well I've got a problem,a wife of a client firstly asked i was having an affair with her husband, and then in the next sentence asked if i was just a prostitute like he said?? also asked how often he sees me? but wouldn't tell me who her husband is so how would i answer that 1 lol, anyway how would you girls answer that? she nos the name of my road and has threatened to tell my OH I'm not worried by that as he already knows what i do for a living, would you ignore the texts or put her straight? i think from the texts that hes told her we was having an affair so as he hasn't been in touch to tell me anything hes said i dint no how to handle it
  so could do without this right now as i still ha vent moved so if she nos where i live could be a problem
all advice greatly appreciated xx

this happened on wednesday she ranted by text a few times then on thursday i got nothing but last night she really went off on one,calling me a filthy whore! what does that make her man? im proud of what i do and i dont force clients to come see me or text and leave their phone where the wife can find it! i would of thought he might of some how phoned or texted to give me the heads up and i think i no who it is and i have to say if it is him ITS HIS OWN FAULT!!!! he got me some baccy cheap so i ordered enuff to see me ok for a while but the idiot only sent his son to deliver it but wifey drove the son which explains how she nos my road name,
he said he has told her that i was the gf of a mate from the gym? i dont no if it is him for sure but it explains how she nos what i look like.        she said shes going to tell everybody what a filthy whore i am! first thought was posters on lamp posts or whore written in paint on the front door,at least if she does something i can have her done for it.
i just want to get on with earning my money not worrying whats going to happen next .
i did text back 3 times but i never said what i do i tried to make out i thought it was the mate of my oh messing about and said i wasnt playing games so left it at that. xx

i got my boyfriend  to ring asking for sum person and said sorry wrong number to make sure its a woman who answered,
 IT WAS!

I've had this before - I simply told the woman who rang me - "Your problem is with the man who you sleep next to at night so I suggest you speak to him and refrain from calling me or I will report you for harassment." She never rang me again.

Yeah, this. Any fool who thinks we're to blame for our clients visiting us (cos, you know, we abduct the poor innocent lambs from their offices where they spend their time working diligently and not ever looking at AW or anything ) would deserve a sharp reminder that harassing a prostitute = harassing a person = illegal. None of us should have to ever put up with treatment like that. If your husband is a cheater, you can't go around trying to bully every woman in the world to stop him from shagging 'em. Dear lord.

my father went to visit prostitutes  behind my mother' s back for years. mum found out and turns out they were an item this particular  woman he was paying for.So. mum threw him out and divorced him.many years later when i had a miscarriage i asked for him to help me.as he drove me to the hospital he said" all men want from you is a fuck and the sooner you remember  that the better ".dreadful timing as i.just needed support at that time but hey if i bumped into him one day i would tell him i am a prostitute and do not care what he thinks of me.
Ruby

UPDATE, well i havent heard a peep out of either of them, but the wife i seen 3 times driving up and down my road, the same car his wife used to deliver my baccy,why are men so stupid to think she wouldnt put 2 and 2 together and come up with his cheating with the 6ft blonde who answered the door! cant understand why she only text and not phonedc or turned up, if she does either of these i would tell her the truth about her husband but im not giving up the info over texts as the written word is often read into as something different to what you mean.

as long as she dosent get drunk turning up on my doorstep i feel quite safe,but the thought of her screaming that im a whore so all my neighbours hear makes me feel sick to my stomach. i just wish her hubby would get in touch and tell me what story hes come up with as im sure its a load of lies either way but at least i could repeat the story to her. but for now its all quite and i like quite.

send her over to mumsnet im sure the boden massive will love to advise on how to deal with her husband shagging a hooker