So Ive seen this guy a few times and we get on quite well, im very friendly and I guess I'm so good at faking and pretending to be interested so he thinks we friends . He said he would like to meet up before I tour internationally , so I was like sure just let me know when as I get mates rates at the Hilton, then he tells me since we so "close" that he views me as a friend and if I just wanna hang out it's cool and if I wanna go to the Hilton that's cool too , he will pay for the hotel but nothing else   🙄🙄🙄 I've lost all respect for him , being nice really gets you no where .

It happens a lot but at least you get the Hilton, I got asked recently if I fancied a week away with a punter in his caravan in Wales and it wouldn't cost me anything. 
God loves a trier.

This made me giggle 

I've had this happen with a regular where he assumed because I was nice to him I would happily sleep with him for free.

It got me so annoyed. I asked him "If your hairdresser, personal trainer, solicitor does a good job do you suddenly expect to get their services for free?" He said No, and I told him, don't expect to get services off me free either as I am as much as a Service Provider as they are, didn't see him again and blocked him.

Some of these clients are so deluded they honestly believe because we are nice to them and enjoy it or act like it that we should just fuck for free! Thankfully they are in the minority but it's still so annoying that some of the really don't understand that this is a job, a business transaction and they are recieving a service. I'd say this regular is not worth your time anymore and you should cut him off, next he will probably declare his undying love for you... LOL x

Haha Helen ... I got asked the same a weekend in a caravan in Weymouth ! But .. I wouldn't be able to use the club on site as his wife might find out ! ... bearing in mind he's only ever seen me for quickies ! I declined nicely ... wow some are really deluded ! .. I also had another that invited me around for a Chinese takeaway .. and I could bring my friend .. because " we have such a laugh together !" Mmmmmmmmm no thanks ! Xx

I've learned to only go out of my way because I want to, not because I think he'll take that into consideration. I also will no longer let draining clients carry on doing it, I inform them and will stop seeing them if things don't change. I saw someone who would always invite me for a meal after each and every session, working it into the conversation every time. He boundary pushed in other ways, always encroaching. I'd made it clear I had other commitments for my time, and much of the time a meal wouldn't be something I'd chose to do in my free time, even with closest of friends.

In the end I told him I was fed up of asking him to not do things, as quick as he'd stop doing one thing, he'd push in a different way - things such as serviced  that I'd already made clear were not on the cards.

The regulars I do see are great, no pushing, they book, pay, enjoy their time with me, leave without fuss. It's brilliant.

I once got asked if I fancied a night at a Travelodge in Sheffield,just as mates as he figured I might appreciate the night off in a nice hotel(!) that was from a bloke I had seen once and really couldn't stand!They really are deluded dickheads sometimes!

I have a slightly reduced rate for regulars but one who had been a regular but had not booked me for 9 months but had seen other wg's as shown by his feedback on aw was surprised when i said that i do not consider once every 9 months to be regular so I would be expecting him to pay the full fee. He said but we have a really good time and i have been really busy since October. Well he should have had time to save to pay the full fee for my time. I hate it when they think that they are special and do not seem to realize that it is purely a business transaction   

+1 to the above

However... I have said goodbye to a few regulars over the years who have wanted discounts, freebies and bareback... as a trade off for their repeat custom. I think particularly with GFE, regular clients have the potential of becoming unhealthily attached, end up deluded and forget that it is a business transaction.

Yes for many years I struggled.

Interestingly changing to outcall only for a while, actually helped me have a clear out. Those who stuck and adapted, were the type not to push and I also made my screening very tight, which also reduced the chances of meeting someone who would be a problem.

One person who was always outcall, came back for a second chance and he's probably the only outcall person who I've had to do that with so far.