This is the bit that would get my back up: "and following are the few things i wanted to get across "

I'm with Fabulassie on this. The rest of the message wouldn't have bothered me as a request. Better than the, "What are you going to wear for me?" brigade!

Quote from: Fabulassie on 09 October 2014, 12:02:29 pm

This is the bit that would get my back up: "and following are the few things i wanted to get across "

I'm with Fabulassie on this. The rest of the message wouldn't have bothered me as a request. Better than the, "What are you going to wear for me?" brigade!

This is the line that annoyed me, i'm fine with requests but when someone's telling me basically what they want down to hair and make up it annoys me cause if all guys wanted my hair a certain way I'd have to constantly style it which believe me is a pain in the arse with extensions in.
I'm literally always fine with reasonable requests like outfits but when im ASKED not basically told.
And I also agree with Lady lust. If it was for 2 hours+ then fair do's but it was for an hour (offer rate at that). In the end he was a lovely guy tbf and he liked my look.

I have no problem with clothing requests if it is an item they have seen on my photos but I seem to get requests for things that I just would not own  A pink leotard?  Yellow cycling shorts with matching t shirt and knee pads and helmet?

I also do not take requests for my hair style either.  If I have spent two hours that morning drying and straightening my hair (it is really really thick and curly) then I am not going to ruin it for an hours booking just because they prefer curly hair as it would take another two hours to do it again afterwards.

There are also ways of getting a request across and the way he put it did not seem like a request more of a 'this is what I expect from you'
Whatever happened to being polite.  I really like ladies who wear x and do their hair and make up like x so would it be possible for you to do this?  No one could take offense if it is worded this way.

I am really fussy over who I see now as I can only see a couple of people a day so I would not entertain him as I don't see anyone who cannot even show me basic manners.  For me there is nothing worse than being in a booking with someone who demands or barks orders at me.  I may get paid for having sex but I still deserve to be treated respectfully.  I always think if they cannot be polite in an email or text (when they have time to think of what they are saying) then it is hardly likely they will be polite during a booking

The only request I've had was to wear trainers and black socks, to be worn throughout the booking! Sportswear seems to be a real thing among gay men, as well as smelly socks and puts. I find it fascinating  personally

As a TV with huge wardrobe , I get some very demanding requests.
I just say yes to everything and then when they get through the door it's either show is cancelled or I get on all fours and start thinking of the kitchen units he is helping to buy - like any other meet!

I don't mind requests because it gives you an idea of the client's personality before you meet. Like, "Hey I want you to wear going out make up, red lipstick" then you know you'll be acting like a porn star whore, or the opposite then you'll be the good girl. But to keep my sanity I do it all with my own interpretation. So if I don't have something I offer an alternative like, "Oh, sorry I don't have a poofy pink ballerina skirt, but I do have this really sexy pink mini skirt and I'll dance for you, is that okay??" And so far no one's ever complained

I get LOADS of requests. If they request something to wear which I haven't got and is over a fiver to buy then I tell them to provide it or pay for it. However, what I can't stand are the pubic hair requests. I understand the preference for shaved, but it's sod's law when the next client to come along requests a full-on bush!

lol, yeah. that's quite a problem. I once had a client request to SHAVE my pubes. Eh? No thanks, buddy.