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sade

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non sexual cuddles
« on: 11 October 2012, 03:47:34 am »
this evening a guy outside the adultwork world, came over for a short casual visit and I've experienced the first 4 hours cuddle in my life, without doing anything sexual...and I must admit..I so needed that...we are massively into each other, since we first met...but he knows I am seeing someone else and I like him so much that I couldn't have him think I am easy...does it make sense to any of you, or am I being a fool?
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Dani

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Re: non sexual cuddles
« Reply #1 on: 11 October 2012, 07:53:59 pm »
Of course it makes sense.  Sex is our work so now and then we want men to see us as someone else and not the sexy escort.  A long cuddle with no trying on his part for sex is wonderful and when my partner does it, I feel great.  After a bad day nothing is better than a hug with no sex involved as it reminds us that although we shag most of the day we are not seen as just sex objects but as women with feelings too.
I love a long cuddle and if this guy wants to be with you then go for it as he sounds great. Nothing nicer than a guy who can cuddle without groping hands ;D
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orchidperfume

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Re: non sexual cuddles
« Reply #2 on: 11 October 2012, 08:18:24 pm »
 good for you PD   a big long hug is something we could all do with some days  :)

sade

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Re: non sexual cuddles
« Reply #3 on: 11 October 2012, 11:13:43 pm »
Thank you Dani and orchidperfume.

 It did charge my batteries for a while now and I would take that guy "in my category right now"..amen to that...and you know...it might sound lame, or sad, but for me it meant so much more as I haven't got family here..so didn't get a true wholehearted felt hug in some time...and the guys, either bfs or customers, I was never lucky enough to experience that before ..guess they all ended up groping in the end and spoiling it..well..you know what I mean!
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KatieKurves

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Re: non sexual cuddles
« Reply #4 on: 11 October 2012, 11:51:07 pm »
Aaahhh how nice is that!? Everyone deserves hugs now & then.

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