Author Topic: No Interest From Civvy Men (Read 6516 times)

Tickle · « **Reply #30 on:** 28 September 2021, 09:06:03 am »

Quote from: Miffy on 27 September 2021, 09:52:49 pm

The great paradox of escorting is that my clients treat me far better and are far more considerate of my needs than some of boyfriends ever were. I could even go so far that several casual boyfriends made me feel far more like a hooker than any client who has paid for my time.

I've said the same about doctors. Clients treat me 10x better than any doctor or cop has.

Generally though my eats are open to feedback whether it's a spontaneous comment or an attitude because I'm interested in how people perceive me. One client this week blurted out while he was snogging and goping me that I was "fit". I tend to take this as "not fat" but other clients have said I look "fit" so there is a pattern there.

Another thing is I'm working on my self worth and confidence, and tryig to navigate communication and rapport. I'm not naturally good at this and I hate low information false relationships so it'sa bit of a challenge.

Vintage Miss · « **Reply #31 on:** 03 October 2021, 11:10:11 am »

Men who pay for sex already have exactly what they want, so they are in a good mood about it and are happy to deal out the compliments. Also, they want nothing more from us so no need to play games or piss about. Real life dating comes with all kinds of weird emotional baggage and people can be cold and offish to protect themselves emotionally whilst they figure out what's what. People play games etc

I mean, its pretty easy as a woman if you are even semi-attractive to get 'looks' in the street, but if you want dates or sex you have to be proactive, dating apps/nightclubs etc. Indeed, when we get clients, they are guys who particularly like us; when we actually date we will encounter rejection, because even if we are pretty, we'll never be everyone's cuppa tea etc

Gypsy · « **Reply #32 on:** 15 November 2021, 08:21:52 am »

Well, I think the universe took notice of this post as I met a man last week really randomly and had a date with him this weekend

I'm predominantly looking for 3 things here ...

1. Men who aren't womanisers
2. Men who aren't alpha males

3. Men who are on the submissive side

And he fits all of this criteria pretty well

I think this job over the years has given me crystal clear insight into the type of men I definitely don't want and for that I'm truly grateful

PleasureSales · « **Reply #33 on:** 16 November 2021, 06:49:23 am »

Quote from: Gypsy on 15 November 2021, 08:21:52 am

Well, I think the universe took notice of this post as I met a man last week really randomly and had a date with him this weekend

That sounds very promising, Gypsy, congrats! Does he know what your career is, or are you keeping that to yourself? I struggle with that decision myself.

Gypsy · « **Reply #34 on:** 16 November 2021, 09:12:17 am »

Quote from: PleasureSales on 16 November 2021, 06:49:23 am

That sounds very promising, Gypsy, congrats! Does he know what your career is, or are you keeping that to yourself? I struggle with that decision myself.

Well, I've only had one date so far and it's a long distance thing, so I'm keeping it to myself for now. He has a young child, too, so that puts me off telling him. But there's no way he'll just drop by unannounced.

Escortx · « **Reply #35 on:** 16 November 2021, 10:19:00 am »

How did you meet? I only seem to meet people online and maybe should download tinder again. If it lets me I was banned for no reason last time.

Gypsy · « **Reply #36 on:** 16 November 2021, 01:15:53 pm »

Quote from: Escortx on 16 November 2021, 10:19:00 am

How did you meet? I only seem to meet people online and maybe should download tinder again. If it lets me I was banned for no reason last time.

We met at a function in a pub local to me.

Grace1 · « **Reply #37 on:** 28 November 2021, 05:05:07 pm »

And I see it like this:
When you are at work(escorting)you probably look good (hair, make-up, nice sexy lingerie). You are smiling, you are flirtatious. They feel important in your company ... (they pay us for that). Their ego jumps to the maximum. Then it is much easier to give compliments. And it is less awkward. The boundary of intimacy has been overcome. Nothing to lose by complimenting.

It is more difficult in real life. Recently I heard from a colleague from work (civvie) that I am an attractive woman and that not every man has the courage to meet this type a woman.
Like the last time a guy (in normal work) asked me for a phone number and I refused. It now passes me by, head down, ashamed.

And no, I'm not beauty. I am a nice and smiling average person

Gypsy · « **Reply #38 on:** 29 November 2021, 08:35:51 am »

Well, just an update for you all

The twat who I had the misfortune of meeting 3 weeks ago who said he wanted to get to know people before taking things any further etc etc was just a complete bullshitter who only wanted sex and spat his dummy out when denied it.

I've never met a player who is so utterly toxic and misogynistic.

Can you imagine how I would feel if I did sleep with him ... the guy who I thought genuinely cared would just vanish. Needless to say he tried to turn it all on me and yeah he's completely innocent

Nadya · « **Reply #39 on:** 02 December 2021, 11:53:15 am »

Quote from: Gypsy on 29 November 2021, 08:35:51 am

Well, just an update for you all

The twat who I had the misfortune of meeting 3 weeks ago who said he wanted to get to know people before taking things any further etc etc was just a complete bullshitter who only wanted sex and spat his dummy out when denied it.

I've never met a player who is so utterly toxic and misogynistic.

Can you imagine how I would feel if I did sleep with him ... the guy who I thought genuinely cared would just vanish. Needless to say he tried to turn it all on me and yeah he's completely innocent

Sounds just like the guy who I went on a date with a few weeks ago. All over me like s rash, offering to take me out to this place and that. When I made it clear that I wasn't going back to his place, suddenly he turned nasty. You'd think men in their 50s would be more sensible but nope.

Gypsy · « **Reply #40 on:** 02 December 2021, 01:28:59 pm »

Quote from: Nadya on 02 December 2021, 11:53:15 am

Sounds just like the guy who I went on a date with a few weeks ago. All over me like s rash, offering to take me out to this place and that. When I made it clear that I wasn't going back to his place, suddenly he turned nasty. You'd think men in their 50s would be more sensible but nope.

Have I mentioned this piece of shit was 47 ...?

I'm 36 and I think it's wise to stay clear of men over 40 from now on. IME, younger men are much more polite and respectful.

Time for a toy boy

Gypsy · « **Reply #41 on:** 02 December 2021, 01:35:30 pm »

Also, unlike you, he wasn't all over me, either. Quite the opposite really. He was stand offish with closed body language ... and yet he still expected me to sleep with him

At the time, I had no idea what was going on inside his head because of his body language. There was no affection whatsoever

If he wanted to sleep with me he could have been a bit more enthusiastic himself

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