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Supergirl

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Not looking forward to this overnight
« on: 09 July 2024, 01:38:27 pm »
I've got an overnight this week with a long term regular, we normally do 1/2 hrs and I'm very glad to be gone after as he's not that bright plus makes things up to big himself up and is definitely in love with me. However business has been dire and I couldn't turn down the money for an overnight.

I often have to grit my teeth when he's saying pure bull but I stick on my sweet smile and play along.

How on earth am I going to get through 12 hrs??? Lord save me. Any hints very welcome.

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Re: Not looking forward to this overnight
« Reply #1 on: 09 July 2024, 02:40:38 pm »
I've got an overnight this week with a long term regular, we normally do 1/2 hrs and I'm very glad to be gone after as he's not that bright plus makes things up to big himself up and is definitely in love with me. However business has been dire and I couldn't turn down the money for an overnight.

I often have to grit my teeth when he's saying pure bull but I stick on my sweet smile and play along.

How on earth am I going to get through 12 hrs??? Lord save me. Any hints very welcome.

Have you agreed a certain number of uninterrupted sleep hours?

Is this incall or outcall?

Is a meal involved(doesn't matter if there isn't)?

How quickly does he cum, and do you know if he is a repeater?

What type of service or experience do you market yourself as or does he book you for?
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Supergirl

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Re: Not looking forward to this overnight
« Reply #2 on: 09 July 2024, 04:33:40 pm »
It's 8pm to 8am bit no we haven't talked about sleep but he's over 60 and usually falls asleep after so I'm not too worried (I'll prob be lying awake anyway!)

It's an outcall at his, I've been there many times. He claims he used to be a chef but is making sausage and mash so nothing fancy 🤣

He'll normally cum pretty quickly but likes to play with me for ages. I do the whole gfe and he's definitely googly eyed about me.

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Re: Not looking forward to this overnight
« Reply #3 on: 09 July 2024, 05:48:02 pm »
It's 8pm to 8am bit no we haven't talked about sleep but he's over 60 and usually falls asleep after so I'm not too worried (I'll prob be lying awake anyway!)

It's an outcall at his, I've been there many times. He claims he used to be a chef but is making sausage and mash so nothing fancy 🤣

He'll normally cum pretty quickly but likes to play with me for ages. I do the whole gfe and he's definitely googly eyed about me.


This sounds absolutely fine, I take a couple of spare lingerie sets, and a nightie. I then change either on arrival or after dinner/first round. A bit of a fashion show you can change in bathroom or spare room.

Listening to music, watching a film can fill some time. I just keep smiling remembering this booking is for a finite time. I'm being well paid, all I have to do is be nice, listen, I don't have to agree or even get involved. Nod along, say appropriate things.

This is a lot easier than taking everything as something you have to be involved with (what I used to do), it's different to friends/people in private life.

If I start to get annoyed with say turns of phrase, habits I just remember all I have to do is be nice.

In the morning I have a shower before he gets up, check phone/messages, then be nice have breakfast if included say goodbye.

I do 12-16 hours overnights years ago I struggled with them, but now absolutely fine.

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Re: Not looking forward to this overnight
« Reply #4 on: 09 July 2024, 05:54:03 pm »
Thanks for that, I do find them tiring mentally but you're right, need to remind myself  it'll all be over soon and just keep being sweet. Really need the money so keep thinking about that I guess!

Good idea about showering before he gets up, that way he'll know I'll be on my way soon. No idea about breakfast but I'll force something down if offered but I normally can't eat till about 10am .


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Re: Not looking forward to this overnight
« Reply #5 on: 09 July 2024, 07:08:22 pm »
Thanks for that, I do find them tiring mentally but you're right, need to remind myself  it'll all be over soon and just keep being sweet. Really need the money so keep thinking about that I guess!

Good idea about showering before he gets up, that way he'll know I'll be on my way soon. No idea about breakfast but I'll force something down if offered but I normally can't eat till about 10am .

The showering is so I feel fresh if he wants some morning sex or cuddles I also shave my legs, bikini line (something I do every morning whatever), and also gives me a little 'me' time both for me and to catch up on any enquiries I really dislike a pile of messages to answer when on my way home. I then go back to bed and don't need to shower again before I go. If he goes for a shower I can put make-up on, or pack or grab some sleep. At home I get up early and am usually doing 101 things, so overnights in some ways can be a little rest but take energy in other ways.

