I had a regular who decided that as he had booked me a fair few times and we got along we should have a relationship. He had been a bit of a pain for a while so I thought I would teach him a lesson as I know he was only after not paying me.
I invited him to mine for a coffee but when he started to try to touch me I told him that as part of a committed relationship I would not be having sex with him until I felt the relationship was going somewhere. He left and it worked like a dream I have not heard from him since

I had a regular who decided that as he had booked me a fair few times and we got along we should have a relationship. He had been a bit of a pain for a while so I thought I would teach him a lesson as I know he was only after not paying me.
I invited him to mine for a coffee but when he started to try to touch me I told him that as part of a committed relationship I would not be having sex with him until I felt the relationship was going somewhere. He left and it worked like a dream I have not heard from him since

Nice one

I actually do have a loyalty card scheme - five bookings and sixth one is free! Never hurts to give a bit back...

I do something similar(ish) but I only give them a partial discount: 5 bookings at my normal rate and then get a tenner off (for every 60 mins) for life, but your idea is interesting and I might be inclined to offer a better incentive ie get an additional 30 mins free but Id prolly only do this once we hit 10 bookings LOL!

pretty sure this reg is upset with me now, but I had to reinforce the message, why then am I feeling so bad....

Your bound to feel bad: your human with emotions, but just as someone said in an earlier comment, sometimes we do encourage guys to do this (I know Im guilty of this because I permit them to play ping pong texting tennis with me outside of a booking). Hopefully things will work themselves out and he will respect your decision but if he doesnt you might need to make a harder decision and just cut him off (but you could also block him temporarily or set more limitations between the both of you)

I just really don't actually understand it ! I've had one guy really shocked after calling tons of times and I've said I'm booked , in the end he said " what you see more than one a day "?

I said " what do you think " ?  He said " Bloody hell "

A guy Ive seen 3 times was getting annoyed at my auto replies, said it didnt feel personable/like a GFE & he feels like "one of many" no shit!. I reminded him that he is contacting me on a business phone and as 9/10 guys dont read my profile, I have auto replies in order to organise my business better. I also reminded him that the GFE happens face to face not in comms    So now when he contacts me I mention that I have a client before or after him - more often then not Im lieing but I do this to home in the fact that Im an escort and he is indeed "one of many"   

Marketing!

any kind of service paid by hr in the business market is more strict and 1hr is 1hr!

I do feel the same.

I'm not putting other escorts business down.  Maybe, it is a case of "if it works for you, then that's brilliant whilst it may not work for others." There was a thread on "discounts /loyalty" before.  The consensus was, why would you subsidise someone's punting by helping him free up extra cash to see someone else as a "bonus".    Punters may get bored with "always the same" after a while in my view - they start to take you for granted if he were to see one lady over a longer period (as in some LTRs) and that's it.    I do know punters, who absolutely love one escort only or primarily.  So not everyone is the same.  If it works for you, then that's nice.
   


 

Personally I would only ever do a discount for a new punters for the first booking if things were getting really slow. But there is always more marketing you can do. I think telling regulars you are giving out a discount is a green light for them to assume you are in real need of more business and might start taking advantage. I'd rather try and get more business by revamping my profile and getting more pics ect. I'm sure it works well for others, might depend on where you are located too and other factors.

not all business `brand` apply discount...depend about image and branding!
Personally....to me this kind of marketing strategy discounting, free sexual time is not adapted to my business!

i do other kind of marketing!

i was thinking to write on my profile..please do not bring gift if you are expecting something in return! LOL
to me this kind of client are NOT gentlemen!

yes, in other business you go out for dinner with your clients, pay dinner, drink, ....
i do not feel that i am in the same field, my escort business is not comparable to commercial negotiation, financial project, ...
it is not same amount of money in the game too and this kind of things are more long term.


just wondering if somebody has same experience...i found that client that they are accountant...are the most creed and always look to save money...ready to negotiate!
i do not like category and to generalise, but honestly when they say..i am an accountant...   !!!


i had a bad experience with a friend fall in love with me...he gave me a lot of gift, for like 2yrs and he won t nothing in return...
then when i was bored about him...ahah he became a stalker and he destroy my life for sometimes...

i am scared to receive gift now!... creed people want always something in retourn, nothing is for free!

I am also really struggling with all the attention some of my regulars require. Quite a high number of them as well, so I do realise it must be partially my fault. I am very soft touch and struggle to be assertive. I really feel like the regulars have been literally walking all over me, they are conpletely deluded thinking they are the only person I need to deal with in a day and I have got lots of free time, so of course I will want to spend extra time with them. I have defintely let them cross the line and now it is practically impossible for me to back out of it without loosing business. Yes, there have been some free dinners&lunches and extra time. Also marriage proposals, pronouncing their feeling for me, invitations on holidays etc.
I am so fed up with them, but it's a difficult decision to give up the regualr cash and expensive gifts. But i guess there is a point where your mental health should be priority.
I feel like they suck the living energy out of me, and I feel empty and used! Not because i charge for sex, as I don't experience this feeling with clients who are not demanding in emotional way, but because I am expected to do this and that and other without any benefit for myself. Really need to get my act together

i believe that strong is sexy! so i am clear with them about value of my time! they take or they leave!
i undertstand difficult decision to give up the regualr cash and expensive gifts feel same! not for gifts more for cash!
till is reasonable and not pushing or obsessive i can support...too much i cut off without doubt!
15 mins/20 mins over fo a chat in the end why not? more if he is funny and interesting!
not more! already too me is too much!