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Tequila Sunset

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Represser clients
« on: 27 April 2025, 03:31:18 pm »
I'm a 22 year old trans woman and seem to attract a lot of repressed 40-50 year old repressed trans women. No idea why but these kinds of people make me feel extremely gross and i don't take them anymore. i think it's the irritation of having to mommy someone more than twice my age and putting up with their creepy fetishistic comments on my body (these people mention how much i don't look like a man, rather than how attractive i am, which is really dehumanising and transphobic). Most ridiclous one recently was someone asking me to bring them estrogen to "try" like it was a chemsex drug. does anyone else get these kind of clients?

MissElvira

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Re: Represser clients
« Reply #1 on: 27 April 2025, 09:15:00 pm »
Could you not state on your escort profile the types of clients you do not want to see? Vet them when they contact you for a booking.

ana30

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Re: Represser clients
« Reply #2 on: 27 April 2025, 09:32:15 pm »
Could you not state on your escort profile the types of clients you do not want to see? Vet them when they contact you for a booking.

What Miss Elvira said, just reword your post in a bit more "kind way" and post it in your profile. There's many ladies stating they dislike clients who are not hygienic, men who are too young or too old or have certain fetishes etc...
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Re: Represser clients
« Reply #3 on: 27 April 2025, 09:58:27 pm »
Yes, having clear ads is a huge part of screening; the numpties still won't read it but at least you can point it out to them. If you don't want to see X, Y or Z punters then just say so.

Misplaced, dumb and otherwise ill-thought out compliments are part of the job though; they think they're saying the right thing. If I had a tenner for all the times I've told I look great 'for my age' (because women over 50 are supposed to just morph into wizened husks 😂) and so on, I could retire and it's like water off a ducks back. They're just trying to be nice.