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Re: Not listening to the rubbish spouted by punters on forums!
« Reply #15 on: 03 December 2009, 04:52:44 pm »
One 'punternetter' openly declared his support for the BNP from what I can remember - a few others commented on why they think may be gaining support amongst the electorate and a good few also argued vehemently against trusting the likes of Nick Griffin with anything more important than flattening cardboard boxes. And the BNP is a legal political organisation, with democratically elected representatives.

Any individual's politics are their own business, whether they concur with our own or not; this is not a country where we tell people who they can and cannot vote for. If folk don't like it they should get off their arses and vote more, which is seemingly how they won seats in the first place (certainly in the case of Yorkshire and the Humber). The voters who did, whether we like or not, elected the BNP.

This is a bit like the old adage about restaurants - if you have a good meal out you would tell a couple of people, but if you had a terrible one and as a result spent the whole night driving the porcelain bus, you would most likely tell everyone who would listen. I'm not saying it's all wonderful stuff, but there does seem to be a concerted effort to look only for the most abhorrent posts, posters and attitudes on the forum - what about the rest?

I have met several clients from PN (some of them active posters) and they have become good regulars - tarring everyone with the same brush makes us no better than when posters there do it. It's a lively place and I've seen (and been in) a few real dogfights, but I much prefer it to the cliqueyness and sycophantic drivel which seems to make up other punting boards. A bit of balance needed, methinks.

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« Reply #16 on: 03 December 2009, 07:52:51 pm »
And if anyone watches true blood, I imagine Joey talking like the guy on there (can't remember his name) who's also an escort as it happens  ;D

Lafayette! I don't think Joey's that sassy though. Few real people can achieve that sort of level.

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« Reply #17 on: 04 December 2009, 11:14:33 am »
And if anyone watches true blood, I imagine Joey talking like the guy on there (can't remember his name) who's also an escort as it happens  ;D

OMG YES!

... but, I am only on episode 3 so I didn't know he was an escort. Damn you!
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Re: Not listening to the rubbish spouted by punters on forums!
« Reply #18 on: 04 December 2009, 11:38:24 am »
... but, I am only on episode 3 so I didn't know he was an escort. Damn you!
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Ooops! Sowwy  :(

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Re: Not listening to the rubbish spouted by punters on forums!
« Reply #19 on: 05 December 2009, 11:08:46 am »
And if anyone watches true blood, I imagine Joey talking like the guy on there (can't remember his name) who's also an escort as it happens  ;D

OMG YES!

... but, I am only on episode 3 so I didn't know he was an escort. Damn you!
Oh don't worry, Lafayette is a lot of things. He is my favorite character on that show.

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Re: Not listening to the rubbish spouted by punters on forums!
« Reply #20 on: 05 December 2009, 12:58:14 pm »
I love anything to do with Vampires and 'Angel' could come and bite me any place, any time. So I got excited about true blood, watched 10min of it and got bored.

Maybe I need to give it another chance?
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Re: Not listening to the rubbish spouted by punters on forums!
« Reply #21 on: 05 December 2009, 02:01:25 pm »
Were you watching from the beginning? The first episode really impressed us and since then it's got less great. Still good, but I don't think I'd enjoy it as much without the initial setup.

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Re: Not listening to the rubbish spouted by punters on forums!
« Reply #22 on: 05 December 2009, 07:58:34 pm »
I think I watched the second episode and it just didn't grab me, it was a bit more than 10 min, but I was completely underwhelmed.

I'll try to watch the first episode, maybe I'll get into it.
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« Reply #23 on: 07 December 2009, 07:00:29 pm »
Sorry late in on this one.

 I refuse to use punter forums.  Back to the subject of this thread, I occasionally get a newbie who might not realise that you don't give out your address, or, they think you might be working somewhere which is not your home or whatever.  Some try to slip it in at the end of a long involved set of negotiations, thinking they're going to catch you unawares.  Nice try, I always think lol.  I had one guy recently who became so inflamed from having to follow my instructions for finding me (without me giving out my address) that he ended up spitting bile in my car park.  Or his dummy.  Bit of both.  The reason he could not follow the directions was that he kept interrupting with whiney plaintive questions "why does it have to be so hard - I just want to have a massage blah blah".  Then he wondered why he got lost.  Thankfully, there are not many like him.

