I don't think I'd want to go ahead with seeing him. I cancel when they start being demanding. They are welcome to make polite requests over the phone, so then I can tell by the tone of their voice whether or not it sounds like an order. I like to make my clients happy, but an email like this would pee me off.

I don't mind clothing requests, but do your hair this way, your nails that way, your make up that way... that really pisses me off. Clothes are a quick change, I do my hair the way I like it every day, same with my nails and make up, because it makes me feel pretty and sexy and comfortable to work. And that shit takes time, they have no right to be requesting that kind of thing.

What really annoys me are the guys who want me to shower with them. I always say no unless they want to book for a while because I have eyelash extensions which means I have to be careful about getting water in my eyes as I can't rub them clean I had to lightly dry them with a paper towel, and hair extensions, which take a fucking year to dry, let alone style again. So besides the pain in the ass of it, I wouldn't be able to book anyone else for at least an hour and a half afterwards, if not longer. And I will have guys argue and argue with me over it, oh I won't get you hair wet... yeah right! Or the ones who say five minutes before the booking ends, will you please take a shower with me? Really? You're gonna shower for 5 minutes with a naked girl? Uh huh.

I agree it depends on how they ask. I have only had simple requests so don't mind and for longer bookings (regular or has good feedback) I even ask them how they might like me to open the door.

It is a lot of money they are spending and an experience they are purchasing, some have a fantasy they want so why not oblige, most of us have an array of outfits waiting to be worn anyway.

Politeness will get our clients far. Text messages and emails can be hard to judge the tone of as opposed to hearing their request on the phone.

I have to agree this would p me right off.

I don't do requests but thats only because I have a limited wardrobe (plus the few times I've had requests it's been for ridiculous stuff), I also don't paint my nails as it just peels off and I am rubbish at doing my hair, so I would need to go to the hairdressers if they wanted it curly.

I mean you would think if he is into girls with really straight hair he would book someone with really straight hair..

I have a client that has multiple requests for his roleplay bookings sometimes his list is endless on the phone drives me mad  but I need  the money.
I will compromise and don't go out buying the exact knickers requested for me to wear or new blouse etc, when he gets there he dosnt complain either. 

Yes I compromise too, if I don't have something I won't buy it but I tell them I don't have it, I think if you're not open to requests then make it clear on your profile,

I have outfits that I need help getting into! Basques and fiddly things! Most of the time men are oblivious at how difficult certain requests are x

He he that's a good one sour grapes, must remember that if I get micro managers. 

This is the bit that would get my back up: "and following are the few things i wanted to get across "

I'm not sure what "get across" means but I think I'd be less likely to be annoyed if it was "I was wondering if I could request..."

Being told exactly how to style my hair would probably annoy me, anyway.

However, I do agree that they are paying us a lot of money and so I feel guilty when this sort of thing grates.