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Nora batty

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Re: Not letting them use the shower
« Reply #15 on: 21 September 2018, 11:54:53 am »
People act differently when they think they are being watched.  Take the bathroom door off lol.  Tell them you like to watch as they wash themselves all over, in a sexy drool lol.

I actually wanted to do this, as I am OCD about my huge beautiful bathroom that's got a high shine black tile floor that you only have to breathe near and it looks like an assault course when clients walk out of the shower. 

I started leaving pink towels in the bathroom, and handing them a fluffy white one from the drawer when they off to the shower.  Some macho men won't walk back into my room with a pink towel, the odd one does.

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Re: Not letting them use the shower
« Reply #16 on: 21 September 2018, 01:32:06 pm »
People act differently when they think they are being watched.  Take the bathroom door off lol.  Tell them you like to watch as they wash themselves all over, in a sexy drool lol.

Haha! I have used a hotel once which had a glass partition between bathroom and bedroom and you had to press a button to make the glass frost over. Wow I had some thorough washers in there!
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Re: Not letting them use the shower
« Reply #17 on: 21 September 2018, 02:16:05 pm »
I seem to have had a run of guys who happily shower but still smell after...it's like they have all been let out of somewhere and want to see me  :FF :FF :FF

I am now going to watch them just to make sure. One today was in the shower ten minutes. Clean body, clean dick, stale smelling balls and BO. WTF was he doing?

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Re: Not letting them use the shower
« Reply #18 on: 21 September 2018, 09:35:55 pm »
I seem to have had a run of guys who happily shower but still smell after...it's like they have all been let out of somewhere and want to see me  :FF :FF :FF

I am now going to watch them just to make sure. One today was in the shower ten minutes. Clean body, clean dick, stale smelling balls and BO. WTF was he doing?

Maybe he was just doing some exercise in the shower.  ::)

Seriously, I really wouldn't be able to offer someone stinky a service. Thankfully, the situation doesn't seem to happen a lot to me. I feel your pain though.

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Re: Not letting them use the shower
« Reply #19 on: 21 September 2018, 11:21:11 pm »
Maybe he was just doing some exercise in the shower.  ::)

Seriously, I really wouldn't be able to offer someone stinky a service. Thankfully, the situation doesn't seem to happen a lot to me. I feel your pain though.

Perhaps watching them as they shower would help us both SC, I can check they do it properly and you can make sure they don't make a mess!

Seriously, now these are the guys who I understand why they need to pay for sex. Thankfully they are in the minority and most clients are normal and clean. But how do they get through the day? Beyond belief.

Oh I just remembered, today's special case came out of the bathroom after his ten minute 'shower' wearing the towel and his socks. Socks!  ;D ;D ;D Clueless!

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Re: Not letting them use the shower
« Reply #20 on: 21 September 2018, 11:34:21 pm »
This would never work. 70% of mine shower. We want them to be clean! Not every guy is able to shower elsewhere just before a booking.

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Re: Not letting them use the shower
« Reply #21 on: 22 September 2018, 03:30:20 am »
In fairness, most of my clients turn up clean and fresh. I did insist on a client recently having a shower and it was literally like a 4 year old with paint, the amount of mess. He used all of the fresh towels and literally just threw them everywhere. I've had the problem before, but he literally took the biscuit. I buy a couple of different shower gels, I supply fresh razors and shampoo. But I don't expect a whole bottle squirted all around the bathroom.
 
I've calmed down over it now, but having to spend a while just cleaning up after clients does wind me up somewhat. I will admit grown adults not being able to flush the toilet after themselves is really irritating and it stinks up the bathroom.

By the way, if someone comes through the door absolutely stinking, I will not see them. Luckily, most of my clients are great like that and won't turn up with worse hygiene than someone who's living rough.

I'd definitely say don't leave all your towels in the bathroom, one hand towel in there, one flannel, and hand them a towel to use when showering.

