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samcas

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Outfit for outcall travel and arrival
« on: 20 January 2019, 03:19:39 pm »
I know this has been a topic on here before, but I want to vent my frustration about what clients expect and what is acceptable. Before Christmas, I had 2 clients post AW reviews that were critical of how I turned up for incalls. On both of them, I wore jeans with a tight body top, boots and back puffa jacket, hair up - trying to look like an ordinary woman in any street. I had matching bra, pants and holdups underneath (annoying when they keep falling down). I then did the reveal when we got to the bedroom. One client said I arrived looking like a cleaner and the other posted a review saying that I looked chavy (I think he read the earlier review and wanted to add to the criticism).

So, last week, I did another outcall to a new client (guy in his 40s.. posh house) - so I decided to look more up market and business woman like. New court black shoes (Next), opaque black tights (M&S Autograph - I have had enough or hitching op holdups on the bus), shortish black velvet skirt (YAS velvet bodycon from ASOS to be precise - no more than 6 inches above my knee), white blouse, short black cardie and black puffa jacket (mid bum length), hair down and nicely groomed. Now this client has said that I turned up looking like a "proper prozzie" in his review and that I wore frumpy and horrid black tights. He also said that he would not book me again because the neigbours will be suspicious of a woman in miniskirt "so short you could see her knickers" coming to his house.

Maybe I'll try a burka next time

You can't win.

SimplySinful

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Re: Outfit for outcall travel and arrival
« Reply #1 on: 20 January 2019, 03:25:19 pm »
What I do is make it clear in comms that I arrive dressed in a manner that is ‘smart casual’ so as to avoid attention.  I add that I’m happy to bring something sexy to change into.

That way they have no excuse for whinging about it and it would hopefully mean they wouldn’t post a review moaning about it (I mean seriously that is the worst criticism they have....morons)

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Re: Outfit for outcall travel and arrival
« Reply #2 on: 20 January 2019, 04:13:35 pm »
One tip I do is wear my stockings with tights over the top
And take tights off just before i arrive or in their bathroom so they never actually see the tights
Same with my heels as I wear flats to get to the destination and.pop the heels on as I arrive
Those guys sound like assholes though
I do loads outcalls just wear skirt and top and normal coat like you really
I do say I will arrive discreetly in discreet clothes on my profile

 

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Re: Outfit for outcall travel and arrival
« Reply #3 on: 20 January 2019, 04:54:41 pm »
Sorry about those two dick head of clients.
When it's nice hotel I dress to blend sexy smart cute. At times I like to get some pictures in. Update profile.
When it is a house I make it clear to the client that I would not like to draw any attention so I will arrive sensible (Warm if its winter time) very casual with flat shoes.. After the fees have been sorted in your home then I will slip into something more sexier.

So they can't chat shit that I did not wear something sexy upon arrival to their home.
I always make it clear on phone so they are aware avoid what the OP experienced.

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Re: Outfit for outcall travel and arrival
« Reply #4 on: 20 January 2019, 07:36:01 pm »
I do a lot of outcalls, they form the majority of my bookings. I don't have any problems with stockings if they are the correct size, only time they droop is when I'm trying to wear a pair from my bigger years.

I would advise getting some long coats, I have several some second hand which transform the way I look without looking over the top or frumpy. The only time I'd wear a puffa jacket to a booking would be to a regular who had told me to look casual, on a very cold day over very sharp jeans and a newish sports type top.

A fitted jacket or two can also smarten without looking OTT or UTT, long coat over top in winter.

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Re: Outfit for outcall travel and arrival
« Reply #5 on: 20 January 2019, 09:22:43 pm »
I put 'smart casual' on my site, arrive in neutral skirt, coat, flats, put my heels on inside and never had complaints if it's been freezing and I turn up in a massive puffa and trousers. It's all strip-offable in a minute. Some clients are un-pleasable and will never be happy especially once they've cum...'revenge clients'

The good news is AW review system works both ways and if they make silly accusations you can respond so other SPs will be warned off seeing these twattish divas.

« Last Edit: 21 January 2019, 02:19:26 pm by saltysweet »

honeymoonbarbie

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Re: Outfit for outcall travel and arrival
« Reply #6 on: 21 January 2019, 12:22:26 am »
I always try to be smart casual for outcall bookings unless they include social time that would require me to be a little more formally dressed.

This time of year I'd generally wear black high waisted jeans or cigarette trousers with a jumper and a knee length parka jacket because I'd be absolutely miserable if I had to wander around in the cold.

It sounds to me like you made more than enough of an effort.

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Re: Outfit for outcall travel and arrival
« Reply #7 on: 21 January 2019, 02:02:15 pm »
I usually wear buisness but sexy buisness wear. So a knee(ish) length dress or skirt with a blouse and a smart jacket, a suit style jacket in autumn and a long black coat in the winter. Summer I hate outcalls because it complicates things. I wear tights and heels to the door but my normal shoes while travelling (found dolly shoes fab as they fit in my handbag). I tell every single outcall how I will be dressed then explain I'll slip in to the bathroom to slip on something sexy on when I'm there.

If they want you to dress in a specific way they should have mentioned it before hand. You had no way to know what they wanted. Guys have to accept the fact we are only paid while in their premises, I'm not going to travel in a style I feel uncomfortable with and none of us should.  If your client had a look in mind he should have mentioned it before you left!

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Re: Outfit for outcall travel and arrival
« Reply #8 on: 21 January 2019, 05:07:56 pm »
I’ve turned up in gym gear before! I obviously told them that I would be doing that, and bring stuff to change into.
Luckily I look good in Lycra so it went down very well, as did I  ;D

Those men you saw sound like dickheads! Just Wear what you want, can’t let anyone dictate what you can and can’t wear!

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Re: Outfit for outcall travel and arrival
« Reply #9 on: 24 March 2019, 01:24:42 am »
I only do outcalls to hotels, so I always dress in classic black dress, mid thigh or longer and not too revealing, and skin coloured heels. I like to put on long coat that has a good cut and neutral colours. I think I look rather classy, but I never had a problem of someone calling me prissy, sorry about those 2 jerks. I usually change into my ingerie as I like to put on a full set including corsety garter. So it's something classy but sexy underneath sort of vibe I like to go for.

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Re: Outfit for outcall travel and arrival
« Reply #10 on: 24 March 2019, 10:04:40 am »
Some clients are un-pleasable and will never be happy especially once they've cum...'revenge clients'

So true...  I have seen "revenge clients" partciularly negative behaviour, showing up after coming.  I did not know there was such an apt name.
Some of them seem to be so complex. One even started asking me, after he came "I messaged you earlier and you didn't reply, I bet you were seeing another man".   Maybe, I was getting ready?  These men WILL find any excuse to criticise women unless you were some kind of "Goddess" that meets their every complex needs.   


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Re: Outfit for outcall travel and arrival
« Reply #11 on: 26 March 2019, 03:03:23 pm »
These men sound dreadful probably why they end up paying for ladies. No woman would want a relationship with them.