I think being in sex work, I’m a lot more sceptical of men’s intentions in civvy life/dating so I probably don’t give out the same energy I might had I never been in this line of work and had my eyes opened. In private life I’m not looking for a quick shag or a fling and I make men work harder for my affections if I’m going to be with them for free. So it’s maybe not so much about seeming repulsive outside of sex work, maybe just a little less obtainable.

Let’s factor in that majority of civvy men would never ever date a prostitute and outright reject the whole idea, so perhaps we’ve invisible for them due to that.

I think being in sex work, I’m a lot more sceptical of men’s intentions in civvy life/dating so I probably don’t give out the same energy I might had I never been in this line of work and had my eyes opened. In private life I’m not looking for a quick shag or a fling and I make men work harder for my affections if I’m going to be with them for free. So it’s maybe not so much about seeming repulsive outside of sex work, maybe just a little less obtainable.

Haha to be honest it was getting back in the civvie dating scene that sent me back to escorting  a lot of civvie guys around my age now that I meet either have toxic past relationships and they now have issues with women, coke/alcohol problems, or pretending to be single when they arnt so they can land me as a side chick! This was after splitting from a 10 year relationship with children I honestly thought sod it I'm going back to escorting i can't deal with this 

It was seeing how nice clients were to me that made me realise what an ungrateful shit my ex was, tbf.