ignoring me!" " I replied, "You're paying her too." I quickly made my exit.  :P
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