I'd like to bring it back to sex work a bit.
My last two incall properties involved deposits held in the Deposit Scheme, prior to the most recent I'd never had any rental deposit docked, bar university halls who said I didn't hoover the carpet when I left (a helpful boyfriend swept the carpet instead(not sure why he preferred that!)).
Anyhow I had had a lot of practical problems with the last house, some of which I sorted myself, some of which I had to live through
. There were also issues with the inventory, which I'd trusted was accurate when moved in, on leaving it became apparent that many items had been listed which weren't there, some duplicated in error. The landlord did, after a lot of worrying on my part, admit to the missing items. I hired a cleaner, gave the place a cursory look around (it was a big place and a big move out) and thought everything would be ok.
It wasn't, the agent found dust on lampshades, crumbs, dust in cracks in furniture in areas I'd not used, claimed they needed to pay someone to iron and rehang curtains (I'd had some of my own put up in place of some very thin/inadequate ones provided and had simply kept the originals folded in a cupboard).
Because I felt I had to hide my sex work, and wondered if they'd throw it in my face I didn't dispute the several hundred pounds they decided rectification required.
Having spoken to someone experienced in letting properties, I now know that I should have disputed this, and that I'd have been on fairly solid ground to do so. If any argument had come back I could have pointed out the continous series of issues with the supposed 'high standard' property. I had been there a long time, always paid rent in full, in fact once paid it twice when they changed bank accounts.
It's a bit like Amys argument re challenging hotels who chuck you out, in my case I wasn't being chucked out but I wasn't confident standing up for myself because of the nature of the sex work. I could really kick myself right now.