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Julia1985

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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #15 on: 11 April 2014, 08:15:45 pm »
Only did one overnight booking but never again and these posts confirm that decision. I did an overnight with a client I had met before but only a couple of times. He bought a bottle of wine and drunk most of it himself so he wasn't up to that much afterwards which I suppose was a good thing. We spent most of the evening just watching porn movies cuddling up on the sofa which was OK but he didn't want to go to bed for what seemed ages. When we did finally get to bed he soon fell asleep, but then the snoring began! That kept me awake but I was far from relaxed and I don't think I even wanted to get to sleep and put myself in a vulnerable position with a client. May have just been an issue for me it being my first overnighter but I was absolutely shattered the next day! Also whilst some guys are OK company for an hour or so they begin to get on your nerves after a bit. There's only so much small talk you can do with someone you have nothing in common with. Maybe I should have been more selective for my first overnight booking but I think I just need my personal space after a bit. 12 hours is a long time to spend with someone you don't really now who has spent a lot of money expecting the time of their life.
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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #16 on: 11 April 2014, 08:33:36 pm »
Yup. I have - tops - two hours of charm in me. If they're really awesome people, I can go longer. But, really? I'm dazzling for an hour and then it starts to wear off and by two hours I'm pretty much done.

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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #17 on: 13 April 2014, 01:01:55 am »
Haha KimberlyC you are lucky! I can last an hour, 90 mins tops! I am not a very extroverted person generally. The longest booking I ever did was 3 hours and it was a serious drag - only mitigated by the fact he had an amazing house (very historical and interesting) and the fact I was meeting friends afterwards.

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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #18 on: 14 April 2014, 01:20:45 am »
Oh Lord, any long booking can be a real effort. I mean, I am fabulous at 3o minutes, sparkly at 60, coping at 120, starting to struggle at 2 hrs and want to peel my skin off at 3  :'( Ok, I'm talking about those type of bookings - almost always in their hotel room - where you are confined on a double bed with just the radio or music channel ( or even worse, the Clients own pc playlist  :P ) and nothing else to do except have various forms of sex for the duration. You can break it up with chat and massage, but not much ruddy else. I once had a 5 hour afternoon booking with a Dutchman and it took me days to recover from the cabin fever of being groped for that length of time. I was horrified when he called me several weeks later with a request for a full weekend together and didn't even wonder if he would be willing to pay a huge amount of money - there WAS no sum of money that could compensate me for it.
An overnight with a long date of fine dining and not unreasonable expectations is just about bearable, but only at a very large price so it almost never happens. There are always exceptions, but in general I would much rather see several Clients for 30 minutes and cover the length and breadth of my area in 1 day, than be with 1 guy for any length of time  :)

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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #19 on: 15 April 2014, 10:44:21 am »
I have never done an overnight. I have had a few enquiries but the actual bookings never materialize!
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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #20 on: 15 April 2014, 12:53:09 pm »
My overnight rate is stupidly expensive as I don't really wanna do them unless I would get serious money to compensate for the lack of sleep and disruption to my day to day routine.  I do however get a lot of 4-5 hour bookings.  I enjoy those as I tend to attract fun guys that want to have a mix of social and sex time.  Money wise I am better off doing the 4 hours as proportionally it is a lot better than a whole long night and the time needed to recover.   

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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #21 on: 16 April 2014, 12:25:42 pm »

I wouldn't feel all that comfortable taking an overnight booking, like many have mentioned - i tend to lose my spark after a while. I've got a client i see once every fortnight for an hour and i thought he was lovely, he booked me for two hours and i found he got on my nerves a little. 

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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #22 on: 16 April 2014, 03:06:38 pm »
I have had overnights in the past but refuse them point blank by putting my fee so high the clients wont ask me now.

I just cant sleep next to a stranger who may rob or murder me whilst I sleep.  I also like a full nights sleep.  The last overnight I did in Ireland I ending up asking the guy to leave at 5am as he wouldn't sleep and kept touching me up whilst I was pretending to sleep.

When I finish work I like to relax, take hair extensions out, make up off, pjs on.  Its not a sexy look when i deSamantha myself back to me and I don't think the clients would find me attractive.

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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #23 on: 16 April 2014, 07:30:57 pm »
Just came home from my first 3 hour booking in months... yeah I'm not cut out for an overnight, I have no sparkle left and I just want last night's curry heated up and Corrie

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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #24 on: 16 April 2014, 07:37:17 pm »
I have had one overnight and the guy decided to leave an hour in to drive down to Wales from Scotland overnight so he missed the morning traffic.

Paid full fee and let me have the room for the rest of the night.

Of course I then got stopped when leaving as apparently they hadn't paid for the room.

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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #25 on: 16 April 2014, 07:40:15 pm »


Of course I then got stopped when leaving as apparently they hadn't paid for the room.

LOL that's so bad it's hilarious! At least they couldn't have held you to anything though surely as it would have been booked in his name?

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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #26 on: 16 April 2014, 07:46:30 pm »


Of course I then got stopped when leaving as apparently they hadn't paid for the room.

LOL that's so bad it's hilarious! At least they couldn't have held you to anything though surely as it would have been booked in his name?

I just said I didn't have his contact details on me when they asked.

Although I think it was a genuine mistake on his part due to rushing about and having trouble with one of his businesses in the area.

 Woman at reception said he stayed there a lot so his details were on file.


happyhappyjoyjoy

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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #27 on: 16 April 2014, 08:01:22 pm »
The really long appointments I've had in the past have been brilliant! I think I've been lucky with the guys haha

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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #28 on: 16 April 2014, 09:42:53 pm »
I've not had a chance to do an overnight yet but would love to, the money is attractive enough to me. ;D Plus I can get by on such little sleep, staying awake & alert would be a doddle.

Summer Rose

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Re: Reasons to not do an overnight.
« Reply #29 on: 17 April 2014, 01:06:35 pm »
Over night bookings my arse! 3 hours maxim charm-offensive for me, no matter the ?????,