I always tell them "You wouldn't expect me to give my address on a blind date would you?"  I mean, considering what we do, it's about 100 times more important an issue.  They just don't realise how dangerous giving your address to someone, sight unseen, can be.  Particularly if you work from home. 

Punter forums - bah!  I have always had my reports (favourable) deleted from them and asked not to be discussed.  Don't like them.  which kind of makes them not that reliable or representative of the industry.  And  lot of the guys posting know exactly what they are doing and post things which might influence someone new.

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Re: Not listening to the rubbish spouted by punters on forums!
« Reply #24 on: 13 December 2009, 06:33:51 pm »
Well the up side ladies is that one of the PN mods is kindly offering unsolicited "free feedback from a customer perspective"  to us girls who are "trying to flog our bodies in a recession".

http://www.punternet.com/forum/showthread.php?t=25098

Edit: Someone Pmd to ask if I was being serious with my gratitude to this mod 'gentleman'  - no and I should have added a  ::) to the end of my post. He has backtracked now though and locked the thread as it was pointed out how similar his views were to those of the resident board mysoginist. Thank god most punters are nothing like these 2 or most of the others who spend too much time on forums.
« Last Edit: 14 December 2009, 08:17:47 am by Trafford »

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Re: Not listening to the rubbish spouted by punters on forums!
« Reply #25 on: 14 December 2009, 09:04:09 am »
Lol, I just literally shuddered at the thought. Luckily I don't need to go and look because I'm guessing it says, "Better Service Tip #1: Give me all services for free now plz and don't be grumpy about it!" and I'm sure I'm right. ;D
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Re: Not listening to the rubbish spouted by punters on forums!
« Reply #26 on: 14 December 2009, 12:22:49 pm »
Well the up side ladies is that one of the PN mods is kindly offering unsolicited "free feedback from a customer perspective"  to us girls who are "trying to flog our bodies in a recession".

http://www.punternet.com/forum/showthread.php?t=25098

Edit: Someone Pmd to ask if I was being serious with my gratitude to this mod 'gentleman'  - no and I should have added a  ::) to the end of my post. He has backtracked now though and locked the thread as it was pointed out how similar his views were to those of the resident board mysoginist. Thank god most punters are nothing like these 2 or most of the others who spend too much time on forums.

Yes that thread was a cracker, even for him  ::)

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« Reply #27 on: 14 December 2009, 12:52:56 pm »
Punternet is a funny animal....  I get a lot of bookings via there and a high number of unique views on my stats.  There are quite a lot of decent, intelligent, warm and funny posters among the Neanderthal Grunters!   But if you read the drivel by the latter you would soon lose faith and sanity.

 Paradoxically, the rudest and most misogynist among that cyber mob appear to be the most sensitive little souls during bookings.  While simultaneously reducing escorts to mere F**K Dolls and venomously referring to them as ?lying whores? on a regular basis, the same missing punting links have their feelings crushed if a lady counted the money in front of them or otherwise draws too much attention to the encounter being a commercial transaction ? go figure!

Was going to get my claws out on PN and compose a scathing reply to the latest journo soliciting for ready-made quotes for her hard-hitting article at Glamour magazine.  Am I the only one who does not see the two really sitting well together in such a publication?   In the end so Amy and Christa echoed virtually verbatim my points.  Especially, Amy pointed out the flaws and ignorant assumptions to the proposed article.  The so-called journalist then was miraculously contacted by victims of sex trafficking....  At this point, I decided not to waste my breath on this hack!  People like this should limit their supposed journalistic talents on hard hitting research of the real story behind Balenciaga handbags, more in keeping with the general calibre of their glossy!  But well done Amy on a few great posts!     

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Re: Not listening to the rubbish spouted by punters on forums!
« Reply #28 on: 14 December 2009, 01:10:33 pm »
Did you say this was on the fabulous punternet Honey? I'll have to go and have a look  ;D I take perverse pleasure in journalists getting an ear bashing for some reason... ???

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Re: Not listening to the rubbish spouted by punters on forums!
« Reply #29 on: 14 December 2009, 02:20:26 pm »
Just finished reading it.... great stuff Amy xx