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CandyGirl

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People you know
« on: 26 June 2016, 02:08:54 am »
Was watching a film were the escort arrived in a hotel room, was ordered to strip while the client was in the bathroom, she did and when he came into the room the escort realised it was a family friend, proceeded to attempt to cover herself up and declare the deal off.

The closest I come to this was when I realised the guy who booked me used to be my gymnastics instructor, but he never recognised me to I just varied on with the booking.

How would or did you react in such a situation?

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Re: People you know
« Reply #1 on: 26 June 2016, 07:32:24 am »
This happens to me, and the reverse - I find out the client knows friends or my husband, or our paths cross on my outside interests.

I act professionally at all times is the answer.

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Re: People you know
« Reply #2 on: 26 June 2016, 09:15:51 am »
I caught 3 guys recently who I knew from internet dating. One I'd not actually met but he was very open about his real name & job when he called & his email address was the same as his dating handle. Another was a guy who I'd met 2 years previously & he happened to be living with a guy I'd been friends with benefits with. I told them both that I knew them so couldn't see them because I wanted to keep my anonymity (all said by text because I made an excuse on the phone about misplacing my diary to buy myself some time to search their numbers into facebook), apart from the 3rd who turned up at the door (I didn't recognise him), he stripped off naked as soon as he came in but I was fully clothed, I didn't want to go through with it but did in the end, felt weird about it & refused to see him again. He was a nice guy though but was on my facebook previously so I was concerned he knew my real name etc. Luckily he'd forgotten but said he been seeing a friend of mine  ::) I was in work mode so acted professionally but I did get embarrassed.

It is a constant worry when working in my home town & I've now stopped internet dating because 6 clients were on the website I was using! One of them contacted me but he'd said he was married when I saw him, so brazen to just go an a dating site when married. The other 5 were discreet & either didn't recognise me or respected my privacy. I can just imagine that there will be one one day who'll be telling all his mates, oh look there's that bird who's such & such on adultwork. Had part of my face showing in private gallery previously & guys on dating sites recognised me so I no longer have any part of my face showing at all. I denied it ofcourse.







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Re: People you know
« Reply #3 on: 26 June 2016, 01:21:37 pm »
The only time somebody messaged me who I knew prior to doing this was a guy who used to be my manager at my last civvie job but I never replied or took any booking not even sure if he knew it was me since I don't have face photos though I do have tattoos and piercings that can be recognisable. If he did know he never said anything in his message but he was kind of a creep when I worked with him so even if he was going to keep quiet I wouldn't really want to be intimate with him.  Have seen clients who booked me after the fact. One of them saw me in Boots and ignored/avoided me and the other goes to the same University so seen him around once or twice but was either with friends or my boyfriend so he's never approached me in public though has mentioned in bookings that he saw me and chatted about the Uni and studies.

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Re: People you know
« Reply #4 on: 26 June 2016, 02:35:00 pm »
Ive had it happen but reverse. I traveled to newport from cardiff, out the taxi, at the door and he opens greeting me by my real/stage name (not riverprice!)I was a little wierd about goign through with it, but as long as he only had one and not both (sex or friendship) he agreeed, but the minute he sent me a facebook friend request i blocked everything :-(
Its gone a good way once, I have had a couple book me for parties various times, and turned out we had a few similar friends.  so now we are all good friends xx
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Re: People you know
« Reply #5 on: 27 June 2016, 02:19:55 am »
I once stripped in a bar with someone I used to go to school with in the audience.

I often wonder what I would do if I found myself booked by a family friend for example, I guess if I knew he was in a relationship I would say no, but if he was single I would other a choice of cancellation or going ahead.

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Re: People you know
« Reply #6 on: 27 June 2016, 09:15:58 pm »
I once stripped in a bar with someone I used to go to school with in the audience.

I often wonder what I would do if I found myself booked by a family friend for example, I guess if I knew he was in a relationship I would say no, but if he was single I would other a choice of cancellation or going ahead.
That happened to me when I was stripping, it was a few guys on a stag that I went to school with too. I heard a story (Can't remember where or if it's true) a girl booked a guy in via text and he turned up and it was her uncle!
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Re: People you know
« Reply #7 on: 28 June 2016, 11:26:32 am »
my ex boyfriends brother booked me before, some may say bad taste but hes a reg of mine now

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Re: People you know
« Reply #8 on: 29 June 2016, 02:10:16 pm »
While I get the idea of this thread, just shows how movie depictions of sex work are often completely different to reality.  In the real world, this scenario be unlikely for me that I would enter a place and strip off without seeing the client first.  I would insist meeting the client first, face to face to ensure I feel comfortable to provide a service and of course take the money upfront.  Hence I personally don?t entertain any requests like that.   

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Re: People you know
« Reply #9 on: 29 June 2016, 07:53:00 pm »
my ex boyfriends brother booked me before, some may say bad taste but hes a reg of mine now

Hilarious! Go girl.
Its my worst nightmare though, I dread someone coming through the door that I know. If it was someone I knew from my civvie job aarrggh! But then if it was a fellow employee I would have something on them too. My work would not tolerate my sideline. Thank goodness for door spyholes, I even answer the phone and try and talk slightly differently in case its someone I know. The stress of it is the worst part of the job for me.

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Re: People you know
« Reply #10 on: 29 June 2016, 08:16:12 pm »
Hilarious! Go girl.
Its my worst nightmare though, I dread someone coming through the door that I know. If it was someone I knew from my civvie job aarrggh! But then if it was a fellow employee I would have something on them too. My work would not tolerate my sideline. Thank goodness for door spyholes, I even answer the phone and try and talk slightly differently in case its someone I know. The stress of it is the worst part of the job for me.

He didn't want his bro knowing so thought why pass up money lol If it was someone on my street tho I wouldn't like it

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Re: People you know
« Reply #11 on: 29 June 2016, 10:06:49 pm »
My big thing at the moment is my neighbour downstairs also escorting and the fact we have mutual clients. At least four have been quick to tell me about her which makes me wonder if they've told her about me. I'm sure they probably have, I'm just constantly wondering when it'll all come out.

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Re: People you know
« Reply #12 on: 29 June 2016, 10:09:44 pm »
My big thing at the moment is my neighbour downstairs also escorting and the fact we have mutual clients. At least four have been quick to tell me about her which makes me wonder if they've told her about me. I'm sure they probably have, I'm just constantly wondering when it'll all come out.

while working at 1 of my friends flats I had a guy come round and said oh iv visited 'so and so' in that flat opposite, I was gob smacked, I hope he hasn't re visited her and said the same about me to her

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Re: People you know
« Reply #13 on: 29 June 2016, 10:40:04 pm »
while working at 1 of my friends flats I had a guy come round and said oh iv visited 'so and so' in that flat opposite, I was gob smacked, I hope he hasn't re visited her and said the same about me to her

I think what I'm most worried about is that she's very indiscreet. At first I felt slightly reassured as she was the one neighbour I was most worried about because she knows everyones business and when I found out she was escorting too I figured, like me, she'd keep it under the radar but apparently this is definitely not the case. From our most recent conversation, I have an inkling that she's aware but as we were stood out in the middle of the building chatting, nothing more was said. I think I just need to ride this one out...happy days!