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Anika Mae

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Is this annoying?
« on: 17 November 2009, 12:13:21 pm »
I know I'm a big ball of grump this morning, but one of the things that's annoyed me is a bit in an email from a client and I'm wondering if it's just me or if there's something genuinely annoying to it.

So, he emailed last night asking if I could visit him in Gatwick tonight. I said maybe; I volunteer on Tuesdays and don't tend to feel like working afterwards but if I take the earlier bus home I'll probably be ok.

He said OMG yay and, "Oh, and don't worry,  I will buy several glasses of wine for you so that it won't feel like work!!"

Is it just because drinking several glasses of wine in a two hour period isn't desirable for me in any circumstance ever?

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Re: Is this annoying?
« Reply #1 on: 17 November 2009, 12:24:41 pm »
What would have annoyed me more was that he took "maybe" to mean "yes."
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Re: Is this annoying?
« Reply #2 on: 17 November 2009, 12:33:56 pm »
Well I actually said "I'll say yes provisionally", which I suppose could have been confusing.

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Re: Is this annoying?
« Reply #3 on: 17 November 2009, 01:57:33 pm »
I think the assumption that we will forget it's work immediately upon necking a bit of free plonk is the part I'd find annoying - I don't like it when clients are clearly trying to get me a little drunk (it'll be more relaxed, blah blah). I do like the underlying message that in order to enjoy having sex with him you really need to be a bit pissed ;D.

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Re: Is this annoying?
« Reply #4 on: 17 November 2009, 02:44:32 pm »
If hes a client youve seen before he should already know that your not a big drinker and therefore yes him saying that would irritate me.

I think a lot of clients think that if your getting drunk together it makes the time seem less like a booking and more like what lots of people do in a real life relationship. Ive had lots of outcall clients trying to pour drink into me on bookings and getting offended when i politely decline. Sadly some clients seem to live under the impression that because we are escorts we must also be hapless,semi-alcholic, coke fiends >:(


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Re: Is this annoying?
« Reply #5 on: 17 November 2009, 04:26:19 pm »
He said OMG yay and, "Oh, and don't worry,  I will buy several glasses of wine for you so that it won't feel like work!!"

Lol, if he said "OMG yay" he's probably young enough to think that drinking always = fun. I remember those days!
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Re: Is this annoying?
« Reply #6 on: 17 November 2009, 08:14:56 pm »
If hes a client youve seen before he should already know that your not a big drinker and therefore yes him saying that would irritate me.

I think a lot of clients think that if your getting drunk together it makes the time seem less like a booking and more like what lots of people do in a real life relationship. Ive had lots of outcall clients trying to pour drink into me on bookings and getting offended when i politely decline. Sadly some clients seem to live under the impression that because we are escorts we must also be hapless,semi-alcholic, coke fiends >:(


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Re: Is this annoying?
« Reply #7 on: 18 November 2009, 01:31:30 am »
All I can say is: yes, it's annoying.  :-\
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Re: Is this annoying?
« Reply #8 on: 18 November 2009, 07:09:36 am »
Is it just because drinking several glasses of wine in a two hour period isn't desirable for me in any circumstance ever?

I would be delightfully happy to have him buy me several glasses of wine in a 2 hour period LOL. There's no better way to set the mood.

But you won't believe what happened to me tonight, my dumb ass lol. It was the end of the session, and I had a beer in my hand while at the same time getting ready to lift my luggage. For a split second I forgot the beer was in my hand, and proceeded to spill half the contents on my client's 4 star hotel floor  :o

We sorta laughed it a bit, but I felt like a total ass....Then again it was late, I was tipsy and tired  :P
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Re: Is this annoying?
« Reply #9 on: 18 November 2009, 11:38:02 am »
Oh well, nice to know it wasn't just me. I feel like such a bitch sometimes.

Anyway, he was a perfectly nice chap. He wanted to spend some time in the bar but wasn't weird about alcohol. I had a single measure of some nice scotch :)

(And he didn't say OMG yay, that was just me paraphrasing :).)