My libedo is higher when working, alot higher! Unfortunately my patience and tolerance of civvie sex is zero, I like to think I'm keeping Duracell in buisness.
Dating and civvie sex feel a chore and the rare times I have done it it's been awkward and unsatisfying and I'd rather work and enjoy the sex and the money at once. (Plus occasionally work me autopilots civvie me and that can be extraordinarily awkward)