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K212

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Options on increasing libido / sexual pleasure
« on: 14 January 2019, 01:30:41 pm »
In my personal and professional life I probably enjoy sex purely and truly, about 20% of the time. I get off on it mentally. But that soon dies down when a sexual partner isn’t brand new anymore. It’s not that I loathe it or don’t enjoy it as such. My body just doesn’t truly get the tingles most of the time. And it’s just me going through the motions. And I’ve got to the age I actually want to enjoy it a bit more!
Have done some research online in the past and read about g spot injections? Clitoral hood reductions. And all sorts of women’s ops down there to increase sexual pleasure. No idea if I need any of these.  Anyone else have similar problem or advice?

Or even a libido enhancing supplement. Open to trying one of those.

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Re: Options on increasing libido / sexual pleasure
« Reply #1 on: 14 January 2019, 01:37:53 pm »
Hi A
I used to have a high Sex drive which sadly diminished after lots of Sex.
I just tend to get short thrills and some arousal nowadays but I'm in my 50 and in menopause though.
I used Sex toys alot when I was in my 20yrs and feel immune now to getting an orgasm so quickly it takes ages.
The magic wand toy is the only one that eventually does it.
It would be worth checking out other options as you said.
Do you find it boring with clients if not excited?
« Last Edit: 15 January 2019, 07:11:11 pm by Sugar xxx »

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Re: Options on increasing libido / sexual pleasure
« Reply #2 on: 14 January 2019, 02:17:21 pm »
I like new meat too! I'm not very sexual, it's never meant much to me it's like shelling peas, I can do it all day, work or private.... but probably enjoy it 1% of the time since my teens! But HRT's super-booster that. I reccomend it. Finding a worthy playmate is the difficult bit. I've had some plastics done on other body parts, but personally I'd hesitate before touching the lady garden with a knife.
« Last Edit: 14 January 2019, 02:56:32 pm by saltysweet »

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Re: Options on increasing libido / sexual pleasure
« Reply #3 on: 14 January 2019, 03:19:20 pm »
Given that you can enjoy sex with someone at the start, it's a mental thing, not a physical one.

So I would stay very far away from anyone offering knife or needle-based "solutions", and look for help around your mind. That needn't be seeing a therapist etc - what happens if you can't see who you're being sexual with, for example?
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Re: Options on increasing libido / sexual pleasure
« Reply #4 on: 14 January 2019, 03:22:03 pm »
That needn't be seeing a therapist etc - what happens if you can't see who you're being sexual with, for example?

Oh xw5 what do you mean, sorry that went over me, can you elaborate ?..

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Re: Options on increasing libido / sexual pleasure
« Reply #5 on: 14 January 2019, 04:23:35 pm »
Given that you can enjoy sex with someone at the start, it's a mental thing, not a physical one.

So I would stay very far away from anyone offering knife or needle-based "solutions", and look for help around your mind. That needn't be seeing a therapist etc - what happens if you can't see who you're being sexual with, for example?

Yes...that's a brilliant one Xw5.
Worked for me with a client who I never saw, he couldn't see me either... kabBOOOM!
« Last Edit: 14 January 2019, 04:55:24 pm by saltysweet »

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Re: Options on increasing libido / sexual pleasure
« Reply #6 on: 14 January 2019, 05:22:53 pm »
Oh xw5 what do you mean, sorry that went over me, can you elaborate ?..

Blindfold for you / masks for them / dark rooms etc etc.

Obviously the first only works if you seriously trust them. Unless it's the danger of a new partner you're getting off on.
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Re: Options on increasing libido / sexual pleasure
« Reply #7 on: 14 January 2019, 07:05:31 pm »
No way would I suggest anything surgical unless you have a physical problem. As said, it's 90 percent mental. Also, in terms of sex work, does it matter that much if you don't enjoy it? I'm lucky in that I usually do, but that's a bonus for me.
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Re: Options on increasing libido / sexual pleasure
« Reply #8 on: 22 January 2019, 12:54:35 am »
maca root :)