Author Topic: One of the longest nights I've had (Read 4398 times)

SesameHoney · « **on:** 04 June 2016, 05:52:50 am »

I've had one of the most mind numbing nights with the most obnoxious client I've ever come across.

On several occasions I almost burst into a hysterical fit. He was just constantly going on about being together and marrying me and and all sorts of utter bullocks. It's made me question this whole thing. I just sat there looking at the cash and thinking "was it really fucking worth it?"

My God that was mental torture.

Mirror · « **Reply #1 on:** 04 June 2016, 09:08:57 am »

Quote from: SesameHoney on 04 June 2016, 05:52:50 am

I've had one of the most mind numbing nights with the most obnoxious client I've ever come across.

On several occasions I almost burst into a hysterical fit. He was just constantly going on about being together and marrying me and and all sorts of utter bullocks. It's made me question this whole thing. I just sat there looking at the cash and thinking "was it really fucking worth it?"

My God that was mental torture.

You should have had the fit, perhaps not so extreme but telling him it wasn't on is far better than absorbing all of that.

newbieNW · « **Reply #2 on:** 04 June 2016, 09:39:23 am »

If someone got involved and you didn't want him. The choice is yours. You either tell him you don't want him at all (whilst you want his money) or you keep him under the false illusion in order to take his money but your conscious bothers you a lot. At least, he made it clear to you and you would have to come clean sooner or later. In a way, this isn't too far from ordinary dating. The guy liked you but you didn't'. It's better to tell him soon rather than keep him hanging around.

Jill · « **Reply #3 on:** 04 June 2016, 10:32:04 am »

If I am with a client like this I have learned to let my head get into a different zone to almost shut out what is happening or at least what they are saying, yet at the same time be just aware so that if a response of any kind is need from me I am able to to do this. Weird? Yes but it is a weird job in my opinion.

Shewolf · « **Reply #4 on:** 04 June 2016, 01:12:15 pm »

That sounds traumatic to me. Talk about a client pushing the boundaries! He completely exploited the fact he had you for a long length of time.

If I were you, I would make a fully conscious (not split

) decision never to do an overnight again unless you know the man very well and you know this won't happen again xx

I feel sorry for what you have been through.

TrashAzn · « **Reply #5 on:** 04 June 2016, 01:51:26 pm »

Ehhh....Had loads of clients tell me they love me and want to marry me. Part of the parcel of creating a fantasy world for money. Honestly some of these replies make it sound like he went psychotic and locked her in the house and tried to force her into stuff she doesn't do. Overnights sure aren't for everyone. It's money but if you can't handle entertaining somebody for a whole evening and playing girlfriend I wouldn't even bother.

newbieNW · « **Reply #6 on:** 04 June 2016, 07:01:00 pm »

You could say, you have a husband. End of the story. You'll have new punters soon enough. You have sold your "fantasy" for the night - you did not sell your precious self to this punter

Kinda cute but Deluded or what?

Shewolf · « **Reply #7 on:** 04 June 2016, 08:49:09 pm »

Quote from: TrashAzn on 04 June 2016, 01:51:26 pm

Ehhh....Had loads of clients tell me they love me and want to marry me. Part of the parcel of creating a fantasy world for money. Honestly some of these replies make it sound like he went psychotic and locked her in the house and tried to force her into stuff she doesn't do. Overnights sure aren't for everyone. It's money but if you can't handle entertaining somebody for a whole evening and playing girlfriend I wouldn't even bother.

I'm sure she could have entertained him talking such shite for a certain length of time but to have to do so for an overnight is understandably awful.

Shewolf · « **Reply #8 on:** 04 June 2016, 08:50:14 pm »

Or longer than an hour or so. An hour is my limits now. Two hours max.

trashbaby · « **Reply #9 on:** 05 June 2016, 12:08:49 am »

Long bookings are incredibly draining and this sounds like a TOUGH one. Hugs for you!

TrashAzn · « **Reply #10 on:** 05 June 2016, 12:49:13 pm »

Quote from: Shewolf on 04 June 2016, 08:49:09 pm

I'm sure she could have entertained him talking such shite for a certain length of time but to have to do so for an overnight is understandably awful.

And this is why you should stick to 1-2 hours. If you come off overnights feeling drained and depressed it's not really good for the soul. Usually if a conversation is bothering me I deflect the subject into something else. I can talk forever so I'll just get them on to other things lol. Honestly if that was mental torture I hope OP never gets a really difficult client.

newbieNW · « **Reply #11 on:** 06 June 2016, 10:32:45 pm »

Does that mean that overnighter equals "I'm so into you?" (If not all all nighters? )

Shewolf · « **Reply #12 on:** 07 June 2016, 09:49:06 am »

I wouldn't do more than 2 hours anymore with any client haha, and I am certainly never into any of them...been there...never again

trashbaby · « **Reply #13 on:** 07 June 2016, 05:57:23 pm »

Quote from: TrashAzn on 05 June 2016, 12:49:13 pm

Quote from: Shewolf on 04 June 2016, 08:49:09 pm
I'm sure she could have entertained him talking such shite for a certain length of time but to have to do so for an overnight is understandably awful.

And this is why you should stick to 1-2 hours. If you come off overnights feeling drained and depressed it's not really good for the soul. Usually if a conversation is bothering me I deflect the subject into something else. I can talk forever so I'll just get them on to other things lol. Honestly if that was mental torture I hope OP never gets a really difficult client.

... and if she does, it wouldn't take away from her experience here, or make it any less shitty. Perhaps she wasnt in a financial situation to turn down the money of an overnight. It's a very privileged position to be able to be choosy about your bookings.

Nia Hope · « **Reply #14 on:** 07 June 2016, 06:10:24 pm »

Quote from: Shewolf on 04 June 2016, 08:50:14 pm

Or longer than an hour or so. An hour is my limits now. Two hours max.

Same here, even 2 hours is a chore nowadays.

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