I found the two best relationships I've ever been in when I wasn't looking. My ex was a great bf, just didn't work out cos of a couple of big differences, and I met him when I was determinedly anti-relationship. My current bf turned up in my life when I was still with the ex (yeah, monogamy is hard haha), and then turned into a relationship after two months of us fucking and insisting, more and more hysterically, that we were just friends with benefits I swear omg!
I guess what I'm trying to say is, just do whatever, and things will work out. Relationships don't work if you're desperate for them to, they need to just happen. IMO, anyway.