Author Topic: Red Flags - Things They Say (Read 66177 times)

Fabulassie · « **Reply #60 on:** 27 May 2015, 07:29:28 pm »

I mostly only remember the bad ones. The good ones are part of a pleasant blur. The bad ones I remember vividly.

River · « **Reply #61 on:** 27 May 2015, 07:53:37 pm »

"Do you ever meet socially?"

That prompted me to list Social Engagements as a service, along with my rates.

It's been good and resulted in some delightful paid social encounters.
Clouds/Silver linings and all that.

BibiofLeeds · « **Reply #62 on:** 28 May 2015, 02:00:59 am »

Yes anyone who asks to meet for a coffee first because they are shy..yeah and I'm shy of meeting you in a public place where chances are you'll either not turn up or just come for a lookey loo possibly with mates.

victoryrose · « **Reply #63 on:** 28 May 2015, 10:23:09 am »

I take those bookings really regularly, yet to be stood up but I have a feeling it'll happen soon.

I make it clear I'll only wait for ten minutes without hearing from them if they're late etc., then I fuck off into the nearest cafe or whatever and chill. It's a cool option to have for part-timers/students with free time during holidays and I charge significantly little for it so I get a lot of interest - some weeks it actually rivals the interest for regular bookings. So yeah, not always a red flag and some newbies genuinely don't like the idea of fucking you the first time they see you.

tigerlily · « **Reply #64 on:** 28 May 2015, 10:58:43 am »

Quote from: victoryrose on 28 May 2015, 10:23:09 am

I take those bookings really regularly, yet to be stood up but I have a feeling it'll happen soon. I make it clear I'll only wait for ten minutes without hearing from them if they're late etc., then I fuck off into the nearest cafe or whatever and chill. It's a cool option to have for part-timers/students with free time during holidays and I charge significantly little for it so I get a lot of interest - some weeks it actually rivals the interest for regular bookings. So yeah, not always a red flag and some newbies genuinely don't like the idea of fucking you the first time they see you.

Hmmm, I can see how this would be good business if you market it right and have the time. Thinking of ideas now!

To me, the red flag 'let's meet for coffee' guys are the ones that make a booking then slyly suggest "Why don't you grab a coffee with me first." Trying to play on your ego by saying something like, 'Oh you're a smart girl.' like they're going to seduce you. Once had a client show up two hours early and text, "Hey I'm in the bar down the road, come grab a drink." Ughhhhhh. Not a time waster, but a cheap, pain in the arse boundary pusher.

Mirror · « **Reply #65 on:** 28 May 2015, 12:26:27 pm »

One man once wanted to book at my then social rate for an indeterminate time, with option to extend and go back to mine.

Nice idea but doesn't work for me, with other offers of bookings I am not prepared to put aside my whole evening for a 50% of usual rate fee, just incase he extends. I also need to know intended movements so my security buddy is in the picture.

I have had the reverse happen, client booked social coffee time to see if we'd get along, he then decided he wanted private time but I didn't have the time. He was quite disgruntled - but that isn't my fault - the only way I could have seen him on that day, at the time convenient for him was that hour and he wasn't wanting to commit to anything else.

Midsstudent · « **Reply #66 on:** 28 May 2015, 05:12:56 pm »

I've never actually been asked for a social meet.

I've had bookings that involve dinner and then private time but the clients that have requested that have never expected to pay anything other than my standard rate, a social rate never came up.

Aqua Allegoria · « **Reply #67 on:** 28 May 2015, 07:48:29 pm »

Quote from: Nia Hope on 27 May 2015, 07:26:57 pm

A big red flag for me is when they have seen you before they call to book again and I don't remember them, the ones that get all arsy and pissed off about it. Had one yesterday say "Oh but you must remember me, it's John, I was wearing stripy pants, you must remember" he was not happy at all and wasn't in the mood to pretend I remembered him x

On the other hand Nia, he was wearing STRIPY pants and you couldn't remember:)))

Aqua Allegoria · « **Reply #68 on:** 28 May 2015, 07:55:58 pm »

Quote from: Bluetits on 23 May 2015, 11:41:36 am

I had one who booked, said it was 1st time then sent 2 texts within a few hours saying he's nervous as had never seen an escort. He had 2 pos escort feedback. Most of us do check this you know! When we met he asked me not to leave him feedback. I said so you can tell the next one you haven't done this before?

No. I think the "dumber" ones do not realise we check their profiles/feedback. I had the same and I've noticed that the degree of stupidity in some cases is just unexplicable.

I also love it when they call and say they've never seen escort in their life and then start talking using all professional escorting term. You innocently lead them on and ask "what's your favourite?" They start replying and then stop realising they shouldn't because "they've never seen escort before"

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VioletteUK · « **Reply #69 on:** 28 May 2015, 09:38:43 pm »

Where I currently am, they have funny names for things out here. But I get asked loads to do exchange of services for drugs, like a couple times a week framed in questions such as, "Do you chase clouds?" = broke ass with no money, and dodgy gear. Or my personal favourite is, "do you have a pipe?"

Fabulassie · « **Reply #70 on:** 28 May 2015, 11:01:23 pm »

Quote from: VioletteUK on 28 May 2015, 09:38:43 pm

Where I currently am, they have funny names for things out here. But I get asked loads to do exchange of services for drugs, like a couple times a week framed in questions such as, "Do you chase clouds?" = broke ass with no money, and dodgy gear. Or my personal favourite is, "do you have a pipe?"

The fuck does that even mean?! What drugs are they talking about?!

VioletteUK · « **Reply #71 on:** 28 May 2015, 11:23:59 pm »

Crystal meth is the drug of choice and they smoke it, thus the clouds and pipe reference. That and the fact it is bloody expensive, well all drug are hugely expensive. So, they actually they are doing you a favour when offering it in exchange for services. I ho for cash, not drugs.

Fabulassie · « **Reply #72 on:** 28 May 2015, 11:27:27 pm »

Ew. A booking with a sweaty tweaker.

Nia Hope · « **Reply #73 on:** 28 May 2015, 11:37:44 pm »

Quote from: Charlotte-Paris on 28 May 2015, 07:48:29 pm

Quote from: Nia Hope on 27 May 2015, 07:26:57 pm
A big red flag for me is when they have seen you before they call to book again and I don't remember them, the ones that get all arsy and pissed off about it. Had one yesterday say "Oh but you must remember me, it's John, I was wearing stripy pants, you must remember" he was not happy at all and wasn't in the mood to pretend I remembered him x

On the other hand Nia, he was wearing STRIPY pants and you couldn't remember:)))

I know how could I forgot specific pant patterns, I usually put such details on a spread sheet and revise so when they call I don't offend them x

Lushblossom · « **Reply #74 on:** 29 May 2015, 06:26:21 am »

I have no idea why some punters ask why are we doing the job. I never ask them why they are booking me.

It is obvious really. The women need the income and happen to enjoy the sex. As for the punters they need a screw. End of. It really isn't rocket science!

Unfortunately many men do not understand we treat this is an actual proper business in the same way we would if we were in the workplace. I love the freedom of self-employment!

See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

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