So ladies

I am sure I speak for most of us on here, me especially but more often than not we have a good rant about all the shit we have to deal with on a daily basis from the crazies, the bad, the nasty, the stalkers, the harassers.....the list goes on BUT do we ever give enough credit when its due about our good clients?

Sometimes in life and certain situations I think the bad can outweigh the good, I know that sounds really negative but that's just the way it is sometimes like you could get hundreds of flawless feedback then get 1 negative and its the negative that knocks you for six OR you have a week filled with the most wonderful clients then one bad bastard and it destroys you, makes you feel like giving up, makes you feel worthless, like shit and puts you in a real downer. I felt that way a few weeks ago after my Belfast tour but ever since I have had really nice clients, one after the other so much so it has changed my mood, my attitude and my overall happiness, I just hope it continues.

When I think of some of the lovely emails, text messages and meetings I have had the past few weeks, it makes me smile like a Cheshire Cat so the moral of all this is that not all guys are bad, not all clients are bad and I think we need to remember that and really cherish those decent guys who contribute towards us reaching our goals in life.

      

xx

I have a saying 99% of clients who make it to my door are absolutely fine if not great. The ones who are not tend not to make it to a booking with me, either because I give up, or they do.

Yesterday an enthusiastic new client left at the end of his appointment, and from the windows I saw him skipping across the road

theres way more great clients I have lots of fun with 95% of mine. The 5% are ones where the chemistry just isnt there. Even they arn't bad clients. Touch wood I haven't had one yet. Not one that gets to book anyway.

I rarely post about bad clients as I am quite strict on my vetting so rarely get any.  The ones I do get I refuse to give any extra time or thought to so refuse to post about them or even think about them once I have got rid of them and blocked them.

I much prefer to talk about the good guys.  Or even the super good guys, the ones you click with and after the booking can sit and chat with for hours without even realising as they are kind, thoughtful and generally all round good guys.

They are the ones I talk about as they are the only ones I will spend any time thinking about.  I had to do this as I was starting to get bitter about all the idiots so I found I got stricter and refused to give time or space to the horrible ones.
It has made my life so much more pleasant and I now have no bitterness left.  Its bloody great

+1

Once you realise what it is the guys really want and provide it, the rest becomes easy. Most of them are just normal people and if you treat them well, as often as not they will do the same in return.