Author Topic: Overcoming A Fear Mixing With Escorts Outside. :) (Read 2514 times)

meetingdiversity · « **on:** 13 February 2017, 11:16:31 am »

I met an escort for the first time this morning for breakfast together and it went very well improving my confidence in this area. :)It was like we have been friends for a long time.

We spoke very easily together there were no tension it was perfect.

I am more than happy with over coming this fear.

You hear so many bad stories.

BibiofLeeds · « **Reply #1 on:** 13 February 2017, 10:37:24 pm »

Not sure why there would be an issue?Yes you get some problems between fellow escorts but you get civvy mates that fall out as well.I can't see why there would be any problems meeting someone in the industry for breakfast or a coffee or what ever.I have several good escort friends.I don't think they are any more likely to shit on me then any other friend.

Jessiegirl · « **Reply #2 on:** 13 February 2017, 10:44:29 pm »

Yeah not sure why this would be a problem. Went out with a couple of girls recently i work with on the town and had a great night. Have found that eastern European girls not as friendly and tend not to mix.

ladyofthemansion · « **Reply #3 on:** 13 February 2017, 10:59:25 pm »

Maybe the escort she was meeting was a scary one on here

I met a really lovely escort myself today. X

Justine · « **Reply #4 on:** 13 February 2017, 11:14:40 pm »

I met a few some time ago and found them very friendly. I hoped we could share stories and be very honest with each other but was saddened when I listened to boasting and what became very obviously story telling and bitchiness about other escorts. I broke away from those friendships after being so disullusioned. Now I prefer to keep myself to myself.

pussywillow · « **Reply #5 on:** 13 February 2017, 11:52:25 pm »

I have to say I have met some absolutely lovely girls who are escorts. We are good friends now and I think I'd go nuts sometimes without their support. You get some not so nice people in all walks of life and all sorts of jobs.

ana30 · « **Reply #6 on:** 14 February 2017, 01:23:30 am »

I've met lots of sex workers in social situations, activist meetings and social work events. It's just like walking into a bunch of nurses, or plumbers. Some of them you like, some of them you don't. I usually like the person for who she/he is, not for what she/he does for a living. Just because someone is an escort doesn't mean I'm necessarily going to get along with her/him.

TrashAzn · « **Reply #7 on:** 14 February 2017, 01:28:03 am »

Just do whatever works for you, don't see a need personally to have a circle of escorts I hang around with, we're still business rivals so apart from anonymous stuff like this forum I don't have much trust in other escorts to be honest and straightforward with me. I guess I think of them in the same way as my clients it's all a game really and I don't need to add more people around me that are fake with me. Met some that seem friendly and some not so much but I wouldn't really want to spend time with anybody anyway.

The_Lynx · « **Reply #8 on:** 14 February 2017, 09:51:05 am »

Quote from: Jessiegirl on 13 February 2017, 10:44:29 pm

Have found that eastern European girls not as friendly and tend not to mix.

I can't speak for all of them, of course, but in my experience many of my fellow EE folks are in a given western country for a set amount of time and are busy working their ass off to then go back home with the cash. Think slightly longer duration touring, basically. That probably accounts for some of their unwillingness to mingle.

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #9 on:** 14 February 2017, 12:53:45 pm »

I suppose it was more listening to a few other escorts talking about their bad experience. But am more than happy to mingle with other escorts. Like I am looking forward to the group on Thursday.

Like before was very anxious but feel better now, yes like a few here already mentioned it is about the inner self rarther than occupation.

RR · « **Reply #10 on:** 14 February 2017, 02:43:03 pm »

When I first started out I didn't tell anyone what I did, so I did feel quite lonely. In turn, I started hanging out with other escorts.

Much like Justine though, I came up against a lot of bitchiness and backstabbing. I stayed really good friends for years (post her retirement) with one woman though. In real life I'm actually quite quiet and I suppose it's more a personality clash than anything else. It was nice to be able to talk about work but there was part of me that never fully trusted the people I spoke to, and I didn't want that in my friendships. I have swapped numbers with a couple of the women from here which I never would have done a few years ago, so I can understand where MD may be coming from.

sweetshycanada · « **Reply #11 on:** 15 February 2017, 05:49:51 am »

I feel pretty lucky, a good friend of mine pretty much only hooks up with professionals put me in touch with the collective of independent escorts that he uses, and it's pretty cool! You get to advertise with them and through them, have acess to 5 different condo's to use for in calls for a very reasonable rate, they offer courses in things like marketing yourself, safety, all kinds of things. We have monthly get togethers, this month it's a clothing swap at one of the condos. Even have a kind of network where we can all keep in touch, post info, vent... I even see girls post that a client is looking for something she doesn't provide, is anyone else interested. So while you don't need to be friends with other escorts, I'm enjoying the experience

I'm glad you enjoyed your meeting, always good to make new friends

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #12 on:** 15 February 2017, 09:11:04 am »

Quote from: sweetshycanada on 15 February 2017, 05:49:51 am

I feel pretty lucky, a good friend of mine pretty much only hooks up with professionals put me in touch with the collective of independent escorts that he uses, and it's pretty cool! You get to advertise with them and through them, have acess to 5 different condo's to use for in calls for a very reasonable rate, they offer courses in things like marketing yourself, safety, all kinds of things. We have monthly get togethers, this month it's a clothing swap at one of the condos. Even have a kind of network where we can all keep in touch, post info, vent... I even see girls post that a client is looking for something she doesn't provide, is anyone else interested. So while you don't need to be friends with other escorts, I'm enjoying the experience

I'm glad you enjoyed your meeting, always good to make new friends

This sounds very useful having a wider range of networking with escorts this way over a range of different activities.

Very good for your peace of mind and to not feel so isolated at times. It reminds me of projects out in the community non escorting related. I would have never even dreamed of some time like this.

Thanks for sharing, I appreciate it a lot if maybe you can share more details will be great.

Daria00 · « **Reply #13 on:** 20 February 2017, 10:53:37 am »

Quote from: Jessiegirl on 13 February 2017, 10:44:29 pm

Yeah not sure why this would be a problem. Went out with a couple of girls recently i work with on the town and had a great night. Have found that eastern European girls not as friendly and tend not to mix.

I think it doesn't depend on your nationality but on your personality.

sultress000 · « **Reply #14 on:** 20 February 2017, 11:07:54 am »

Quote from: RR on 14 February 2017, 02:43:03 pm

When I first started out I didn't tell anyone what I did, so I did feel quite lonely. In turn, I started hanging out with other escorts.

Much like Justine though, I came up against a lot of bitchiness and backstabbing. I stayed really good friends for years (post her retirement) with one woman though. In real life I'm actually quite quiet and I suppose it's more a personality clash than anything else. It was nice to be able to talk about work but there was part of me that never fully trusted the people I spoke to, and I didn't want that in my friendships. I have swapped numbers with a couple of the women from here which I never would have done a few years ago, so I can understand where MD may be coming from.

Sadly I think this is just a common issue with women fullstop rather than being escort related. You just need to be wary and take things slow and find the real gems who are positive and supportive about others rather than bitchy. Anyone bitchy/judgemental may well have issues with self esteem and project their bad internal feelings onto others .

See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

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