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Janie

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Real weirdo tonight
« on: 05 July 2009, 04:28:59 am »
Just need to rant a bit! Okay, so I only do outcalls. I had a new client tonight, and he seemed perfectly normal on the phone, but once things got going, he was extremely annoying. First off, he didn't want to use a condom. I had to tell him firmly three times that I insist upon condom use, and on the third time, I said, "I will leave immediately if you ever again suggest that we do not use condoms." So he dropped that. THEN, as I was leaving, he asked me if I'm on birth control. I said yes. He said, "You should go off it. I will be generous enough that you'll only need to see me from now on, and I won't cum inside you. You can trust me." I just smiled and nodded because I wanted to get right out of there without any debate. Never seeing that one again. Awful.
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EmilyJones

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Re: Real weirdo tonight
« Reply #1 on: 05 July 2009, 08:57:34 am »
Urgh! Yuck! What a horrible client!!!

I've only had one weirdo who wanted to know whether I was on the pill and text me later to ask if I was "feeling broody", and it pretty much made me want to puke. Probably a bit of an overreaction but talk about crossing the line. I'm SO careful with condoms and the pill, like I think we all are, and frankly, the idea of getting pregnant with a punter's baby is really awful. I'm also really funny about the idea of punter jizz getting anywhere near the dangerzone, lol, even though on the face or body is fine. Makes me feel sick and violated - not sure why I have such a strong squicky feeling, considering what when the condom's on, it's all fine!

Sorry you had to see such an awful guy. :-\ I wonder what makes those few but very disturbing clients think we'll say yes to the idea of seeing them only, for unsafe sex? They always mention money, like that's what will persuade us. Bleh. They don't see how creepy it is, I guess?
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Violette

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Re: Real weirdo tonight
« Reply #2 on: 05 July 2009, 11:15:09 am »
Girl, I commend you for keeping your cool, he would have had a sticky liquid on him alright when I left, it would have been his own blood, after I tried to kill him! They do think we will do ANYTHING for money, or a packet of crisps in the case of some unfortunates. I keep saying there are those who have this 'crack ho' image in their heads. I had one client stop seeing me, because he found me to be too normal, and I was challenging his image of a prostitute! WTF?
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Janie

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Re: Real weirdo tonight
« Reply #3 on: 05 July 2009, 02:21:02 pm »
There were moments when I was thinking, "He would deserve it if I just bit this off," but I did manage to hold back.

However, when a client is extremely disrespectful like that, I do tend to send them a little email later outlining why I find it unacceptable and why I think they should address that part of their behavior before hiring another girl. I know it would be most practical to just leave it be, but I can't. I feel like it's my duty to set them straight just a little bit once I'm at a safe distance again.
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brandy@saafe

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Re: Real weirdo tonight
« Reply #4 on: 05 July 2009, 05:12:27 pm »
There are some oddballs who have this strange prediliction for wanting to get women pregnant. They have this urge to plant their seed. I think it's less to do with your occupation, more the fact that you're a woman. Although offering to be "generous", he's hoping to appeal to the financial aspect of the situation.

I've seen websites and forums that cater to this kind of fetish. 
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Re: Real weirdo tonight
« Reply #5 on: 05 July 2009, 08:01:27 pm »
Quote from: Violette on 05 July 2009, 11:15:09 am
I had one client stop seeing me, because he found me to be too normal, and I was challenging his image of a prostitute! WTF?

Violette, shame on you! How dare you destroy his dream, he probably wanted to save your from your sad depraved life. Hahaha.
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Re: Real weirdo tonight
« Reply #6 on: 05 July 2009, 08:04:17 pm »
Janie, sorry to hear you had to deal with this wierdo, but well handled girl!
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Violette

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Re: Real weirdo tonight
« Reply #7 on: 06 July 2009, 10:49:04 pm »
Quote from: cassie on 05 July 2009, 08:01:27 pm
Quote from: Violette on 05 July 2009, 11:15:09 am
I had one client stop seeing me, because he found me to be too normal, and I was challenging his image of a prostitute! WTF?

Violette, shame on you! How dare you destroy his dream, he probably wanted to save your from your sad depraved life. Hahaha.

What! Me depraved, well only for the right price!  8)
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Janie

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Re: Real weirdo tonight
« Reply #8 on: 07 July 2009, 04:00:03 am »
He actually emailed me back saying he feels terrible, he needs to examine his behavior, and that he's very sorry. Who knows if he really took anything to heart, but let's hope so! Still, I will not be the one to find out.
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UrbaneAspects

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Re: Real weirdo tonight
« Reply #9 on: 09 July 2009, 04:31:32 am »
Quote from: brandy@saafe on 05 July 2009, 05:12:27 pm
They have this urge to plant their seed. 

or vice versa...need I say more?
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