So I have some head case who I've rejected from calling me several times give me some mild abuse but has now changed his tune and says he is convinced I am being forced into this and that he wants to help me.

He's now saying hes an off duty police man.

I explained to him that someone forced wouldn't have control over their phone, who they see and the hours the work so how he came up with this idea when I am trying to avoid him is beyond me.

I am worried he actually reports me to the police for being forced.

Now sent me a text saying he thinks he loves me! Wow just wow!

Not sure whether I should contact the police about she guy he just sent me a text saying.......

Just watch out now, new sim, new phone and your getting done.

Then another saying.......

Just watch and see.

All this cause I rejected his phone calls, fuck sake!

Make sure you save all his texts and phone numbers. If you can, just block him.

Just say you never take bookings that don't also through online. Just saying it will probably avoid them doing it.

That's how I avoid these nutters and know they will never see me, the nutters will generally not book online to get to see you, there will always be a trace.

I have saved them all. I have a new phone with a blocking facility that I will start using next week as it's taken me nearly 2 months to transfer all my numbers from my old shitty phone into my iPhone so once that's done, I can then block people like this. I have already put his number in my iPhone but he did say that he will just get me using a different sim so blocking him is probably pointless 

block him again and again until he quits.
Ive had one like that, not agressive but a stalker and he managed just once to book me from a different number and when he showed, I just told him that I dont want to see him ever and that was end of story.
If he sense you are scared, he will carry on.

And as Amy said, turn your phone off at night  and have peace

PP, if you must keep your phone on then, even if silent, put it in another room.  If you hadn't responded then he wouldn't have gotten a reaction (which he did). 

I always try to keep it so that they won't go down the "change number" stage because then you are more paranoid about every number that comes in especially if you have nt spoken to him and don't know what his voice sounds like.

Even if it did start before midnight, if you are not working, then put your phone somewhere away from you you, even if it's just for headspace and time for yourself.

If I'm right, you don't work late so no need to have phone near you.  We all have to relax.  When I was whoring I very rarely answered a call after 9pm.  If they wanted me they would get me another time.

What a knob. I think it's safe to say he isn't a police officer lol.

I don't reply to texts whatsoever to avoid people like this, i very rarely have somebody be excessively weird on the telephone directly but have had no end of weird messages which have lead me to ignore them all together. If he reports you to the police for being controlled they just might pay you a visit based on the allegation, but upon doing so they'll clearly see that you're independent at which point they'd be more interested in the amount of /&contents of the messages he's sending you x

The police would be more interested in him claiming to be an officer.