Throw bleach in the toilet prior to arrival, or get one of those hanging cleaners/deorderizers. Admittedly I've never had someone not flush, but my bedroom is very close to my bathroom, so they know I can hear if they flush and if they wash their hands. I had one gentleman not wash, and told him to go back and wash his hands and dick. Just common decency there.

I will say though, better shower gel spashed around than urine. Cleaned up more than a few misaims over the years, civvie and work. I wish more men sat to pee.

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Re: Not letting them use the shower
« Reply #22 on: 22 September 2018, 09:35:05 am »
I'd definitely say don't leave all your towels in the bathroom, one hand towel in there, one flannel, and hand them a towel to use when showering.

Throw bleach in the toilet prior to arrival, or get one of those hanging cleaners/deorderizers. Admittedly I've never had someone not flush, but my bedroom is very close to my bathroom, so they know I can hear if they flush and if they wash their hands. I had one gentleman not wash, and told him to go back and wash his hands and dick. Just common decency there.

I will say though, better shower gel spashed around than urine. Cleaned up more than a few misaims over the years, civvie and work. I wish more men sat to pee.

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Re: Not letting them use the shower
« Reply #23 on: 22 September 2018, 02:24:14 pm »
 I wish more men sat to pee.
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They shake it dry that is the  problem.

I am in a new apartment the man did not close the bathroom door.
I looked up into the hallway and the mirror showed him bent over the toilet shaking it dry and drips splashing everywhere  ???  :FF

What do they be thinking - pee flying everywhere.

He was not in there long enough for it to have been anything else.

Then he walked out no wash so got sent back in.

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Re: Not letting them use the shower
« Reply #24 on: 22 September 2018, 04:24:04 pm »
I think you have to make this very clear upon booking. I personally can’t imagine not offering showers, I am more anxious if someone turns down a shower.

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Re: Not letting them use the shower
« Reply #25 on: 22 September 2018, 05:11:57 pm »
I think you have to make this very clear upon booking. I personally can’t imagine not offering showers, I am more anxious if someone turns down a shower.

I rather not do things just cos I need the money, cos It will eat me up afterwards. So those who refuse and turn down a shower. I hand them back the money and ask them to leave. At least I saved myself from fuking disrespectful guy who wants us to be clean and fresh for them and place neat yet they don't and wont clean themselves for the service provider. piss off. Rant over x :FF

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Re: Not letting them use the shower
« Reply #26 on: 22 September 2018, 08:32:34 pm »
No shower  = no OWO.

I sometimes have to tell them to wash their armpits because of the stench.

It's up to each of us but for me, the client doesn't nearly get as much attention from me if he doesn't shower.

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Re: Not letting them use the shower
« Reply #27 on: 22 September 2018, 10:40:25 pm »
I think you have to make this very clear upon booking. I personally can’t imagine not offering showers, I am more anxious if someone turns down a shower.

I make it very clear that I expect them to arrive clean. Even if he wants a shower, he's still got to have a good level of hygiene. I'm sorry, but I don't want someone who reeks walking in, it's utterly disrespectful.

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Re: Not letting them use the shower
« Reply #28 on: 22 September 2018, 10:42:58 pm »
At least I saved myself from fuking disrespectful guy who wants us to be clean and fresh for them and place neat yet they don't and wont clean themselves for the service provider. piss off. Rant over x :FF

I agree with this. I'm always clean and fresh for the booking. Why should they walk through the door stinking? Would they like it if I smelled bad down there, or I had my armpits stinking of sweat?!  :FF

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Re: Not letting them use the shower
« Reply #29 on: 23 September 2018, 01:00:25 am »
I agree with this. I'm always clean and fresh for the booking. Why should they walk through the door stinking? Would they like it if I smelled bad down there, or I had my armpits stinking of sweat?!  :FF

The vast majority of my clients arrive clean, but I think you have to be prepared to cut some a bit of slack - if they do a physical job, have no shower facilities, and can only do a booking e.g. on their way home, I'm fine for them to shower at mine. Most who ask about the possibility of this are a bit apologetic, but I don't really see why: it's more enjoyable for us both if we're both nice and fresh?
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