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Re: Not looking forward to this overnight
« Reply #6 on: 10 July 2024, 03:43:47 pm »
Watching a film or tv is a great way to pass the time. Maybe find out what he likes in advance or if he has Netflix what a series you like.

I tend to go to sleep early so would mention that if you're the same. I think some expect us to be real night owls for some reason.

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Re: Not looking forward to this overnight
« Reply #7 on: 18 July 2024, 06:33:34 pm »
I do a lot of overnights with some of my regulars.  I don't do them with new clients. 
They usually include dinner, cuddle/sex time, movie watching, lots of sleep.  Sometimes we can have good conversations in bed about anything. 

In the morning, a shower, and second shorter sex session.  Usually I can book their next appointment after we get dressed, but their hormones are still in charge from our session :) 

I just leave time to rest and freshen myself before my first day client. 

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Re: Not looking forward to this overnight
« Reply #8 on: 04 September 2024, 11:13:40 pm »
As soon as he's popped put on Classic FM. Hopefully he's out of action for a few hours.

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Re: Not looking forward to this overnight
« Reply #9 on: 05 September 2024, 02:58:14 pm »
Supergirl, how did it go? I just cannot do it. I struggle with hour sessions and so 3/4 of an hour is my maximum really.

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Re: Not looking forward to this overnight
« Reply #10 on: 06 September 2024, 10:25:35 am »
I did it once 😄 not for me... After 2 hrs I was bored out of my mind.
The client booked 8pm 8am...we've had sex for over an hr at this point . We started watching BBC news at 10pm🤣🤣... after news, he had a shower and he decided to call a night, he called his uber and left. 😂😂 Easiest money  I've ever made

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Re: Not looking forward to this overnight
« Reply #11 on: 07 September 2024, 12:56:26 pm »
If only they were all like that!!

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Re: Not looking forward to this overnight
« Reply #12 on: 10 September 2024, 05:32:47 am »
To make longer bookings work, IMO, it is essential to have a plan for how you spend the time.
And not to race to get your clothes off.

Talking, undressing, having a drink together --- that sort of thing should all be thought of as part of the session and part of a slow seduction.
Kissing, cuddling, slowly undressing each other...

In a one-hour session, it can easily be 20-30 minutes before you are both naked.
Sensual touching & oral, then takes up about 20 minutes.
Then, you are into the final countdown.

Many of the clients can't get hard enough for penetration (in my 3 decades I have always seen more older clients - they are a dream. Younger ones make life hard work), but even if they aren't hard enough they like to imagine amazing Porn-star sex, so act some cowgirl position and some doggy with one a hand on their little members so they can enjoy the visuals and the fantasy.

With experience, I pretty much have THEIR orgasm timed to perfection. 19 out of 20 men COME within minutes of the time slot I have in my mind.

If it is a 1-hour session, I aim for them to come at 50 minutes. That way, there is a spare 10 minutes if they take longer. Or time for cuddles and a nice chat if they come at exactly 50 minutes.

To make it all work, I find it essential to think of something to like about the client. While they are there, I try not to focus on the annoying things.

There!
Before you know it, an hour is a short session.

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Re: Not looking forward to this overnight
« Reply #13 on: 10 September 2024, 06:10:18 am »
Physically over nights are easy as they only want sex 2-3x and as others have said it gives time for a slow build-up.

It’s easier with a client I enjoy chatting to, I need to meet a client before and get to know what topics he will chat freely about, then it’s easier to lead onto those during the meet.  If good conversation is hard I won’t meet for an overnight, I did that once and it was a very tedious night, never again.

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Re: Not looking forward to this overnight
« Reply #14 on: 11 September 2024, 10:34:15 am »
I used too do overnights. They hard work, them cuddling you, breathing over you all night, yuck. I'd be exhausted for days afterwards no sleep. So fair play for you.

I done a weekend away once to Monaco grand prix. The guy was nice but sex mad. We got a nice hotel, balcony over the race track , champagne and few hours  on a private yacht in harbour .

We went out as soon as we arrived. I had chicken and he had some seafood. And next day he had squits and sick, so no sex, then day after at grand prix he was back and forth toilet so no sex.

3 rd day he was in bed all day and then flew home next day.

So i just got pissed on champagne and enjoyed the race and boat etc. Best ever weekend away with client lol! Got 3k which back 2009 - so lot of money back then. All flights, food, champagne etc. Client didn't want me near him as he was so ill . I really felt sorry for him (not)

Nowadays 2 hrs is max I can torelate them and be nice.