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Aqua Allegoria

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #75 on: 29 May 2015, 11:48:53 am »
Quote from: Nia Hope on 28 May 2015, 11:37:44 pm
Quote from: Charlotte-Paris on 28 May 2015, 07:48:29 pm
Quote from: Nia Hope on 27 May 2015, 07:26:57 pm
A big red flag for me is when they have seen you before they call to book again and I don't remember them, the ones that get all arsy and pissed off about it. Had one yesterday say "Oh but you must remember me, it's John, I was wearing stripy pants, you must remember" he was not happy at all and wasn't in the mood to pretend I remembered him x

On the other hand Nia, he was wearing STRIPY pants and you couldn't remember:)))???
I know how could I forgot specific pant patterns, I usually put such details on a spread sheet and revise so when they call I don't offend them x

Well we don't get clowns that often:)))
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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #76 on: 29 May 2015, 12:27:19 pm »
Has anyone else noticed that guys who sign their messages 'Kind Regards' tend to be time wasters?

Everytime I read it my back hairs bristle. Would love an explanation for that one.
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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #77 on: 29 May 2015, 01:03:10 pm »
Another red flag to me is the caller who repeatedly rings over and over when you can't or don't answer the phone instead of just waiting for say 15 mins or 30 mins or leaving a message.Same as the ones who when you look in your call logs they have rung over and over very late at night. This comes across as entitled/stalkery/very clingy and when I have spoke to these guys they have been utter knobs.It's not normal or genuine client behaviour.
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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #78 on: 29 May 2015, 07:25:37 pm »
Quote from: BibiofLeeds on 29 May 2015, 01:03:10 pm
Another red flag to me is the caller who repeatedly rings over and over when you can't or don't answer the phone instead of just waiting for say 15 mins or 30 mins or leaving a message.Same as the ones who when you look in your call logs they have rung over and over very late at night. This comes across as entitled/stalkery/very clingy and when I have spoke to these guys they have been utter knobs.It's not normal or genuine client behaviour.

This. It's bloody annoying because then I feel bad/unprofessional for not answering that many times, too.
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Aqua Allegoria

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #79 on: 29 May 2015, 08:58:36 pm »
Oh the "I love your accent". Ok I know most ladies here are native speakers so this one doesn't apply to everyone. But every now and then I get an idiot who just rings me to enjoy...my accent.
Now I would totally understand that if I spoke broken English and yes I know that being French is my marketing point but I've been speaking English since I'm 10yrs old ffs.

And those who go "I love your accent" over the phone never book of course.
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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #80 on: 29 May 2015, 09:17:36 pm »
Quote from: Charlotte-Paris on 29 May 2015, 08:58:36 pm
Oh the "I love your accent". Ok I know most ladies here are native speakers so this one doesn't apply to everyone. But every now and then I get an idiot who just rings me to enjoy...my accent.
Now I would totally understand that if I spoke broken English and yes I know that being French is my marketing point but I've been speaking English since I'm 10yrs old ffs.

And those who go "I love your accent" over the phone never book of course.

yeah, I get this too ;D
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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #81 on: 30 May 2015, 01:05:00 am »
Anytime they go into great detail about what they're like, what they want in bed, etc., without fail, they turn out to be a timewaster.

As do the ones that send stuff like "Hi" and "What's up?"

Any texts/emails asking for explicit details on what I do in bed.
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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #82 on: 30 May 2015, 06:19:50 am »
Quote from: tigerlily on 29 May 2015, 09:17:36 pm
Quote from: Charlotte-Paris on 29 May 2015, 08:58:36 pm
Oh the "I love your accent". Ok I know most ladies here are native speakers so this one doesn't apply to everyone. But every now and then I get an idiot who just rings me to enjoy...my accent.
Now I would totally understand that if I spoke broken English and yes I know that being French is my marketing point but I've been speaking English since I'm 10yrs old ffs.

And those who go "I love your accent" over the phone never book of course.

yeah, I get this too ;D

Yup, me too!

Always a time waster.
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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #83 on: 30 May 2015, 11:36:02 am »
Quote from: BibiofLeeds on 29 May 2015, 01:03:10 pm
Another red flag to me is the caller who repeatedly rings over and over when you can't or don't answer the phone instead of just waiting for say 15 mins or 30 mins or leaving a message.Same as the ones who when you look in your call logs they have rung over and over very late at night. This comes across as entitled/stalkery/very clingy and when I have spoke to these guys they have been utter knobs.It's not normal or genuine client behaviour.

I'm getting this a lot lately, they automatically get blocked now.
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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #84 on: 30 May 2015, 02:15:54 pm »
Lately I am getting an awful lot of call-and-hang-ups followed immediately by a text saying they couldn't talk for whatever reason. I always race to get them saved in my phone as "hanger upper" before their text comes in. :D

OK... I think this has come up on here before:

Guys named Jay are always time wasters/no-shows, aren't they?
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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #85 on: 30 May 2015, 02:20:38 pm »
Quote from: tigerlily on 27 May 2015, 05:11:41 pm
I want you to think of me as your friend.

This one's the outright winner for me (alongside 'my booking will be so much fun it you'll probably forget it's work' and the ubiquitous 'what do you like?') Even reading it makes my skin crawl.
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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #86 on: 31 May 2015, 07:06:50 am »
Quote from: Fabulassie on 30 May 2015, 02:15:54 pm
Lately I am getting an awful lot of call-and-hang-ups followed immediately by a text saying they couldn't talk for whatever reason. I always race to get them saved in my phone as "hanger upper" before their text comes in. :D

OK... I think this has come up on here before:

Guys named Jay are always time wasters/no-shows, aren't they?
named  Jay I have at least 19 in my block list lol !
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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #87 on: 31 May 2015, 10:30:35 am »
Quote from: Fabulassie on 30 May 2015, 02:15:54 pm
Lately I am getting an awful lot of call-and-hang-ups followed immediately by a text saying they couldn't talk for whatever reason. I always race to get them saved in my phone as "hanger upper" before their text comes in. :D

OK... I think this has come up on here before:

Guys named Jay are always time wasters/no-shows, aren't they?

One of my favourite clients recently was called Jay  ;D
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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #88 on: 31 May 2015, 11:24:11 am »
Quote from: Midsstudent on 31 May 2015, 10:30:35 am
Quote from: Fabulassie on 30 May 2015, 02:15:54 pm
Lately I am getting an awful lot of call-and-hang-ups followed immediately by a text saying they couldn't talk for whatever reason. I always race to get them saved in my phone as "hanger upper" before their text comes in. :D

OK... I think this has come up on here before:

Guys named Jay are always time wasters/no-shows, aren't they?

One of my favourite clients recently was called Jay  ;D


Surely it has to be a Jason/ John/ Jeff/Jack/Jordan just being cautious?

 Next time I'm going to return their trust by calling myself "Pee"  ;D
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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #89 on: 31 May 2015, 04:01:27 pm »
I have no idea, he didn't say and I didn't check his passport  :P
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