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sadie x

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Never understood,why escorts boast to clients??
« on: 17 July 2012, 04:17:05 pm »
 Something i have never done,is talk to a customer honestly about money,unless its been that i am quiet.
ive always thought of it like an un-written rule,to never boast,saying i earn x amount..
What reminded me of this,was yesterday a customer was shocked i was quiet..but then went on to say other escorts can/make xxx amount a day..
this has been said to me plenty of times in the past and i always have the same thought.
why the hell is she letting a client think we are all loaded and rolling in it?
even in days gone by,when times were good,i always kept my earnings to myself and downplayed it..
Plus its dangorous,letting a man think that kind of money is there every time they work..
the narrow mindedness of some men,is we are all earning a fortune,when this girl/girls..could work all hours god sent..
and every earning of each girl is different..
just annoys me comments like this,when its extremly quiet and its a struggle..
keep this info,to yourself :(

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Re: Never understood,why escorts boast to clients??
« Reply #1 on: 17 July 2012, 04:45:20 pm »
I find it interesting that you take the clients word that said girl earns this or that.the client could be lying, got the wrong end of the stick, made their own conclusions etc. But you certainly wouldn't know what was said because you were not there, with the client and the girl. I don't see how you can say that anyone is 'boasting' by taking the word of a client. And even if the girl  was, so what? It doesn't effect your business. If her business is going well, then good for them, and if they want to share that, well that's entirely their choice.

 I personally find it icky to talk about finances to anyone, but if a client asks how business is I wouldn't lie either way. I would just say fine or quiet and move the conversation on.

I think it is important not to let a client think that you have thousands under the mattress though.

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sadie x

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Re: Never understood,why escorts boast to clients??
« Reply #2 on: 17 July 2012, 05:11:12 pm »
yea your right i dont know for sure..
but my guess is they have..
and i dont like it,i dont like a guy assuming i make a grand a day..
when im dead,so if an escort has said it,just wish she wouldnt.. keep your earnings to yourself.
dont make yourself selves a magnet.thats my opinion..



Brown Eyed Girl

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Re: Never understood,why escorts boast to clients??
« Reply #3 on: 17 July 2012, 05:15:50 pm »
The issue of money is something that some clients do like to talk about. Admittedly you don?t know whether to believe it or not. I once had a guy who went to see someone very similar to me (hence why I think he felt it appropriate to comment) tell me that she had informed him she was earning 250k. I?m sure some girls do divulge this sort of information. Personally I don?t see why they feel it necessary or appropriate but each to their own I suppose.

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Re: Never understood,why escorts boast to clients??
« Reply #4 on: 17 July 2012, 06:56:22 pm »
and some clients would use a conversation like this as a bluff to get another escort to open up about her earnings or make comments about the escort that has supposedly  said this to him in the first place.  i tend to find a lot of clients shit stirrers and wouldnt pay much attention to any gossip that they talk of regarding any other escorts.  although yes i do beleive some ladies might get a bit loose lipped too

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Re: Never understood,why escorts boast to clients??
« Reply #5 on: 17 July 2012, 07:11:45 pm »
and some clients also talk out of their arse. 

How many punters have you seen on punter boards that think that because a girl charges ?150 an hour and that she is available for 12 hours a day seven days a week that she must therefore make ?12600 a week?  Because they cannot tell the difference between being available and actually being booked.

They have no concept of being self employed because the majority of them are wage slaves. 

I am sure there are girls out there who do tell clients that they can make x amount, but I doubt anyone would tell the honest truth.  I'm sure some girls exaggerate and others down play how much they make.  Some girls don't want clients to think they are desperate for bookings so like to give the appearance that they can take or leave the booking.  Other girls are busy but don't want clients to think that they are going to be tired and risk them not booking them, so they downplay it.

Take everything a client tells you with a hefty shovel of salt. 

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Re: Never understood,why escorts boast to clients??
« Reply #6 on: 17 July 2012, 08:03:54 pm »
I wish I had some clients to boast to...!  :-[  cue the tumbleweeds....

 :( ???

It has been quiet hasn't it?

You're right they can be the biggest shit stirrers going!! For some daft reason, I don't know why. What has it got to do with them anyways. Don't you just hate it when when a client says "Well I bet that's the easiest ?100 you've earned!!" Fuck off it's nowt to do with you.

Girls shouldn't give a punter any idea of what she does or doesn't earn.

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Re: Never understood,why escorts boast to clients??
« Reply #7 on: 18 July 2012, 10:34:59 am »
I am finding that I'm seeing some guys that used to come see me years ago have started coming. It will have been 3/4 yrs in some cases since I've seen them. I know they do "the rounds" & get fed & swop & change.

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Re: Never understood,why escorts boast to clients??
« Reply #8 on: 18 July 2012, 11:50:56 am »
I take what clients say with a pinch of salt.

I also NEVER tell them how much I make in a week/month or how many clients I've see.

I believe in 'what happens within the four walls' should stay within the four walls and this is the main reason I am totally against field reports and don't hold much salt in feedback.  Many a time it is just a guy who is feeding his own ego or the ego of the WG. 

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Re: Never understood,why escorts boast to clients??
« Reply #9 on: 18 July 2012, 02:38:10 pm »
If there's one thing I loathe from clients it's the 'have you been busy?' question.

Do they want to know because they want to get off on hearing you've shagged 10 guys that day and it's only 2pm?

Or do they want to know that you only see one or two guys a day, with five hours in between spent scrubbing every trace of client no 1 off your bod?

Or are they hoping you've been busy so they can rob your cash?

Or, finally, is it just small talk that they haven't really thought about, much as many of us ask taxi drivers if they've been busy that day?

A veritable minefield.

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Re: Never understood,why escorts boast to clients??
« Reply #10 on: 18 July 2012, 03:35:58 pm »
My answer always to anything like this is busy enough to be happy could be busier could be quieter but either way I am happy.

I have had a few guys ask what I make and I always feel like turning the question round and asking them what they make.... Too polite though LOL!

Again I make enough to be happy could make morecould make less.  It is when they are trying to get hold of me or book an appointment in tat you get ooo you must be busy which is a bit annoying as I am then caught in the headlights so to speak.

I also take anything the guys tell me with a pinch of salt.

I have even had guys attempt to give me financial advice and tell me how I should handle my cash and even ask what I do with it - like I would tell them it is shoved under the mattress (not that it is) makes me chuckle, oo buy the way there is 20K under the bed just have a quick sneeky peek if you like LOL!!! ::).  Again I politely tell them I have it under control and I am happy with my arrangements so to speak.


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Re: Never understood,why escorts boast to clients??
« Reply #11 on: 19 July 2012, 12:40:18 am »
I have been on doubles etc where the other girls have said to the client in front of me how 'loaded we are' 'how easy it is' and 'how busy we are'

So f-king embarrassing! WHY OH WHY!

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Re: Never understood,why escorts boast to clients??
« Reply #12 on: 27 July 2012, 02:24:34 pm »
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